Alluring Virgins

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    Jan 11, 2011 1:33 AM GMT
    Just got some advice from a random on grindr about virgins being alluring and to be careful. Is there really some sort of appeal to netting a virgin? I guess he just wants me to be safe. Bless Him.
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    Jan 11, 2011 1:48 AM GMT
    I've never netted a virgin, but it sounds hot.
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    Jan 11, 2011 2:25 AM GMT
    Hell no, the sex is shit, the foreplay is shit and all in all you end up with some whiny post virgin bitch on your hands...



    Thanks, but I'll pass!
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    Jan 11, 2011 2:43 AM GMT
    To boldly go where no man has gone before...

    Sign this adventurer up!
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    Jan 11, 2011 3:09 AM GMT
    But I bet the orgasm is memorable. I'm like a cannon here icon_mad.gif
  • Beeftastic

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    Jan 11, 2011 3:37 AM GMT
    There are plusses and minuses to virgins. I have had quite a few the last few years, but that don't mean I seek them out. Takes calm, patience and understanding. Lot's of communication before and after, and sometimes hand holding. Some guys are not into that. I dont' mind it. I like to think that the guys I have been with have gotten a good first experience that will reinforce their sexual self esteem, not make them feel worse about themselves.

    It's the campsite rule of sexual interactions, always leave them better off then they were before!
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    Jan 11, 2011 3:46 AM GMT
    Soyfan saidJust got some advice from a random on grindr about virgins being alluring and to be careful. Is there really some sort of appeal to netting a virgin? I guess he just wants me to be safe. Bless Him.


    i think it just depends on the kind of net ;)


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    Jan 11, 2011 4:14 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidHell no, the sex is shit, the foreplay is shit and all in all you end up with some whiny post virgin bitch on your hands...



    Thanks, but I'll pass!



    St8 guys insults gays sometimes
    gays insults femme gays sometimes
    now ppl start insults virgin gays

    Most of us want to be treated equally by st8 ppl. ! How about respects our own ppl (gay virgins) first since.

    More forgiveness, less discrimination.
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    Jan 11, 2011 4:38 AM GMT
    torontoblue said
    lilTanker saidHell no, the sex is shit, the foreplay is shit and all in all you end up with some whiny post virgin bitch on your hands...



    Thanks, but I'll pass!



    St8 guys insults gays sometimes
    gays insults femme gays sometimes
    now ppl start insults virgin gays

    Most of us want to be treated equally by st8 ppl. ! How about respects our own ppl (gay virgins) first since.

    More forgiveness, less discrimination.

    Oh go get laid.
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    Jan 11, 2011 7:04 AM GMT
    well from the looks of this site, being a virgin is abominable. because we are going to be "lousy" in bed and are going to have no clue as to what to do. wow and people have a bad perception of gays as being sex-hungry animals. i wonder why. so i think its quite the contrary they're netting for anything BUT a virgin.

    so idk you make your deductions and opinions. icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 11, 2011 7:12 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidHell no, the sex is shit, the foreplay is shit and all in all you end up with some whiny post virgin bitch on your hands...



    Thanks, but I'll pass!


    that about sums up all my fears lol thanks.
    maybe the best way is to find another virgin because then at least we're both on equal ground.
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    Jan 11, 2011 7:21 AM GMT
    I am a virgin. Yeah it sucks. You have to deal with pricks who are too high and mighty to do a virgin. Maybe its a good thing that assholes are too full of themselves to take someones virginity. Nice guys win 100% of the time.
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    Jan 11, 2011 7:23 AM GMT
    virgins are sad creatures. especially if you're over 20. its 2011 people its okay to have sex. you do not need to wait until marriage.
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    Jan 11, 2011 7:26 AM GMT
    Yeah, it's much better to just lose your virginity as soon as possible, especially if you're about to turn 20.

    Sarcasm for the dumbasses.
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    Jan 11, 2011 7:47 AM GMT
    AvadaKedavra saidvirgins are sad creatures. especially if you're over 20. its 2011 people its okay to have sex. you do not need to wait until marriage.

