How "forward" is too "forward" on a date?

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    Jan 09, 2011 5:47 PM GMT
    Interesting....
  • TrentGrad

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    Jan 09, 2011 6:03 PM GMT
    KyotoK3m saidInteresting....


    Depends on how the date is going, doesn't it?

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    Jan 09, 2011 6:28 PM GMT
    TrentGrad said
    KyotoK3m saidInteresting....


    Depends on how the date is going, doesn't it?


    Kind of. I like directness... but being too forward is pushing the idea of something you're uncomfortable with since you don't know them well enough yet.

    Like if you're more of a romantic gay, you might not like all the sexual comments made on a first date whether you find them attractive or not.
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    Jan 09, 2011 7:38 PM GMT
    Agree with ShinyToyTrey--anything that pushes the limits or raises the discomfort of the other party. On a first date, you should take the time to learn about the person and adapt accordingly. Some may like it, some may not...
  • rnch

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    Jan 09, 2011 7:45 PM GMT
    eh--depends on the other guy and the situation.

    unusual for me, but my long term bf and I did everything except full insertion sex on our first date. icon_wink.gif

    that happened a few weeks later on... icon_twisted.gif
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    Jan 09, 2011 10:26 PM GMT
    Forward: "Fuck dinner. Let's go back to my place."
    Too forward: "Do you think the waiter will notice us under the table?"
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    Jan 09, 2011 10:56 PM GMT
    Obviously like everyone says, it depends on the person. There are some guys that almost require sex on the first date and there are those of us who would rather just have a kiss on the first date (if things go well, of course). So, how forward you are will obviously depend on the type of guy you are dealing with.

    Don't tell me "I want to know what your cock tastes like" on the first date. But some guys may love that.
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    Jan 09, 2011 11:02 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Too forward: "Do you think the waiter will join us under the table?"


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    Jan 09, 2011 11:13 PM GMT
    Ermine said
    paulflexes said
    Too forward: "Do you think the waiter will join us under the table?"


    fixed

    That wouldn't be too forward. That would be hot. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 09, 2011 11:22 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Ermine said
    paulflexes said
    Too forward: "Do you think the waiter will join us under the table?"


    fixed

    That wouldn't be too forward. That would be hot. icon_biggrin.gif


    Depends on the waiter, doesn't it? LOL
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    Jan 09, 2011 11:27 PM GMT
    I'm TOOOOO Forward at dates!

    "Now, stick it in?" icon_lol.gif
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    Jan 09, 2011 11:31 PM GMT
    TrentGrad said
    paulflexes said
    Ermine said
    paulflexes said
    Too forward: "Do you think the waiter will join us under the table?"


    fixed

    That wouldn't be too forward. That would be hot. icon_biggrin.gif


    Depends on the waiter, doesn't it? LOL
    Around here, they only hire hot waiters (and waitresses).
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    Jan 09, 2011 11:36 PM GMT
    He goes back with the waiter.

    Not forward enough.
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    Jan 09, 2011 11:39 PM GMT
    Mil8 saidHe goes back with the waiter.

    Not forward enough.
    You move to the next section and take the hotter waiter.
    Not exactly forward or anything, but definitely a smart move.