The "Allow other members to see when I've visited their profile" option in RJ preferences page.

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    Mar 24, 2008 9:37 PM GMT
    I can only assume that some men are so (i wish i had an adjective) that they wouldn't allow someone of (perceived) lesser beauty know there was some eyeballing going on.

    Are you keeping secrets from someone?
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    Mar 24, 2008 10:13 PM GMT
    My bad...I really wasn't trying to check out your profile. I just sneezed real hard when I was reading this post and clicked on accident. Many humble apologies.
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    Mar 24, 2008 11:45 PM GMT
    I didnt know u could block that. sometimes I look at really hot guys' profiles over and over (zdrew) and then I get embarrassed and wish I could pretend that it was all a big mistake and that I'm not really stalking them.

    unless I AM stalking them, and then its no big deal...
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    Mar 24, 2008 11:55 PM GMT
    I use that feature and I love it.

    I don't know about you guys, but sometimes I think a guy might be hot or attractive in the small thumbnail photo. Once I click, I realize it is a mistake. Then they will message me and say something like "Cam?" I hate that.

    I also use it because I don't want my crushes to know I look at their profile that often. I think it would make me look like a stalker or just plain weird. The truth is I love to look at their pictures.
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    Mar 24, 2008 11:56 PM GMT
    I've grown to embrace the stalker side of my personality. Why just yesterday, I bought him a giant zoom lens and a parabolic microphone from http://www.internationalspyshop.com/ for his birthday.

    K



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    Mar 25, 2008 12:03 AM GMT
    I didnt know about this feature either.
  • kinetic

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    Mar 25, 2008 12:07 AM GMT
    I think it can be a subtle way of flirting. Also it lets others know you really do exist. I love seeing who's checked me out. I usually check them out right back. icon_razz.gif
  • MikePhilPerez

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    Mar 25, 2008 12:16 AM GMT
    Caslon saidI didnt know about this feature either.


    It is strange how many guys on here, that don't know things like that.

    The other day some guy started a thread asking, how to tell if a guys profile is verified or not icon_rolleyes.gificon_lol.gif
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    Mar 25, 2008 12:23 AM GMT
    I was thinking the same thing, MikePhil. I kind of like the feature. I don't mind people seeing that I've visited their profiles, and I get a kick out of seeing who has visited mine. Rarely do I get the, "thanks for visiting, wanna cam" response that gigman17b mentioned (which probably means he's got something I ain't got ;).
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    Mar 25, 2008 12:29 AM GMT
    Who uses this option? I very much dislike a former RJ (it should be no secret who). However, on more than one occasion, i've noticed he visited my profile. I thought it was curious, but it did flatter me a bit and allowed me to let myself view his photos. I had never allowed myself to before because I disliked his rhetoric in the forums so. Anyway, I viewed his pics and sure did like what I saw. And the next time he said something dumb in the forums I got mad, but not as mad. I remembered those hot pecs and that massive back..ooooh, and those ample thighs. Ha, I sorta miss this person.
  • MikePhilPerez

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    Mar 25, 2008 12:40 AM GMT
    GuiltyGear saidWho uses this option? I very much dislike a former RJ (it should be no secret who). However, on more than one occasion, i've noticed he visited my profile. I thought it was curious, but it did flatter me a bit and allowed me to let myself view his photos. I had never allowed myself to before because I disliked his rhetoric in the forums so. Anyway, I viewed his pics and sure did like what I saw. And the next time he said something dumb in the forums I got mad, but not as mad. I remembered those hot pecs and that massive back..ooooh, and those ample thighs. Ha, I sorta miss this person.


    Who are you talking about Guilty?

    Surely it's not............. well, you know who?
  • auryn

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    Mar 25, 2008 12:49 AM GMT
    McGay saidI can only assume that some men are so (i wish i had an adjective) that they wouldn't allow someone of (perceived) lesser beauty know there was some eyeballing going on.

    Are you keeping secrets from someone?


    You're complaining because you have secret admires or stalkers?
  • EricLA

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    Mar 25, 2008 12:50 AM GMT
    You mean I've been leaving a paper trail all this time for nothing???

    This is a Godsend!!!

    Many thanks McGay, you'll never know where I'm going to strike next.
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    Mar 25, 2008 1:08 AM GMT
    I don't block the feature, but on the contrary I'm usually too [insert adjective] that I wouldn't want someone of (perceived) greater beauty to see that I've checked them out.

    However McGay, since your adorable canines are neither male nor human, I don't feel as [insert adjective] showing up on your Guys who viewed me search list no matter how far above and beyond my league they may be.
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    Mar 25, 2008 1:09 AM GMT
    Psh. I don't care who knows I'm a total lurker on this site. I like seeing whose been looking at me, too.
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    Mar 25, 2008 1:53 AM GMT
    I use it and I love it.
  • Timbales

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    Mar 25, 2008 1:55 AM GMT
    Sometimes I don't know whether to be flattered or not someone was looking at my profile.
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    Mar 25, 2008 3:00 AM GMT
    Timberoo saidSometimes I don't know whether to be flattered or not someone was looking at my profile.


    What's to know? Flattered, for sure!

    It's so much more mentally healthy to assume all those guys are hot for you. At least I find that the case.

    Well.

    I suppose I'm not the best example of mentally healthy.

    But still.

    K
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    Mar 25, 2008 3:03 AM GMT
    Who me? No... never. I'm still breathing right? Yeah, I could never keep secrets from someone else... ;|
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    Mar 25, 2008 3:05 AM GMT
    I figure that if I post pics on this site, they're going to be checked out. So I guess that I assume the same from everyone else. I actually think that I may feel a little bad if nobody was checking out my profile and pics
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    Mar 25, 2008 3:14 AM GMT
    polobutt saidI figure that if I post pics on this site, they're going to be checked out. So I guess that I assume the same from everyone else. I actually think that I may feel a little bad if nobody was checking out my profile and pics


    Don't feel bad. I checked you out. icon_smile.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
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    Mar 25, 2008 3:18 AM GMT
    That is an interesting feature...

    I like to flip through whose viewed me... and wondering how they stumbled onto my profile... kind of 7 degrees of Kevin Bacon style.
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    Mar 25, 2008 12:01 PM GMT
    STALKING®
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