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15 year old wants me?

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    QUOTE Jan 05, 2011 9:29 AM GMT
    ok guys just need some helpful suggestions. I have this 15 year old boy who says he is gay, is ready to have sex and wants to do it with me but even know he is very cute I don't think I should, but i don't know y not. Can u please give me some suggestions on what to do?? and I c him like 4 days a week so I don't want to be mean to him
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    QUOTE Jan 05, 2011 9:50 AM GMT
    Tell him to meet you in one of those Asian countries where the age of consent is 13. Other than that, I'm legally obligated to tell you that under Australian law you cannot have sex with him until he's 16. And that's what you should tell him, according to Austalian law.
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    QUOTE Jan 05, 2011 10:10 AM GMT
    elfred67 said y not.

    PRISON
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    QUOTE Jan 05, 2011 10:16 AM GMT
    Caslon17000 said
    elfred67 said y not.

    PRISON


    Which leads to rape
  • KardioKing Posts: 1967
    QUOTE Jan 05, 2011 10:17 AM GMT
    JAKEBENSON said
    Caslon17000 said
    elfred67 said y not.

    PRISON


    Which leads to rape


    so a win-win situation!
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    QUOTE Jan 05, 2011 10:24 AM GMT
    KardioKing said
    JAKEBENSON said
    Caslon17000 said
    elfred67 said y not.

    PRISON


    Which leads to rape


    so a win-win situation!


    so true.

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  • TrentGrad Posts: 1541
    QUOTE Jan 05, 2011 11:23 AM GMT
    elfred67 saidok guys just need some helpful suggestions. I have this 15 year old boy who says he is gay, is ready to have sex and wants to do it with me but even know he is very cute I don't think I should, but i don't know y not. Can u please give me some suggestions on what to do?? and I c him like 4 days a week so I don't want to be mean to him


    Well, first off, it's against the law.

    In addition to that, there's a reason why legal systems typically do not treat those younger than 18 as adults: namely, they don't fully understand the consequences of their actions.

    Why not tell him that he's very attractive, but you feel he's not ready for sex...or at least, not ready for sex with an adult at this time.

    Perhaps if there's a gay youth group in your area, you can give him the information to connect with peers his own age: perhaps there he can find a potential partner his own age if he wants to explore his sexual boundaries?

    You could also say to him that if he still feels like he wants to have sex with you when he's 18 (if that's the age of consent in your jurisdiction), you both can talk about it again at that time.
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    QUOTE Jan 05, 2011 11:27 AM GMT
    TrentGrad saidIn addition to that, there's a reason why legal systems typically do not treat those younger than 18 as adults: namely, they don't fully understand the consequences of their actions.


    No, there's a legal system in the U.S. that THINKS people under 18 cannot understand consequences of their actions when they clearly can and do. The law doesn't mean they're not adults. If it does, then according to YOUR theory people become adults in almost every other country than they do in the US. Kinda makes you think that the US is full of idiots. Actually it probably is. But I would recommend the idiots reproduce at an early age so as to minimize offspring mutation from egg denaturation over time.
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    QUOTE Jan 05, 2011 4:46 PM GMT
    def a bad idea and even hanging around with this kid can lead to irrevocable problems......wish him well and have him find a bf his own age.....Keithicon_cool.gif
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    QUOTE Jan 05, 2011 4:51 PM GMT
    That's disgusting,hes 15 wow,how many older guys r single and u want to fuck a 15 yr old,I say call 911 for being a child molester lmfao
  • rnch Posts: 10905
    QUOTE Jan 05, 2011 4:52 PM GMT
    show the cute 15 year old where the nearest catholic church is.

    priests have much better lawyers than you do.

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  • TrentGrad Posts: 1541
    QUOTE Jan 05, 2011 4:56 PM GMT
    JAKEBENSON said
    TrentGrad saidIn addition to that, there's a reason why legal systems typically do not treat those younger than 18 as adults: namely, they don't fully understand the consequences of their actions.