    Wow. SO i have three months to loose mine?
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    Jan 11, 2011 9:11 AM GMT
    AvadaKedavra saidvirgins are sad creatures. especially if you're over 20. its 2011 people its okay to have sex. you do not need to wait until marriage.


    You make it sound like they're pitiful and worthy of disdain! I didn't have penetrative intercourse until I was 20, does that make me a sad creature? I wasn't waiting for marriage, that's for sure. Everyone matures at his or her own rate and can make the decision to have sex when they're ready, no matter what time that is.
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    Jan 11, 2011 9:20 AM GMT
    AvadaKedavra saidvirgins are sad creatures. especially if you're over 20. its 2011 people its okay to have sex. you do not need to wait until marriage.


    Whores are sad creatures, virgins are not.
  • drypin

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    Jan 11, 2011 9:46 AM GMT
    I don't think the fact that someone is a virgin (or claims to be) is alluring. But they still might have all the other qualities that are: attractiveness, eagerness, into-me-ness.
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    Jan 11, 2011 10:50 AM GMT
    AvadaKedavra saidvirgins are sad creatures. especially if you're over 20. its 2011 people its okay to have sex. you do not need to wait until marriage.


    I didn't come out till I was 18, Im only two in gay years. I've got time icon_rolleyes.gif
  • rmd210

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    Jan 11, 2011 11:10 AM GMT
    I broke up with someone because i didnt want to take his virginity - it's kind of a daunting thought.

    I remember my first time - I was pretty attached to the guy when I really shouldn't have been...I don't want a guy to have that happen when the feeling wouldn't be mutual.
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    Jan 11, 2011 7:39 PM GMT
    lilTanker said
    torontoblue said
    lilTanker saidHell no, the sex is shit, the foreplay is shit and all in all you end up with some whiny post virgin bitch on your hands...



    Thanks, but I'll pass!



    St8 guys insults gays sometimes
    gays insults femme gays sometimes
    now ppl start insults virgin gays

    Most of us want to be treated equally by st8 ppl. ! How about respects our own ppl (gay virgins) first since.

    More forgiveness, less discrimination.

    Oh go get laid.
    Best...response...ever!!! Borat.gif&t=1
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    Jan 11, 2011 7:44 PM GMT
    AvadaKedavra saidvirgins are sad creatures. especially if you're over 20. its 2011 people its okay to have sex. you do not need to wait until marriage.


    Great, this makes me feel even worse about myself.

    I'm not waiting til marriage but I am waiting for a guy that I like and find attractive and would continue to stay in contact with even if its as friends.
  • Beeftastic

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    Jan 12, 2011 5:16 AM GMT
    Virginity messes with the head. For me it was one of those things that I obsessed about before it happened (I think I was 20?). I worried that I'd mess it all up terribly, be laughed at, or derided. I was firmly in the closet (most guys were then). I had terrible homosexual self-loathing and self esteem (pretty common in those days when being gay was about the worst thing that a man could be in the general publics eye).

    When I lost my virginity, it was no big deal. It wasn't great and it wasn't bad. I felt grateful to the older man that gave me the time and patience. I never thought much about it after it happened. After the fact it just wasn't that important. Now I barely remember the details. I just got on with my life.

    The idea of saving it up for some great love never made much sense to me, but I guess that is just my personality. It makes even less sense to me now. But in my mind sex and love have always been different things. I totally get that other people are wired differently and the two are intertwined.
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    Jan 12, 2011 7:16 AM GMT
    EBan saidthat about sums up all my fears lol thanks.
    maybe the best way is to find another virgin because then at least we're both on equal ground.

    To be honest mate, don't go with another virgin, two guys not knowing what the hell is going on can make things a little messy and a whole lot of painful.

    Find a guy who will be patient, understanding and knows how to do it, this guy should turn you on, make you wanna bottom for him and he should know how to top properly so it hurts as little as possible.

    Personally I've been with enough freaky virgins to make me keep clear of them.. most of them are clinging onto this idea that the first time will be awesome and will show all sorts of emotions and that being the first there means it's yours to keep... so...... no.
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    Jan 12, 2011 7:21 AM GMT
    This thread is starting to sound like the gay version of American Pie.