Having too much sex

  • travvfit

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    Jan 09, 2011 12:19 AM GMT
    Yeah i know poor me haha!
    but seriously it seems that it takes away your soul and who you are if you have sex too much.
    Im not complaining about sex, I love it but opening yourself up (pun intended) icon_razz.gif who are you really letting in?
    And most of the time you have no idea about the person its just sex.
    I get it that you use them for sex and they use you but afterwards it seems really hot that youve had sex icon_smile.gif but i usually feel really used after a few guys.
    Does this mean im a relationship kinda guy?
    I value myself too much to spread it around like free food samples in a grocery

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    Jan 09, 2011 1:40 AM GMT
    It's only too much sex if you don't allow enough time between sexings to build up a good load for the next guy.
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    Jan 09, 2011 1:43 AM GMT
    Ehm you might just be a relationship person... but you dont know until you've tried
  • travvfit

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    Jan 09, 2011 5:09 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidIt's only too much sex if you don't allow enough time between sexings to build up a good load for the next guy.

    yeah mine was 5 guys in a week icon_razz.gif
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    Jan 09, 2011 5:17 AM GMT
    If you feel really used, then it probably means you're getting tired of just having sex with many guys and want something more?

    You could try to limit yourself to 1 or a few friends with benefits and this way you'll at least get to know them as people, and even perhaps one day have one of them before your bf.

    It doesn't necessarily mean you're a relationship kind of guy though, but it probably means you are needing an emotional connection with people you're having sex with as opposed to just doing it.
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    Jan 09, 2011 8:53 AM GMT
    microbiologist saidIf you feel really used, then it probably means you're getting tired of just having sex with many guys and want something more?

    You could try to limit yourself to 1 or a few friends with benefits and this way you'll at least get to know them as people, and even perhaps one day have one of them before your bf.

    It doesn't necessarily mean you're a relationship kind of guy though, but it probably means you are needing an emotional connection with people you're having sex with as opposed to just doing it.


    I like this.
  • Beeftastic

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    Jan 09, 2011 9:45 AM GMT
    Micro. Good advice.
  • travvfit

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    Jan 09, 2011 10:45 AM GMT
    microbiologist saidIf you feel really used, then it probably means you're getting tired of just having sex with many guys and want something more?

    You could try to limit yourself to 1 or a few friends with benefits and this way you'll at least get to know them as people, and even perhaps one day have one of them before your bf.

    It doesn't necessarily mean you're a relationship kind of guy though, but it probably means you are needing an emotional connection with people you're having sex with as opposed to just doing it.

    icon_smile.gif thankyou ok i think im starting to understand it icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 10, 2011 3:36 PM GMT
    icon_eek.gif Having too much sex? There isn't such a thing. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 10, 2011 7:14 PM GMT
    travvfit said
    paulflexes saidIt's only too much sex if you don't allow enough time between sexings to build up a good load for the next guy.

    yeah mine was 5 guys in a week icon_razz.gif
    Hell I've had more than that in bed at the same time.
    You need to get with the program, mister. icon_razz.gif
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    Jan 11, 2011 6:50 AM GMT
    See Lady Gaga was right. If you sleep around alot and with people who don't care about you or what you stand for and do. It ruins you creatively and spiritually. I love you Gaga!!!

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