Jan 10, 2011 11:42 AM GMT
How did that work out for you?
JB82 saidAlways ended up talking to someone, met a group of people, picked out my favorite, got laid, never talked to any of them again. Ah I was such a slut. But on the other hands it's nearly impossible to make friends with or date people I meet at a club because their whole life revolves around clubs and I rarely go anymore.
Btw you can have fun if you go out on your own depending on the circumstances. If you know a lot of gays then chances are you'll run into someone you know. If you drink, you'll talk to anyone and the club will be a generally good atmosphere.
the_leo saidHow did that work out for you?
gta129 saidBut I want to go again to meet some guys since I never done that before. I don't want to go with my friend and his bf again cause it will be SO embarrassing if i got rejected by guys in front of them.
menotyou saidi think it depends on where you live and what kinda bar/club it is. i live in vancouver which is a fairly large city, lots of people around. but you will never catch me at a bar/club alone. i always feel like i will end up in a corner somewhere looking like a knob because im all by myself... then i think who the hell cares what other people think of me...so for me its a constant struggle to tell myself...that " yes, it is ok" to be alone....sometimes....so bascially what my ramble is trying to say...is that right now im not confedient enough in myself to go out alone...but im quickly getting there lol