How do you know when to let him come over?

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    Jan 11, 2011 4:58 AM GMT
    So, obviously lots of people will take home a guy immediately after meeting him at a bar. I definitely would never do that. At what point, though, is it actually reasonable to allow a guy to come over to your place? I've had one coffee date and am planning to meet the same guy for dinner. Is that still too soon to gauge whether the person's safe?
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    Jan 11, 2011 5:00 AM GMT
    take him thru airport security and fly him to your place....by the time you get there, you'll know his patience level....................icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 11, 2011 5:01 AM GMT
    i haven't gotten a serious response to this type of question either
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    Jan 11, 2011 5:05 AM GMT
    If you are actually considering a second date with him, then he probably didn't seem like a serial killer. Yes, you never know what kind of a creep is hiding behind someone's cute smile, but if you go through life worrying that any guy is a criminal, you might as well give up now.
    Invite him over, kiss him, fuck him and have a great time!!
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    Jan 11, 2011 5:08 AM GMT
    You should have a pretty good idea after a second date whether or not he's OK to bring home. Another good test is see how he does where drinks are involved, if he limits himself thats another good sign.

    I took a guy out and the first time was great, took him to dinner and he got a little booze in him and he asked the waiter to put his cock out on the table. OH GOD !!! I could have shot the idiot because he wouldn't let the question die, then he called the bar tender a fat ass and that was it, I took him home never to see the dumb ass again. LOL !!!
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    Jan 11, 2011 5:09 AM GMT
    rosco87 saidi haven't gotten a serious response to this type of question either


    go back and check your thread,,,,there's even more for your entertainment...lol................................icon_lol.gif
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    Jan 11, 2011 5:09 AM GMT
    fulldelight saidIf you are actually considering a second date with him, then he probably didn't seem like a serial killer. Yes, you never know what kind of a creep is hiding behind someone's cute smile, but if you go through life worrying that any guy is a criminal, you might as well give up now.
    Invite him over, kiss him, fuck him and have a great time!!



    HA HA !!! nothing slow about you is there !!!!
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    Jan 11, 2011 5:37 AM GMT
    After you snap the cuffs on him and have him strung up on the St Andrews in your basement, you can interrogate him to determine whether he's "safe."

    If you're still not sure, get out the cattle prod.