navi_saiyan saidSo which are you a relationship type of guy or a guy who prefers one night stands every night?
Both, echoing some of the comments above. It depends on my current relationship status, and even my location. When I was single I was a slut, but give me a chance to settle down and I'll choose the relationship.
I used to travel a great deal, and when staying out of town I'd always be having 1-night stands the whole time. It wasn't likely I'd be seeing these guys again, and it was just sex in a hotel room. Although in 1 US city I did develop a network of gay friends in whose homes I could stay, and ending up in bed with those of them who were also single.
(The little ritual that preceded my first time in bed with them always amused me, and how it was usually very similar, no matter the guy. He'd offer me the spare room, or a sofa bed, and I'd listen for the exploratory tone in his voice, with all the qualifiers & apologies. Such as: it was the best he could offer me, you may find it too cold (or hot) in there, sorry it has no TV, it's an old mattress, etc. Eventually he'd hesitatingly suggest his own nicer bed was an option, too, if I didn't mind sharing. I'd reply sure, but would it bother him if I didn't wear anything, cause I always sleep naked at home, which is really true, but I'll keep my boxers on if he'd be more comfortable with me that way. Oh, no, not bother him at all, every last one of them always answered, in fact usually the way he slept too, if that was OK with me. Naturally it was, though I only believed about half of them actually slept naked regularly. But I've never yet gotten into bed naked with a man and not ended up having sex with him, so at that point I already knew how the night would go. On subsequent return stays that little dance wasn't necessary, just jumping directly into bed with him, naked as always)
Back home my tricking was much more elaborate, my house and bedroom made ready to receive that night's "catch" from the club when I returned, even to the breakfast table being already set for next morning before I went out the front door.
::: SIGH ::: Many fond memories (and fondling memories, too). But still, happier in a long-term relationship. And very lucky to have experienced it all, missing out on nothing, and getting to choose and have the one I prefer.