On being Top or Bottom: By Birth or By Choice?

  • inblubxrz

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    Jan 03, 2011 10:39 PM GMT
    what do you think? ;)
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    Jan 03, 2011 11:36 PM GMT
    Some guys born to be a top or bottom, others it's chosen.

    I was born to be a top and well learned to bottom and both are good icon_razz.gif
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    Jan 04, 2011 8:32 AM GMT
    all i can say on this topic is, i love giving head!!!!
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    Jan 04, 2011 8:34 AM GMT
    It's possibly a mixture of nature and nurture.
  • jonwaltglat

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    Jan 04, 2011 8:37 AM GMT
    DR2K saidIt's possibly a mixture of nature and nurture.


    I agree. I think that a guy's body also plays into it. Some guys can just take it better than others and that depends on his overall body size, his mental state, his health, etc.

    I'm for it all though! icon_razz.gificon_twisted.gif
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    Jan 04, 2011 8:37 AM GMT
    WOW. Op's hot...

    Which were YOU born to do sir?icon_razz.gif
  • Bunjamon

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    Jan 04, 2011 8:40 AM GMT
    I think there's probably a natural proclivity to one of the other or both, but that doesn't set you in that role at all, you can enjoy both and be good a both even if you think you were born solely to pound or born only to have your feet in the air.
  • Beeftastic

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    Jan 04, 2011 9:32 AM GMT
    I think it's mostly nurture myself. I think it's an emotional response. But there is also physical component. I am a top, and I have tried to bottom a lot, but while it doesn't hurt snd can feel good,I know it don't feel as good as the obvious response I see from the bottoms I get to fuck icon_smile.gif For me it can feel good, but I am always left thinking 'that was nice, now what's next?'

  • DarkSensation

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    Jan 04, 2011 9:41 AM GMT


    It's by Birth.....if I could Choose I would be a Total Top
  • inblubxrz

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    Jan 04, 2011 10:17 AM GMT
    ewe_nik saidWOW. Op's hot...

    Which were YOU born to do sir?icon_razz.gif


    haha. thanks!

    Well, living here in the US and having a relatively smaller built due to ethnicity, it might seem to be that I was born to be bottom.

    But I'm top....but might take turns and be a bottom for the right man icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 04, 2011 10:25 AM GMT
    Neither. It's by conforming to current societal pressure.

  • inblubxrz

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    Jan 04, 2011 10:48 PM GMT
    Animus saidNeither. It's by conforming to current societal pressure.



    hmmm...isn't that a bit sad if you feel you need to conform to society? ...to think that being a proud gay is often associated to liberation.

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    Jan 04, 2011 10:52 PM GMT
    You're norm with a preference for top/bottom/versatile.. but yo can always learn to enjoy new things....
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    Jan 04, 2011 11:00 PM GMT
    inblubxrz said
    Animus saidNeither. It's by conforming to current societal pressure.



    hmmm...isn't that a bit sad if you feel you need to conform to society? ...to think that being a proud gay is often associated to liberation.



    No, it's not sad, because I don't feel the need to conform. You, on the other hand do and, apparently, did actually conform. Who's the sad one again?

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    Jan 05, 2011 1:03 AM GMT
    Definitely choice. I guess through sexual experience one finds what they like. I personally am vers cause i'm greedy i suppose, like em both hehe icon_twisted.gif

    Always play safe no matter what especially if you don't know the dude well lol..common sense.
  • Mikeylikesit

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    Jan 05, 2011 1:09 AM GMT
    Well for me personally it kinda sux cuz i tend to shoot too quickly, so hense I guess I don't make a "good" top....but i enjoy both....icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 05, 2011 1:13 AM GMT
    inblubxrz saidwhat do you think? ;)


    TOP here by birth (ahem...genes) and choiceicon_wink.gif
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    Jan 05, 2011 1:29 AM GMT
    I feel like I could be both of them. Im probably just versatile, I cant imagine settling down with a guy who doesn't like it both ways. Too many guys get stuck in a rut.
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    Jan 05, 2011 1:51 AM GMT
    lol this is too silly to reply to. Have fun, guys.

  • inblubxrz

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    Jan 05, 2011 2:25 AM GMT
    meninlove said lol this is too silly to reply to. Have fun, guys.



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    Jan 05, 2011 3:26 AM GMT
    choice.
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    Jan 05, 2011 3:48 AM GMT
    inblubxrz said
    meninlove said lol this is too silly to reply to. Have fun, guys.



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    lol, well you did ask, "what do you think? ;)"

    -Doug
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    Jan 05, 2011 4:12 AM GMT
    All I'm saying is that if you have two guys that are attracted to each other and have had zero exposure to mainstream media, the first thing they think about when they want to be intimate with each other is not going to be to bend the other guy over and butt fuck him. The only way to make that leap from desiring physical closeness to one guy bending over and taking it up the butt is because that's what you see in the media or otherwise have been pressured to believe is what guys do to guys that they desire physical closeness with.
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    Jan 05, 2011 4:14 AM GMT
    inblubxrz said
    ewe_nik saidWOW. Op's hot...

    Which were YOU born to do sir?icon_razz.gif


    haha. thanks!

    Well, living here in the US and having a relatively smaller built due to ethnicity, it might seem to be that I was born to be bottom.

    But I'm top....but might take turns and be a bottom for the right man icon_wink.gif


    thats a BINGO! icon_lol.gif
  • inblubxrz

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    Jan 05, 2011 10:49 PM GMT
    ewe_nik said
    inblubxrz said
    ewe_nik saidWOW. Op's hot...

    Which were YOU born to do sir?icon_razz.gif


    haha. thanks!

    Well, living here in the US and having a relatively smaller built due to ethnicity, it might seem to be that I was born to be bottom.

    But I'm top....but might take turns and be a bottom for the right man icon_wink.gif


    thats a BINGO! icon_lol.gif


    ;)