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    Jan 11, 2011 6:57 AM GMT
    So which are you a relationship type of guy or a guy who prefers one night stands every night?

    I'm more of the relationship type of guy
    BTW if there is/was a post like this up before I'm sorry, I was too lazy to look for it. icon_razz.gif
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    Jan 11, 2011 7:12 AM GMT
    def relationship.......................................keithicon_smile.gif
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    Jan 11, 2011 11:37 AM GMT
    relationship for sure.... one-night stands are only that, because they are boring dates and I dont want to repeat them
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    Jan 11, 2011 12:25 PM GMT
    amar_m saidrelationship for sure.... one-night stands are only that, because they are boring dates and I dont want to repeat them


    So True. Relationships make you feel good about yourself. A one night stand makes you feel used.
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    Jan 11, 2011 1:07 PM GMT
    i doubt anyone is going to say "im a one night stand every night kind of guy."

  • zenny

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    Jan 11, 2011 1:07 PM GMT
    I feel dirty after having sex with someone I just met even if we do continue to talk afterward. I've never been in a serious relationship, but I think it'll suit me best.
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    Jan 11, 2011 1:31 PM GMT
    Voice22 saidi doubt anyone is going to say "im a one night stand every night kind of guy."


    Proving once again there's a wide gap between theory and practice.
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    Jan 11, 2011 1:39 PM GMT
    why choose one? I love BOTH! You just gotta find the right BF ;-)
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    Jan 11, 2011 1:42 PM GMT
    speedobuddy saidwhy choose one? I love BOTH! You just gotta find the right BF ;-)


    I know right?

    I'll have my cake and eat it too.
  • DKnight

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    Jan 11, 2011 1:50 PM GMT
    Before having the ability of managing my life, I would choose one night stand. But when the time I am capable of dealing myself , I am alll into the relatioship one. icon_razz.gif
    To me, it's all about responsiblity!
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    Jan 11, 2011 1:54 PM GMT
    ExcuseMyHyperbole said
    speedobuddy saidwhy choose one? I love BOTH! You just gotta find the right BF ;-)


    I know right?

    I'll have my cake and eat it too.


    lol you guys have dirty, greedy minds hehe icon_cool.gif joy forever right? icon_razz.gif
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    Jan 11, 2011 1:57 PM GMT
    speedobuddy saidwhy choose one? I love BOTH! You just gotta find the right BF ;-)


    ...a one night stand from last year has turned into great relationship and neither of us have any qualms about how we met (Manhunt) or that we both came before we knew each others names.
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    Jan 11, 2011 2:04 PM GMT
    Looking at my past history, I'm a relationship junkie.

    Not sure what the future holds though.
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    Jan 11, 2011 3:29 PM GMT
    navi_saiyan saidSo which are you a relationship type of guy or a guy who prefers one night stands every night?

    Both, echoing some of the comments above. It depends on my current relationship status, and even my location. When I was single I was a slut, but give me a chance to settle down and I'll choose the relationship.

    I used to travel a great deal, and when staying out of town I'd always be having 1-night stands the whole time. It wasn't likely I'd be seeing these guys again, and it was just sex in a hotel room. Although in 1 US city I did develop a network of gay friends in whose homes I could stay, and ending up in bed with those of them who were also single.

    (The little ritual that preceded my first time in bed with them always amused me, and how it was usually very similar, no matter the guy. He'd offer me the spare room, or a sofa bed, and I'd listen for the exploratory tone in his voice, with all the qualifiers & apologies. Such as: it was the best he could offer me, you may find it too cold (or hot) in there, sorry it has no TV, it's an old mattress, etc. Eventually he'd hesitatingly suggest his own nicer bed was an option, too, if I didn't mind sharing. I'd reply sure, but would it bother him if I didn't wear anything, cause I always sleep naked at home, which is really true, but I'll keep my boxers on if he'd be more comfortable with me that way. Oh, no, not bother him at all, every last one of them always answered, in fact usually the way he slept too, if that was OK with me. Naturally it was, though I only believed about half of them actually slept naked regularly. But I've never yet gotten into bed naked with a man and not ended up having sex with him, so at that point I already knew how the night would go. On subsequent return stays that little dance wasn't necessary, just jumping directly into bed with him, naked as always)

    Back home my tricking was much more elaborate, my house and bedroom made ready to receive that night's "catch" from the club when I returned, even to the breakfast table being already set for next morning before I went out the front door.

