Ever been in love with a straight guy?

  • TallSoCal

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    Mar 26, 2008 4:07 AM GMT
    Has this ever happened to anyone?

    I don't know how it all started. I just know it was my sophomore year in high school with one of my brother's good friends. I know. I know. How does a kid know when they're in love? Probably because my feelings grew stronger over the years for him, and even still that I hardly see him.

    When he would walk into the room, I literally could not breathe. I would stutter when I tried talking to him. My temperature would rise....I become a wreck.

    You know how straight guys are with their joking about being gay. He was the type that would do that, but he would take it to a whole other level. He really liked to touch A LOT, and he has NO idea what he's done to me. Haha. He would whisper things in my ear, walk up behind me and wrap his arms around my waist, grab my inner thighs...It killed me.

    How much does that suck?

    Should I tell him so it stops eating at me?

    What are your stories?
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    Mar 26, 2008 4:41 AM GMT
    happens to me all the time, mate. you know it's all in the name of banter, right? but still... lol

    let's just say i totally get you.

    i just love the part when you consciously if not deliberately offer your heart for them to break... quite voluntarily, at that! that's when you bond so well with your mp3 player. xx
  • vindog

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    Mar 26, 2008 5:47 AM GMT
    It's a running JOKE at my house. I tell my straight roommate "I just met the hottest guy." He says, "Straight man, I take it?"


    For awhile my response was "I don't know." Now it's just automatic "Totally."

    Besides guys on here and one in my town, I always am hot for straight guys.

    alas....maybe I'll be a spatula some day!

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    Mar 26, 2008 5:53 AM GMT
    atlnvmasc saidalas....maybe I'll be a spatula some day!


    Mate, if I were straight I'd totally date you.icon_lol.gif
  • SirEllingtonB...

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    Mar 26, 2008 7:40 AM GMT
    It's ridiculous, I know! There's this guy, we're good friends now, but I can't honestly tell if he's gay, straight, bi or even curious. I pretty much had a near identical experience. He flirts with me a lot, hugs me from behind, is extremely playful, etc. He's currently dating one of my friends (a female) so that's thrown me off quite a bit. One because she's my friend, and two because she doesn't have a penis!

    I don't know, if he is straight then he's WAY too secure about his sexuality. Which is fine and dandy and all because I'm all about eliminating prejudice but it's just too utterly confusing for me!

    As for telling him you're totally, madly in love with him I say do it. Easier said than done though, but I plan on doing so...eventually icon_neutral.gif
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    Mar 26, 2008 7:53 AM GMT
    Yep, I've been totally besotted with lots of straight guys. They all know. They're all close friends. One would come over to my house once a week to eat tea and watch Survivor.

    He used to say, "You're the nicest person I've ever met." Ah, crushes can be nice, and especially nice when they're appreciated by the crushed.
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    Mar 26, 2008 8:20 AM GMT
    Yes. And I don't EVER want to again.
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    Mar 26, 2008 8:24 AM GMT
    Yea, It was a big crush. Im not one for a relationship or Dating...or one night stands. Im usuly not into people at all. Low sex drive I dont know..But I just grew a big crush on him..I felt so stupid. i wish that I never did. Then agian I wish I never did alot of things.
  • TallSoCal

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    Mar 26, 2008 9:46 AM GMT
    eestanol said
    As for telling him you're totally, madly in love with him I say do it. Easier said than done though, but I plan on doing so...eventually icon_neutral.gif



    I don't think I can do that. Haha. I barely told my brother and sister that I was bi last month. We don't and haven't talked about it. They were cool with it and all, but it's just an awkward subject.

    That guy would probably tell all of his friends (that my brother and I hang out with also), and it would get really bad for me. I dunno if I'm ready for that yet. Haha. Maybe in a few years...Like 10. It's been 5 years since I fell in love. I'm pretty sure another 10 won't hurt me...physically.