Is EVERY gay guy skinny but me?

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    Jan 02, 2011 10:52 PM GMT
    Im fat, I know it. I am losing weight finally and I'm only 18. It just irks me that every other guy in here has a tiny waist perfect skin. Am I the only hefty gay in the world?
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    Jan 02, 2011 11:41 PM GMT
    uh, you def have not searched the profiles brother....take another look...some of us are far less than trim.......................................Keithicon_cool.gif
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    Jan 03, 2011 12:33 AM GMT
    Yep, you're the only fat kid on the block. All the other kids are ripped with 8-pack abs. What's your problem? icon_razz.gif

    /sarcasm

    <-- Ex-fatass icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 03, 2011 12:36 AM GMT
    I was fat when I was 16, then joined karate classes for a year and they kicked my ass and lost a lot of weight. Still by 18 I had some fat around mid-section, but dedication to loosing weight I started walking, then running and finally it was gone. So keep your will strong and you will be there.
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    Jan 03, 2011 12:38 AM GMT
    You're not the only one

    and this is a fitness website, so you'd find majority of members to have "thin waists."
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    Jan 03, 2011 12:39 AM GMT
    I used to call myself fat, but then I realized I'm just a nutritional overachiever.
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    Jan 03, 2011 12:43 AM GMT
    Glad you said every other guy and not every guy here has a thin waist because there are plenty of fatties on this site. Some looking to get in shape and maybe more who have no intentions of doing so. They're here for the eye candy and collecting friends and that's it.
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    Jan 03, 2011 12:55 AM GMT
    vetteset saidsome of us are far less than trim


    Good wording icon_smile.gif

    Hey Evan trust me most of these "tiny waist" guys have had their days in XXL or XL so don't get too down about it!

    Bravo on your choice to lose weight, it's a long hard road to maintain but with commitment and a positive attitude you can do it!

    Cheers!
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    Jan 03, 2011 12:58 AM GMT
    Ah, your pic is now approved so i can see it Well you are only 18 so you still have your puppy fat but I can see a really good looking face. An ex of mine lost that look through the simple expedient of not ordering food deliveries any more; (always too much food and he was raised not to waste food, so he would eat it all., even though he was no longer hungry) We always cooked., and ended eachmeal with a glass of milk or water (just something to make his tummy feel full) THEN we would have dessert (but not every night) And we would go for a walk together around the block. The weight dropped off him steadily and he looked awesome!

    Also because he stopped smoking in the house his skin improved a lot. (cigarette smoke running up your face causes lines and discolours the skin.) Within 18 months he dropped from 260 to 180)
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    Jan 03, 2011 1:00 AM GMT
    Pervert saidI used to call myself fat, but then I realized I'm just a nutritional overachiever.


    Love this......k
  • disasterpiece

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    Jan 03, 2011 1:01 AM GMT
    I weighted 210 pounds until I was 19 years old. Then I came down to my actual weight. It was hard, and it took 4 years, but you're still young, and you don't look that fat.

    Of what I can see, you seem to have a pretty heavy bone structure. That's not bad, but you'll never be a "skinny" twink. Although, you'll definitely be able to lose the extra weight if you do the efforts.

    It just take some time and will. Don't worry icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 03, 2011 1:12 AM GMT
    Use to weigh 242lbs and now I'm at 191lbs. I still have 40 more pounds to go *sigh!*
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    Jan 03, 2011 1:16 AM GMT
    You are on a gay health and fitness website... Chances are most of the people are healthy and fit.
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    Jan 03, 2011 1:27 AM GMT
    Just be yourself.. You will be just fine
  • joncfernan

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    Jan 03, 2011 1:27 AM GMT
    If thats the size you want to be - don't let others bother you. You're perfectly fine the way you are (unless you're eating unhealthy)

    And if you want to slim down/build up - put effort into that and you can make it there too. Point is, our bodies are designed to meet any challenge we set to it - concentrate more on what you can do physically and less on what affects you mentally/emotionally.
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    Jan 03, 2011 1:31 AM GMT
    THE ONLY GAY IN THE VILLAGE! LOL (BRITISH HUMOR)
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    Jan 03, 2011 2:39 AM GMT
    Lenoxx said Use to weigh 242lbs and now I'm at 191lbs. I still have 40 more pounds to go *sigh!*


    You'll get there man, have faith and patience! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 03, 2011 2:45 AM GMT
    Ricovelas said
    Lenoxx said Use to weigh 242lbs and now I'm at 191lbs. I still have 40 more pounds to go *sigh!*


    You'll get there man, have faith and patience! icon_biggrin.gif


    Hell yeah I'll get there! I'm not going back to 242 again!!! even though... hiding things under my titties was quite amusing at times...

    Thanks for the encouragement icon_biggrin.gif
  • turtleneckjoc...

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    Jan 03, 2011 2:47 AM GMT
    Not hardly. Just check out the picture of lard gut here at the Rays game. That pic was taken back in late September and not much has changed......
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    Jan 03, 2011 2:50 AM GMT
    Kid, I have to warn you.... don't start threads like this or you'll bring out chuckystud who will eviscerate you.
  • Bunjamon

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    Jan 03, 2011 2:50 AM GMT
    We're all on the way to getting the body we want or working to maintain the body that we have. Don't get discouraged, and if you don't like what you see now, this site is good motivation to create the change you need.
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    Jan 03, 2011 2:55 AM GMT
    I mean, the site is called real jock not real slob
    And we are talking bout gay men...

    Put 2 & 2 together
  • needleninja

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    Jan 03, 2011 3:02 AM GMT
    mmm, idk, i have high motabolism, and yet im growing a tummy, but thats cause im eating to much, and it happens all the time. i need to eat lest from now on -_-
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    Jan 03, 2011 3:04 AM GMT
    you see most what you desire most.. you want to be skinny so you look at the crowd and see the skinny guys and everyone is skinny.
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    Jan 03, 2011 3:07 AM GMT
    Bunjamon saidWe're all on the way to getting the body we want or working to maintain the body that we have. Don't get discouraged, and if you don't like what you see now, this site is good motivation to create the change you need.


    Exactly.

    Also, as someone else above pointed out...this is a fitness website. Most guys here are on this site because we share a committment to fitness.

    Stay with it...you'll get where you want.