    No, there's a legal system in the U.S. that THINKS people under 18 cannot understand consequences of their actions when they clearly can and do. The law doesn't mean they're not adults. If it does, then according to YOUR theory people become adults in almost every other country than they do in the US. Kinda makes you think that the US is full of idiots. Actually it probably is. But I would recommend the idiots reproduce at an early age so as to minimize offspring mutation from egg denaturation over time.


    Whatever...I would suggest to the OP that the 15 year old is too young to engage in sex with an adult.
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    QUOTE Jan 05, 2011 5:01 PM GMT
    elfred67 saidok guys just need some helpful suggestions. I have this 15 year old boy who says he is gay, is ready to have sex and wants to do it with me but even know he is very cute I don't think I should, but i don't know y not. Can u please give me some suggestions on what to do?? and I c him like 4 days a week so I don't want to be mean to him

    Simply tell him it's against the law, and you would go to jail for it (unless you're a Roman Catholic priest, in which case he could make some nice money from an out-of-court settlement, and you'd suffer no personal consequences, maybe even become a Bishop).

    And if you don't know why it's wrong yourself, then you may need counseling more than he does. Maybe you need a career field that doesn't put you into contact with young male teens.
  • cromi Posts: 489
    QUOTE Jan 05, 2011 5:17 PM GMT
    to the op... hi fake andrew wolfe.
  • tongun18 Posts: 593
    QUOTE Jan 05, 2011 5:19 PM GMT
    JAKEBENSON said
    TrentGrad saidIn addition to that, there's a reason why legal systems typically do not treat those younger than 18 as adults: namely, they don't fully understand the consequences of their actions.


    No, there's a legal system in the U.S. that THINKS people under 18 cannot understand consequences of their actions when they clearly can and do.


    That's not true. Studies done on the developing brain have shown that it is not fully developed--specifically the areas involved with rational thinking--until the late teen's/early twenties. Couple that with the fact that hormone changes during development can lead to emotional instability and its clear that most in their teens are not fully capable rationally thinking their way through something of this magnitude, nor are they capable of fully considering the long term consequences of their actions. That inability puts them at a severe disadvantage. Age of consent laws are meant to shield them from those who would exploit their disadvantage. 18 may be an arbitrary line to draw but it's a line that must be drawn and I think that's actually a good place for it.

    Just be easy on him and let him know the age difference is to great at this point in your lives. If after a few years he still felt the same way then maybe then. But be clear so there's no mistaking it's not gonna happen.

    Remember, it's the parents/guardians that have the right to press statutory rape charges, not the minor himself. Even if he is ok with it but mom and dad aren't, your ass is still going to jail. You don't want to go anywhere near that.
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    QUOTE Jan 05, 2011 5:24 PM GMT
    tongun18 saidRemember, it's the parents/guardians that have the right to press statutory rape charges, not the minor himself. Even if he is ok with it but mom and dad aren't, your ass is still going to jail. You don't want to go anywhere near that.

    THIS! Print it out in big letters, OP, and paste it on your wall.
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    QUOTE Jan 05, 2011 5:26 PM GMT
    UpperCdn saidI suggest you keep a lot of distance. This kid (in a fit of pique at being rejected) could level an accusation at you.

    This.

    And if he gets scared or decides he regrets it then you'll be the one in trouble no matter how the situation occurred.

    Personally I always feel like a creeper when a fairly younger guy has his attention on me. [No, there is no logic to this at all, just one of those things...]
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    QUOTE Jan 05, 2011 6:04 PM GMT
    Hatter saidPersonally I always feel like a creeper when a fairly younger guy has his attention on me. [No, there is no logic to this at all, just one of those things...]

    Let me provide some logic, if I may.

    When we're talking about a young teen, as in this case 15, to have anything sexual to do with him is not only criminal in many jurisdictions, but also predatory and unethical, a black mark against all gay men.

