Feeling Used...

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    Jan 11, 2011 1:23 AM GMT
    So this week is the first time I have been hit on, done, and ditched the day later after meeting someone... ehm, needless to say,..I'm really feeling like shit right now... Its my first experiencing this, and it really made me feel used.. this shit is fucked up yo.....

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  • TrentGrad

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    Jan 11, 2011 1:24 AM GMT
    amar_m saidSo this week is the first time I have been hit on, done, and ditched the day later after meeting someone... ehm, needless to say,..I'm really feeling like shit right now... Its my first experiencing this, and it really made me feel used.. this shit is fucked up yo.....

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    Sorry to hear that buddy...you're right. That shit is fucked up!

    Sounds like you really did like him.
  • jgymnast733

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    Jan 11, 2011 1:33 AM GMT
    Thats why i never ever give it all away at one time,,,you must leave him wanting more...icon_idea.gif
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    Jan 11, 2011 1:53 AM GMT
    See? I should have just tied you up while you were here and kept you here.
    Then we could be a happy little family and not worry about shit like that.
    Instead, we'd be on Sobe every week picking up hot guys, and using them instead. icon_twisted.gif
  • needleninja

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    Jan 11, 2011 1:56 AM GMT
    how i hate players :3
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    Jan 11, 2011 2:04 AM GMT
    That sucks man, sorry...icon_sad.gif

    See, thats why i dont play games, i just straight out say it, not waste time!

    "Now, stick it in?!"
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    Jan 11, 2011 2:09 AM GMT
    Who is this scurvy knave?! I will will hunt him down like the dog that he is and beat him to within an inch of his life! You are one of the coolest guys on this site.

    I am only honored to champion your cause and defend your honor.

    Your Knight in Shining Armor

    I'm dead serious. Let me at 'em. He will rue the day he was born. And after I'm through with him I will gladly lick your wounds, if you so desire.
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    Jan 11, 2011 3:06 AM GMT
    maybe you need to just hold off when you like someone? just talk about random crap for awhile and try to get an idea what they're up to. if they ditch you during that then you probably just avoided being ditched after sex.
  • misternick

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    Jan 11, 2011 3:11 AM GMT
    It might help to just focus on the fun part. You got to have a good time, and that was it, oh well.

    Helps if you're good at rationalizing/self-deluding...
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    Jan 11, 2011 3:17 AM GMT
    cut yer heart out and feed it to the dog
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    Jan 11, 2011 3:19 AM GMT
    feeling used... seems natural. however, perhaps you can 'use' this experience and learn from it, thus making sure that you not simply feel used, but can find use out of it. That always tends to come with time, however.
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    Jan 11, 2011 3:21 AM GMT
    Thanks for your responses guys.. I really appreciate em.. they never cease to make me feel better.. all of you guys' from the psycho to the sweet, they are all awesome ;)
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    Jan 11, 2011 3:24 AM GMT
    aww, I'm the psycho.
  • mybud

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    Jan 11, 2011 3:27 AM GMT
    Anyone that would ditch a smart...sensitive...pleasant...talented....handsome...
    guy like you has to be a fuckin moron.....BUD
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    Jan 11, 2011 3:46 AM GMT
    Happens a lot, so be cautious. It's a real doozy when you have it happen to you over and over, but at the point you realize you're the one doing something wrong.
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    Jan 11, 2011 4:17 AM GMT
    MeOhMy saidaww, I'm the psycho.


    Keep kidding yourself, you're the sweet one babe icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 11, 2011 4:19 AM GMT
    BLAAH. you are such a paranoid queen.
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    Jan 11, 2011 4:58 AM GMT
    Sucks to hear this happened to you, happened to me once nearly became twice but was able to tell the signs right away. Just learn from it, read the signs and be sure it doesn't happen again icon_razz.gif .
  • Mikeylikesit

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    Jan 11, 2011 5:02 AM GMT
    welcome to the gayhorhood...icon_lol.gif
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    Jan 11, 2011 5:14 AM GMT
    damn amar....damn...........................we could find him and give him to the catholic church......................................................icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 11, 2011 5:20 AM GMT
    Sorry to hear Amar, but it's his loss really when you think about it deeply.

    Like others have mentioned, sometimes you have to give it a little time to really tell if the guy is serious about getting to know you or not.

    Have fun in the mean time and don't take anyone seriously unless they give you a good reason to do so. That way you won't be too dissappointed when things cool off.icon_cool.gif

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    Jan 11, 2011 5:25 AM GMT
    jprichva said
    UndercoverMan saidWho is this scurvy knave?! I will will hunt him down like the dog that he is and beat him to within an inch of his life! You are one of the coolest guys on this site.

    I am only honored to champion your cause and defend your honor.

    Your Knight in Shining Armor

    I'm dead serious. Let me at 'em. He will rue the day he was born. And after I'm through with him I will gladly lick your wounds, if you so desire.

    Sweet. A little disturbing, a little stalkerish, but sweet.


    You say stalker like it's a bad thing. icon_cool.gif
  • Manhood69

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    Jan 11, 2011 6:05 AM GMT
    jgymnast733 saidThats why i never ever give it all away at one time,,,you must leave him wanting more...icon_idea.gif


    JG, that's not what you told me last night! lol
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    Jan 11, 2011 7:14 AM GMT
    Awww. Lmao hahaha. Feel used? Learn to play the game better.

    You can only get used if you let them use you.
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    Jan 11, 2011 7:24 AM GMT
    BornWired66 said
    ExcuseMyHyperbole saidAwww. Lmao hahaha. ....... You can only get used if you let them use you.

    If you ever go to prison, just keep telling yourself that.


    Says the sock full of broken glass I use to castrate the bitch that tries! I'm a fucking bag of crazy, and they don't rape the crazies in prison cuz they know in the end I'd rip their eyes out while they sleep at night.