I must repeat myself, it seems.

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    Jan 02, 2011 11:13 AM GMT
    Someone tried cruising hubby tonight in the weight room during our first visit to our new gym (a 24 hour fitness), so I believe this calls for a reiteration of what I often state:

    You cruise, you lose!
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    Jan 02, 2011 1:07 PM GMT
    FearTheFall saidSomeone tried cruising hubby tonight in the weight room during our first visit to our new gym (a 24 hour fitness), so I believe this calls for a reiteration of what I often state:

    You cruise, you lose!


    If your hubby ignores them, surely they'll just go away.
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    Jan 02, 2011 1:15 PM GMT
    If I were your husband (and if the cruiser guy was hot), I would have cheated...just to spite you.
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    Jan 02, 2011 1:58 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidIf I were your husband (and if the cruiser guy was hot), I would have cheated...just to spite you.

    In other words, in his hubby's case, you sin you win.
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    Jan 02, 2011 2:11 PM GMT
    It sounds like you are far too insecure or immature to be calling anyone "hubby" yet. So what if some guy "cruises" your "hubby" ? Unless by "cruising" you mean your guy whipped out his dick for him, or started humping him. icon_rolleyes.gif

    Guys look my man up and down often (especially at the nude beach - it is hard not to notice what he packs (or has unpacked - there) icon_lol.gif
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    Jan 02, 2011 2:15 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    paulflexes saidIf I were your husband (and if the cruiser guy was hot), I would have cheated...just to spite you.

    In other words, in his hubby's case, you sin you win.
    Pretty much. icon_lol.gif
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    Jan 02, 2011 2:31 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Art_Deco said
    paulflexes saidIf I were your husband (and if the cruiser guy was hot), I would have cheated...just to spite you.

    In other words, in his hubby's case, you sin you win.
    Pretty much. icon_lol.gif




    Well in the words of Almighty Depeche Mode..

    I give in, to sin, because we have to make this life livable.
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    Jan 02, 2011 2:37 PM GMT
    [quote]


    Well in the words of Almighty Depeche Mode..

    I give in, to sin, because we have to make this life livable.[/quote]

    If you had asked me yesterday if there was ever an appropriate... nay, classy... time to quote Depeche Mode, I would have said "You so crazy."

    Mynyun, can I start calling you sensei?
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    Jan 02, 2011 3:14 PM GMT
    I am saying this in the nicest way possible. Stop calling your bf of a couple of months your hubby. You come off as a giant prick whose world will come crashing down when you two break up. It's very naive.

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    Jan 02, 2011 3:18 PM GMT
    haha, its a new low. it hotlisted itself.
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    Jan 02, 2011 3:20 PM GMT
    Pinny saidI am saying this in the nicest way possible. Stop calling your bf of a couple of months your hubby. You come off as a giant prick whose world will come crashing down when you two break up. It's very naive.



    Oh, he is just playing grown-up. He does not yet know what is really means to make that kind of commitment. At his age he can barely share his toys much less appreciate sharing all assets and liabilities with another. icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 02, 2011 3:22 PM GMT
    pat3rob saidhaha, its a new low. it hotlisted itself.


    Oh gawd that's cute! icon_lol.gif

    where cute is meant in a "sad, pathetic" way
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    Jan 02, 2011 3:24 PM GMT
    UpperCanadian said
    Oh, he is just playing grown-up. He does not yet know what is really means to make that kind of commitment. At his age he can barely share his toys much less appreciate sharing all assets and liabilities with another. icon_wink.gif

    At 21, I still didn't know if I really wanted tacos or hotdogs let alone calling the person I was dating at the time "hubby".

    Secondly, since when did Fearthefall become the gay moral arbiter of the world? I say props to the man who was hitting on your "hubby" for being open and having the guts to approach him.

    When people are interested in someone and don't want to regret not doing something about it, it's called being outgoing.
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    Jan 02, 2011 4:33 PM GMT
    Why on earth would I want to take lifestyle advice from you?
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    Jan 02, 2011 4:37 PM GMT
    Pinny said You come off as a giant prick whose world will come crashing down when you two break up. It's very naive.



