So......what type am I?

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    Jan 02, 2011 12:14 AM GMT
    I mean since coming out to my friend, all we do is check out guys. And we have completely different taste in guys. So my friend told me about the whole "type". And I been trying to date guys but not none of the guys I show interest in seem to be interested in me. So I was wondering what "type" I am and what kind of guys will fall for me. This way I will know what kind of guys I should focus on.

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    Jan 02, 2011 12:41 AM GMT
    I dunno.. from reading your profile you type is a person who likes watching too much tv and playing too many video games.. who doesn't like vegetables and doesn't like people who blame everything on TV
    LOL

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    Jan 02, 2011 2:17 AM GMT
    beneful1 saidI dunno.. from reading your profile you type is a person who likes watching too much tv and playing too many video games.. who doesn't like vegetables and doesn't like people who blame everything on TV
    LOL



    LOL.
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    Jan 02, 2011 2:25 AM GMT
    Just from looking at your profile and pics, you seem like a pretty normal guy, so I'm gonna guess Arial or Courier.
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    Jan 02, 2011 2:30 AM GMT
    Simply from your picture, you look preppy to me. It's not negative or anything, just a type of look. It's mostly because of the shirts you wear in your pics.
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    Jan 02, 2011 2:37 AM GMT
    HeartRobb saidJust from looking at your profile and pics, you seem like a pretty normal guy, so I'm gonna guess Arial or Courier.


    LOL. How esoteric! icon_cool.gif
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    Jan 02, 2011 2:50 AM GMT
    HeartRobb saidJust from looking at your profile and pics, you seem like a pretty normal guy, so I'm gonna guess Arial or Courier.


    i'm not sure what that suppose to mean icon_confused.gif
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    Jan 02, 2011 2:55 AM GMT
    hmmm your a twink but just try not be slutty like most are

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    Jan 02, 2011 2:59 AM GMT
    arial and courier are fonts--you weren't taken seriously

    don't worry about types or labels. be confident, figure out who you are and what you want and you'll attract the people you want
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    Jan 02, 2011 3:07 AM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    gta129 said
    HeartRobb saidJust from looking at your profile and pics, you seem like a pretty normal guy, so I'm gonna guess Arial or Courier.


    i'm not sure what that suppose to mean icon_confused.gif

    I think HB was simply making a (quite clever, as usual) quip on how we (gay guys) use the word "type", as if there were only so many finite options for you to be, like picking a font "type" in Word...you had to be one thing or another (and, perhaps like the ball on a roulette wheel, you just needed a little help settling into one preset definition.)

    But I've never met HB, so I really don't know what they hell he meant.



    Heartrobb has a sense of humor that only he seems to be entertained by.
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    Jan 02, 2011 3:22 AM GMT
    Well, Idk but u're not alone, none of the guys I show interest in seem to be interested in me too icon_confused.gif
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    Jan 02, 2011 3:28 AM GMT
    expensive...
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    Jan 02, 2011 3:55 AM GMT
    juniorsbd saidWell, Idk but u're not alone, none of the guys I show interest in seem to be interested in me too icon_confused.gif


    i don't see why! You look smokin hot.
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    Jan 02, 2011 4:16 AM GMT
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    juniorsbd saidWell, Idk but u're not alone, none of the guys I show interest in seem to be interested in me too icon_confused.gif


    i don't see why! You look smokin hot.


    It happens to everybody. Just continue to chat with guys, and when you find one that's displaying some interest, roll with it.

    If a guy brushes me off, I normally just tell myself that he has herpes, and it makes it pretty easy to move along.
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    Jan 02, 2011 4:21 AM GMT
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    gta129 said
    juniorsbd saidWell, Idk but u're not alone, none of the guys I show interest in seem to be interested in me too icon_confused.gif


    i don't see why! You look smokin hot.


    It happens to everybody. Just continue to chat with guys, and when you find one that's displaying some interest, roll with it.

    If a guy brushes me off, I normally just tell myself that he has herpes, and it makes it pretty easy to move along.


    That was beyond funny LMAO. You're awesome icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 02, 2011 4:26 AM GMT
    You're cute. I wouldn't bulk too much unless it's pure muscle. I think it’s a shame when a guy who looks fine the way he is tries to bulk and ends up fat. Also don't label yourself as a type. First off types can change. Second if someone finds you attractive it's because they find YOU attractive it doesn't matter what "type" you are.
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    Jan 02, 2011 4:42 AM GMT
    staple_ said
    It happens to everybody. Just continue to chat with guys, and when you find one that's displaying some interest, roll with it.

