What's your idea of the perfect date?

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    Jan 04, 2011 11:06 PM GMT
    I'm definitely fairly new to dating guys...but it would be great to meet someone who I could go out to dinner with, come back and sit on the couch and cuddle...watch a game...then a massage...then...ok, I'll stop there! but that's my ideal perfect date. what about you?
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    Jan 05, 2011 1:38 AM GMT
    Perfect FIRST date or just date period?

    For a first date, I think dinner and a few drinks is the ideal for me because it isn't too intricate and doesn't require too much thought. Dinner is just nice cause there isn't much pressure and it is a great place to talk and get to know each other better. That is why I don't like movies, because you can't really talk during it. If the first date goes well, then going and hanging out at one of our apartments for a little bit is good. Making out or whatever is fine for me on the first date because kissing isn't a big deal to me. Ideally, I would like at least a goodnight kiss if it went well, but whatever if it doesn't. But no sex. If I like the gay I like to save some of the mystery haha.

    For any other date, whatever works. I like different dates than the usual dinner or a movie. Going to a football game or something would be real cool. Or even putt-putt so I can kick his ass haha. Then probably home for cuddling and..yeah

    EDIT: So if anyone wants to buy tickets to a Falcon's playoff game and take me, I wouldn't complain! icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 05, 2011 1:49 AM GMT
    I always like outdoor/sports related dates. Meeting at a park to play some hoop, throw the football around, mountain bike, tennis, or running is a great way to meet someone but keeping in mind not to be competitive or show off your skills. Grabbing a beer after that to chat and bond is fun.

    I like this because it takes the date outdoors and it's best feature is that it's during the day, not always in the evening or night.

    Dinner, drinks works for me too.
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    Jan 05, 2011 1:57 AM GMT
    Meet for a bike ride or a sail. Get home and put away the equipment. Share a shower. Make dinner naked on the deck. Watch the sun go down.
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    Jan 05, 2011 1:59 AM GMT
    Depends on the person, but generally I like to have good food and conversation on a first date. If it goes really well, making out on the couch is nice....
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    Jan 05, 2011 2:10 AM GMT
    just hanging out and getting to know each other.
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    Jan 05, 2011 2:11 AM GMT
    I'd take *insert date's name* out to the highest mountain in the area for an all-day hike. We'd start-off on the hike in the morning, taking in the crisp air and the nature around us. Around lunchtime, we'd stop somewhere along the path for noms and conversation, then hit the trail again.

    When we're juuuust about to reach the top, I'd sprint ahead and beat him to it. Then, when he comes huffing and puffing into the clearing and reaches the summit, I'd watch as his jaw went slightly slack and his breath caught as he suddenly noticed the incredible view. And that's when I'd lean in and kiss him.

    Any takers? icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 05, 2011 2:16 AM GMT
    aerovaulter saidI'd take *insert date's name* out to the highest mountain in the area for an all-day hike. We'd start-off on the hike in the morning, taking in the crisp air and the nature around us. Around lunchtime, we'd stop somewhere along the path for noms and conversation, then hit the trail again.

    When we're juuuust about to reach the top, I'd sprint ahead and beat him to it. Then, when he comes huffing and puffing into the clearing and reaches the summit, I'd watch as his jaw went slightly slack and his breath caught as he suddenly noticed the incredible view. And that's when I'd lean in and kiss him.

    Any takers? icon_biggrin.gif


    I should have expected something so romantic from you. You cheeseball! icon_wink.gif
  • shirty

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    Jan 05, 2011 2:16 AM GMT
    Nothing specific, if the person is interesting and there's a chemistry it can be the most basic thing. The worst date is one that's all hyped up and ends up being boring...
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    Jan 05, 2011 2:21 AM GMT
    My house, candles lit, dinner and a movie, soft slow jam music in background, and then a meeting in my bedroom icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 05, 2011 2:25 AM GMT
    sex, talk, cuddle, nap, talk, sex, talk, nap, talk, talk, cuddle, sex, sex, cuddle, talk, sex.. did I mention sex?
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    Jan 05, 2011 2:26 AM GMT
    aerovaulter saidI'd take *insert date's name* out to the highest mountain in the area for an all-day hike. We'd start-off on the hike in the morning, taking in the crisp air and the nature around us. Around lunchtime, we'd stop somewhere along the path for noms and conversation, then hit the trail again.