    That´s about the impression I get of him from the rest of his posting.... Naive, slightly hysterical and sanctimonious.

    And how is chatting to a guy in the gym a bad thing?
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    Jan 02, 2011 4:44 PM GMT
    Pinny said
    UpperCanadian said
    Oh, he is just playing grown-up. He does not yet know what is really means to make that kind of commitment. At his age he can barely share his toys much less appreciate sharing all assets and liabilities with another. icon_wink.gif

    At 21, I still didn't know if I really wanted tacos or hotdogs let alone calling the person I was dating at the time "hubby".

    Secondly, since when did Fearthefall become the gay moral arbiter of the world? I say props to the man who was hitting on your "hubby" for being open and having the guts to approach him.

    When people are interested in someone and don't want to regret not doing something about it, it's called being outgoing.


    What's making me chuckle is that unless hubby is wearing a wedding ring or a placard that states he's in a monogamous relationship FTF's position is rather silly.

    *waiting to hear FTF's definition of cruising*

    -Doug
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    Jan 02, 2011 4:50 PM GMT
    meninlove saidWhat's making me chuckle is that unless hubby is wearing a wedding ring or a placard that states he's in a monogamous relationship FTF's position is rather silly.


    I was thinking the same thing. Maybe they were holding hands while working out?
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    Jan 02, 2011 4:58 PM GMT
    OMG!!! If you are THAT insecure about your relationship, perhaps you should just keep him locked up in the basement!!!
    If someone "cruised" MY "hubby"... I would consider it a compliment... "I've got him, you don't...."
    JEEZUS, kid...get over it and quit boring us with your insecurities!!!!
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    Jan 02, 2011 5:09 PM GMT
    FearTheFall saidSomeone tried cruising hubby tonight in the weight room during our first visit to our new gym (a 24 hour fitness), so I believe this calls for a reiteration of what I often state:

    You cruise, you lose!


    Fearthefall, you're quite a heartthrob.

    By saying this, does that mean you kicked his ass? Told him where to go?

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    Jan 02, 2011 5:10 PM GMT
    Quite frankly Bill getting cruised (and he tells me the same goes for me) shows that he's still 'got it' and makes me feel a little better about something happening to me (dying). It means he still has a chance to find love again, should we separated by the veil between life and death. The idea of me watching him (through that veil) suffering and lonely horrifies me.

    It also demonstrates how he feels about me; politely rejecting another's advances and telling the other guy why.

    -Doug
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    Jan 02, 2011 5:16 PM GMT
    Yeah I don't really understand why you're mad. Shouldn't you be really happy that your "hubby" chose not to cheat on you, and even happier that he told you about it and wasn't "keeping secrets" or something like that?
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    Jan 02, 2011 5:45 PM GMT
    FearTheFall saidSomeone tried cruising hubby tonight in the weight room during our first visit to our new gym (a 24 hour fitness), so I believe this calls for a reiteration of what I often state:

    You cruise, you lose!


    If you're attached to a handsome man, get used to people looking at him. Beware jealousy. It can kill a relationship.
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    Jan 02, 2011 5:49 PM GMT
    You cruise you lose is probably one of the stupidest comments I've read on this site. I'm imagining the OP and his hubby never cruising each other, lol!

    -Doug
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    Jan 02, 2011 5:51 PM GMT
    Friendsrbetter saidOMG!!! If you are THAT insecure about your relationship, perhaps you should just keep him locked up in the basement!!!
    If someone "cruised" MY "hubby"... I would consider it a compliment... "I've got him, you don't...."
    JEEZUS, kid...get over it and quit boring us with your insecurities!!!!


    It does sound like a hostage situation, doesn't it?
    This kinda thing ended my relationship....
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    Jan 02, 2011 5:53 PM GMT
    I would be a hostage for the right guy. icon_wink.gif