Tall, masculine, macho... a total bottom??

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    Jan 01, 2011 11:47 AM GMT
    Hi guys
    I just feel like sharing this with you - last night I went to a NY party at a local gay club an it was very nice. However, the funny thing was that at some point a quite tall and big muscular guy litrally picked me up and took me to the dark room, as if I was a puppy or something. And I expected him to fuck my brains out and it turned out he was a total bottom... he just took his pants off and got ready for it. For a second I was just standing there wondering if I am too drunk but then I got to it... but still.

    It never fails to suprise me how some of the most masculine men turn out to be mainly bottoms. I know it's silly to asume that more masculine guys are tops, and more feminine and slim - bottom, but it still sometimes suprises me : )))

    Enjoy the holidays!!!
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    Jan 01, 2011 11:53 AM GMT
    Actually I'm variable instead of vers since I like what the other guy likes, if he's a bottom I want to (80% of the time) or if he's top I want to top (again 80% of the time). So I try not to think of the lines of masculine = top or feminine = bottom since well you're in for the unexpected at times icon_razz.gif
  • rnch

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    Jan 01, 2011 3:18 PM GMT
    as the OP found out; there is NO correlation between being "masculine looking" and being a top or a bottom.

    isn't Lifeitsownself grand!

  • Beeftastic

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    Jan 01, 2011 8:45 PM GMT
    Actually it's my experience that many (over 50%) hyper masculine gay guys are bottoms! I think that it might have something to do with being very self confident.