    When we're juuuust about to reach the top, I'd sprint ahead and beat him to it. Then, when he comes huffing and puffing into the clearing and reaches the summit, I'd watch as his jaw went slightly slack and his breath caught as he suddenly noticed the incredible view. And that's when I'd lean in and kiss him.

    Any takers? icon_biggrin.gif


    If this is a metaphor for really hot sex... then count me in icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 05, 2011 2:26 AM GMT
    A perfect date isn't so much what and where it happens, but the outcome of what does.

    A true connection and a spark of hope. ...and plans for another date in the future.
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    Jan 05, 2011 2:29 AM GMT
    Tickets to the Twins or Gophers does it for me.
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    Jan 05, 2011 2:45 AM GMT
    Allathlete said


    Hahahaha thanks for that icon_lol.gif
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    Jan 05, 2011 2:57 AM GMT
    KSUOWL said
    I should have expected something so romantic from you. You cheeseball! icon_wink.gif


    I love cheese! Date number 2 would involve eating various cheeses. And that's it.
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    Jan 05, 2011 3:09 AM GMT
    aerovaulter saidI'd take *insert date's name* out to the highest mountain in the area for an all-day hike. We'd start-off on the hike in the morning, taking in the crisp air and the nature around us. Around lunchtime, we'd stop somewhere along the path for noms and conversation, then hit the trail again.

    When we're juuuust about to reach the top, I'd sprint ahead and beat him to it. Then, when he comes huffing and puffing into the clearing and reaches the summit, I'd watch as his jaw went slightly slack and his breath caught as he suddenly noticed the incredible view. And that's when I'd lean in and kiss him.

    Any takers? icon_biggrin.gif


    Me me me!
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    Jan 05, 2011 3:30 AM GMT
    If it was with amar_m:

    Take him out around sunset and go to a beautiful side of the Island for a nice sunset, have some champagne set up on a remote side. After go to dinner in anyplace chooses (hopefully very rustic and native), talk a lot about everything and them go to a nice walk around his city so he can show me interesting stuff that only he knows...

    LOL..... Dreams, dreams, dreams... LOL
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    Jan 05, 2011 3:32 AM GMT
    For me, a perfect date was where the expectations were zero, the secret hopes high, and so whatever did happen was magnified by those zero expectations.

    -Doug

    PS ..and man, did Bill ever deliver. I remember it as though it was last week.
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    Jan 05, 2011 3:39 AM GMT
    Ideal date...hmmm....too much of a cheeseball to answer. T_T
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    Jan 05, 2011 4:07 AM GMT
    My ideal perfect date is rather childish and somewhat unusual, but it would literally make my day.

    My ideal perfect date would be for a guy to take me to an amusement park for the day. Riding rollercoasters until we both pass out, getting to know each other while eating ridiculous amounts of park food, winning a big fluffy unicorn that I wouldn't have no use for, and just laughing together.

    After the shenanigans at the park, evening would start off with dinner and a competitive game of scene it?, followed by intelligent, random, funny, and serious conversation. And after dinner is over with, simple goodbyes and leaving with a mutual feeling that another date is a definite yes.


    Yeah, like I said, childish, haha! icon_lol.gif
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    Jan 05, 2011 4:15 AM GMT
    My idea of a perfect date would be just the two of us on the roofdeck staring at the city lights with our own music (I imagine something like Rocketeer by Far East Movement lol) as we lay down on each other's arms and wait for sunrise.

    (of course there has to be alcohol involved somewhere in this story)

    EDIT: I just read some of the other responses and mine reads like I've seen so many Meg RYan movies. icon_redface.gif

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    Jan 05, 2011 4:50 AM GMT
    SQSNY saidIf it was with amar_m:

    Take him out around sunset and go to a beautiful side of the Island for a nice sunset, have some champagne set up on a remote side. After go to dinner in anyplace chooses (hopefully very rustic and native), talk a lot about everything and them go to a nice walk around his city so he can show me interesting stuff that only he knows...

    LOL..... Dreams, dreams, dreams... LOL


    haha, sounds like the tour I set up for you icon_razz.gif LOL