    If a guy brushes me off, I normally just tell myself that he has herpes, and it makes it pretty easy to move along.



    LMAO! That's what i try too, but its not working anymore. 90% of the guys I msg don't msg me back. All I do is ask them how they are doing and introduce myself. I'm wasn't asking them to unlock their private pics or how big it is. Still no one even replies back to my msg. People on the forum said its cause of my profile cause all I had was pics of my junk. So I decided to change my profile yesterday and its only been worse.
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    Jan 02, 2011 4:48 AM GMT
    REBELATHEART saidhmmm your a twink but just try not be slutty like most are ME

    Fixed. icon_cool.gif
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    Jan 02, 2011 4:49 AM GMT
    My advice (and it's been hard for me to listen to this myself) is try not to care about what people think and just be yourself. People will pigeonhole based on looks, class, hair color or whatever, don't do anyone the favor of fitting into preconceived ideas by trying to become a type.

    Just be you.
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    Jan 02, 2011 4:52 AM GMT
    gta129 said
    staple_ said

    It happens to everybody. Just continue to chat with guys, and when you find one that's displaying some interest, roll with it.

    If a guy brushes me off, I normally just tell myself that he has herpes, and it makes it pretty easy to move along.


    LMAO! That's what i try too, but its not working anymore. 90% of the guys I msg don't msg me back. All I do is ask them how they are doing and introduce myself. I'm wasn't asking them to unlock their private pics or how big it is. Still no one even replies back to my msg. People on the forum said its cause of my profile cause all I had was pics of my junk. So I decided to change my profile yesterday and its only been worse.


    Why do you care about guys messaging you online? It's not like they're going to virtually tap ya'. Go out to a gay bar with some friends and meet some actual potential.

    In the meantime though..post one of these un-returned messages, and I'll tell you what's wrong with it.
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    Jan 02, 2011 4:54 AM GMT
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    REBELATHEART saidhmmm your a twink but just try not be slutty like most are ME

    Fixed. icon_cool.gif


    HAHA That's great and a fact all in one.
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    Jan 02, 2011 5:02 AM GMT
    I'm speechless to this threat lol.. not sure what to answer.
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    Jan 02, 2011 5:02 AM GMT
    gta129 saidI mean since coming out to my friend, all we do is check out guys. And we have completely different taste in guys. So my friend told me about the whole "type". And I been trying to date guys but not none of the guys I show interest in seem to be interested in me. So I was wondering what "type" I am and what kind of guys will fall for me. This way I will know what kind of guys I should focus on.

    Thanks


    There is absolutely no way to predict who will be attracted to you.

    For example, some twinks like big muscle guys. Some like other twinks. Some like chubs.

    Some big muscle guys only like other big muscle guys. Some actually prefer skinny guys. Some actually like chubs.

    And so on. Some guys prefer blondes, some prefer brunettes, some don't give a damn. Some guys like a wide range of guys, other guys like only certain types or even just one type.

    There's just no way to predict.

    If anyone does offer advice as to which "type" is likely to be attracted to you, that person is either joshing you or doesn't know what he's talking about.
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    Jan 02, 2011 5:03 AM GMT
    staple_ said
    Why do you care about guys messaging you online? It's not like they're going to virtually tap ya'. Go out to a gay bar with some friends and meet some actual potential.

    In the meantime though..post one of these un-returned messages, and I'll tell you what's wrong with it.


    This is pretty much all I send them.

    hey, how are you?
    my name is Mayu
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    Jan 02, 2011 5:19 AM GMT
    gta129 said
    staple_ said
    Why do you care about guys messaging you online? It's not like they're going to virtually tap ya'. Go out to a gay bar with some friends and meet some actual potential.

    In the meantime though..post one of these un-returned messages, and I'll tell you what's wrong with it.


    This is pretty much all I send them.

    hey, how are you?
    my name is Mayu


    Alright, I see our problem here.

    #1. "hey, how are you?" is a dead end conversation anyway. You're really stressing over the "Good, You?" that you'd get back?

    #2. Don't tell him your name. He doesn't care because he has no idea who you are. If he shows some interest, then get into that shit.

    Your name is also pretty left field, and he might think you're this weird foreigner. Show him that your name is unique, AFTER he's established that you're fluent in English.

    #3. Fire him a compliment about his profile or picture, then end with a question. He'll feel bad if he doesn't answer because you were nice to him.

    ie) Hey, your profile is hilarious. How was your New Years, man?