    ::: SIGH ::: Many fond memories (and fondling memories, too). But still, happier in a long-term relationship. And very lucky to have experienced it all, missing out on nothing, and getting to choose and have the one I prefer.
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    Jan 11, 2011 3:35 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said

    (The little ritual that preceded my first time in bed with them always amused me, and how it was usually very similar, no matter the guy. He'd offer me the spare room, or a sofa bed, and I'd listen for the exploratory tone in his voice, with all the qualifiers & apologies. Such as: it was the best he could offer me, you may find it too cold (or hot) in there, sorry it has no TV, it's an old mattress, etc. Eventually he'd hesitatingly suggest his own nicer bed was an option, too, if I didn't mind sharing. I'd reply sure, but would it bother him if I didn't wear anything, cause I always sleep naked at home, which is really true, but I'll keep my boxers on if he'd be more comfortable with me that way. Oh, no, not bother him at all, every last one of them always answered, in fact usually the way he slept too, if that was OK with me. Naturally it was, though I only believed about half of them actually slept naked regularly. But I've never yet gotten into bed naked with a man and not ended up having sex with him, so at that point I already knew how the night would go. On subsequent return stays that little dance wasn't necessary, just jumping directly into bed with him, naked as always).


    LOL that did amuse me indeed. It never went that way with me. It was just "Wanna sleep over???" "SURE!!!" done icon_biggrin.gificon_twisted.gificon_razz.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_cool.gif
  • calibro

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    Jan 11, 2011 5:28 PM GMT
    I don't think I'm either. I personally don't get much out of one-night stands, nor do I really want to be committed right now. If anything, I prefer intimacy, and typically like to have someone I can be with, but am not looking to define it or seek it out in the long term for the time being. Cuddle buddies is how I like to define it.
  • needleninja

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    Jan 11, 2011 5:34 PM GMT
    plz to god (if hes is real) if i could only find someone real around my age.
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    Jan 11, 2011 5:48 PM GMT
    Relationships, but I don't like to approach things with too many expectations.

    One night stands are enjoyable while they last, but always leaves one feeling empty and disconnected the next day.
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    Jan 11, 2011 7:48 PM GMT
    speedobuddy saidwhy choose one? I love BOTH! You just gotta find the right BF ;-)


    I had a BF that wanted to do 3ways - It sucked. The thought of doing it is so hot, but seeing your BF pipe somebody.... not cool.

    One nighters have you feeling shitty after it's over with. I'd much rather sit at home with my BF, have sex, then eat, watch TV, cuddle, etc..
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    Jan 12, 2011 1:19 AM GMT
    Honestly, i had more success with one nighters than relationships, so might as well run with it! icon_confused.gif
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    Jan 12, 2011 1:50 AM GMT
    I learned in my semi-slutty past that I am definitely not a one-night-stand kind of guy. Just didn't feel good about myself. I feel better not having sex at all than I did when I was having sex with randos. I haven't been in an actual relationship with a guy, but I feel like it will be more my thing.
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    Jan 12, 2011 2:16 AM GMT
    There should be a "neither" for people who want committed fuck buddies etc. but don't want the emotional baggage of relationships - a lot of my friends fall into that category.
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    Jan 12, 2011 11:14 AM GMT
    speedobuddy saidwhy choose one? I love BOTH! You just gotta find the right BF ;-)

    And the right one night stand and make sure the BF doesn't find out about the one night stand icon_razz.gif jk
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    Jan 12, 2011 11:40 AM GMT
    Def a relationship guy!
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    Jan 12, 2011 4:11 PM GMT
    I only have one night stand beside my bed because I'm too poor to afford a second one.