    But let me expand this to both girls and boys, because most pedophilia actually happens between little girls and straight men.

    Childhood is a special and magical time. A time of fantasy and toys, make-believe and imagination. The realities and cares of the adult world are years away yet. They play schoolyard games, believe in Santa, color with crayons, have dolls & action figures, play video games, have imaginary adventures. It's an enchanted bubble kids live in, that adults are supposed to protect, never burst, never intrude upon.

    In due time these kids transition to being adults themselves. The age of 15 is not quite there yet, a time of bicycles & skateboards, Nintendos or whatever, becoming sexually awake but still not fully aware.

    An adult does not take advantage of that. Not EVER! I don't care what the child says, this is just a child -- what do YOU say? You're the adult. Are you going to burst that bubble of childhood? I could never do that. I could never be that selfish, nor that conceited, which such an action implies.

    So I hope the OP leaves this 15-year-old alone, no matter what the youngster wants. Kids ask for lots of things... have you never said NO to a kid's unreasonable request? I hope the OP's own desires don't cloud his judgment.
  • Tonync1969 Posts: 202
    QUOTE Jan 05, 2011 6:19 PM GMT
    He's a CHILD. That's ALL and that's IT. Period.
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    QUOTE Jan 05, 2011 6:28 PM GMT
    JAKEBENSON said
    KardioKing said
    JAKEBENSON said
    Caslon17000 said
    elfred67 said y not.

    PRISON


    Which leads to rape


    so a win-win situation!


    so true.

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    QUOTE Jan 05, 2011 6:40 PM GMT
    elfred67 saidok guys just need some helpful suggestions. I have this 15 year old boy who says he is gay, is ready to have sex and wants to do it with me but even know he is very cute I don't think I should, but i don't know y not. Can u please give me some suggestions on what to do?? and I c him like 4 days a week so I don't want to be mean to him
    BOGUS post! I smell a FAKE!
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    QUOTE Jan 05, 2011 6:59 PM GMT
    devil's advocate:
    i'm always amazed how puritan gays can get.
    He's 15, fuck, not 11 !
    He's most likely watched porn on the net, possibly browsed RJ .

    If you were no more than 5 years his senior, you could have sex with him in Canada.
    Otherwise you'd have t wait till he's 16 . ( since 2008 ... it was 14 before ) .
    But there's a little tricky part of the law regarding anal sex . ( however Ontario, Alberta and Quebec have declared that part unconstitutional ) .

    i started experimenting with sex with my same age neighbor at 12 .

    but like you say, just a child... ( sniggers ).

    the real mess at that age can come more from emotional attachment to a " lover."
    and you really don't need the sex part to trigger that one.

    the law needs to draw a line somewhere of course. And i think overall 16 is a good spot but it still leaves a grey zone of individual situations where some 14 y.o. are more mature and ready than some 17 y.o.



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    QUOTE Jan 05, 2011 7:00 PM GMT
    Join the Priesthood. Then you can have him. He might be a little old, though.
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    QUOTE Jan 05, 2011 7:04 PM GMT
    Tonync1969 saidHe's a CHILD. That's ALL and that's IT. Period.

    Agreed. Others here who are defending this need to attend some child abuser classes.
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    QUOTE Jan 05, 2011 7:05 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidJoin the Priesthood. Then you can have him. He might be a little old, though.



    hahaha,
    he doesn't really need to. Preferably he'd attend a priest run private boarding school .. in a remote area. That's where the fun is.


    art deco:
    "Agreed. Others here who are defending this need to attend some child abuser classes."


    LOL . you're funny.
    child abuser classes !!! oh my, is that where they learn how to abuse professionally ?

    and were you so retarded at 15 that you didn't know what you were doing ?

    i'm not by all means suggesting anyone transgresses the law. But it's different from idealizing a teen's innocence.