TRUST

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    Mar 24, 2008 4:58 AM GMT
    What is trust to you? And how does one uphold established trust in a relationship?
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    Mar 24, 2008 9:55 AM GMT
    Hmm...interesting question
    Trust to me is having someone always thinking of your best interest and not hurting you in anyway
    and to get it going and keeping it alive you have to open up to someone and trust them back
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    Mar 24, 2008 4:08 PM GMT
    Trust...to trust someone is when you know that you can tell everything to someone and you know it will stay between you two, but that someone must also feel that he/she can tell you everything as well. Trust is a mutual thing, it cannot be gained right away, it comes with the time you spend with someone, and when it comes, you just know it. It's like when you walk on ice, and you know that if you slip, that someone will catch you.
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    Mar 24, 2008 4:22 PM GMT
    damned_hunter saidTrust...to trust someone is when you know that you can tell everything to someone and you know it will stay between you two, but that someone must also feel that he/she can tell you everything as well. Trust is a mutual thing, it cannot be gained right away, it comes with the time you spend with someone, and when it comes, you just know it. It's like when you walk on ice, and you know that if you slip, that someone will catch you.


    You're so smart and sweet. I like you ;) That's exactly how I feel. But Trust is also knowing that your partner will speak for you on issues you know little about when faced with an arguement with someone. You/They take a supportive position and though you/they may be wrong, you/they still hold your back. But it's also pretty basic too, like leaving your wallet, checkbook or credit card out; and knowing that they won't write themselves out of debt or use your money and lie about it.
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    Mar 31, 2008 10:51 PM GMT
    Hmm. trust exist in different levels. With my ex-gf of 11 years i trusted her..throw her in a pit of men..no worries. same bank account..no worries. no judgement no secrets (she knew i was gay when we started).
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    Mar 31, 2008 11:00 PM GMT
    To use an overused term they "walk the talk". If they say they will not cheat on you they don't, when they say they will pay you back they do. when they say they are going to call you they do, etc..