Why everybody afraid from commitment ??

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    Jan 12, 2011 5:36 AM GMT
    God is it too much to ask to be loved...is it too much to ask to have someone to love for the rest of my life?.....is it greedy to not be lonely for the remaining pathetic years of my life?.............i am tired, lonely, sad and , god why u made me gay??....i bet if i was straight it would be much easier to be with someone....is it?
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    Jan 12, 2011 5:44 AM GMT
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    Jan 12, 2011 5:54 AM GMT

    "God is it too much to ask to be loved...is it too much to ask to have someone to love for the rest of my life?"

    No, it's not, but it's also not easily come by.


    " .....is it greedy to not be lonely for the remaining pathetic years of my life?"

    No, it isn't. And just why are your years pathetic?

    " ...........i am tired, lonely, sad and , god why u made me gay??....i bet if i was straight it would be much easier to be with someone....is it?"

    It might be, there are 90% more of them than gays.
    If you want me to get all preachy and spiritual (being christian) I might say that god made you gay to be part of god's Name; we are all syllables of it. *cheezy grin*

    I was tired, lonely and sad at times, too. It means that you will appreciate a good love that much more.


    -Doug

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    Jan 12, 2011 5:56 AM GMT
    I'm not afraid. I want to find my soulmate now but I'll settle for a boyfriend. I don't give guys the time of day unless they have that chance. I used to be a whore though and do what you hate: just fuck and move on. The reason was it was easier to find sex than it was to find love. Much easier. But I realized through many experiences that sex sucks and I will catch something if I continue. So I stopped.
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    Jan 12, 2011 5:59 AM GMT
    that is exactly what i have been through....i had like 10 times sex during the last month...and with different people...but i cant take it anymore.......i cant ....i wish to die than continue...but simply i cant be alone..i will die too....and please guys i really don't want negative comments cause really this matter is pressing on my nerves and it is affecting my life, my work , my study, everything .....
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    Jan 12, 2011 6:01 AM GMT
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    What a sexy bitch, I'd hit that. What were we talking about? Oh... THE C WORD! FUCK, WHERES THE NEAREST EXIT?!?!
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    Jan 12, 2011 6:03 AM GMT
    Don't be such a clingy whiny crybaby and it might be easier to find someone. icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 12, 2011 6:03 AM GMT
    and my years are pathetic cause everyday i wake up with no reason ....i wake up and have nothing to do, wake up and i know i have nothing to live for
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    Jan 12, 2011 6:03 AM GMT
    Look, I know like everyone hates this guy, but I think if you put it on slow motion you'll get something out of this.

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    Jan 12, 2011 6:04 AM GMT
    Who is this Gaysian? He is so famous now I love him. Is he on RJ?
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    Jan 12, 2011 6:05 AM GMT
    Ihab saidand my years are pathetic cause everyday i wake up with no reason ....i wake up and have nothing to do, wake up and i know i have nothing to live for


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    Jan 12, 2011 6:06 AM GMT
    Ihab saidthat is exactly what i have been through....i had like 10 times sex during the last month...and with different people...but i cant take it anymore.......i cant ....i wish to die than continue...but simply i cant be alone..i will die too....and please guys i really don't want negative comments cause really this matter is pressing on my nerves and it is affecting my life, my work , my study, everything .....


    You say, "..but simply i cant be alone..i will die too..." but really, you won't. You need to take some time and breath real deep. You're feeling some powerful feelings but remember they're feelings. Our depths of despair teach us to see our times of happiness and love them that much more and try to maintain them and nurture them that much more. Your life is before you but none of us can see what's over the next hill. That's your adventure. Patience.

    -Doug
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    Jan 12, 2011 6:07 AM GMT
    Ihab saidand my years are pathetic cause everyday i wake up with no reason ....i wake up and have nothing to do, wake up and i know i have nothing to live for
    Who the fuck would wanna date someone like that?
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    Jan 12, 2011 6:07 AM GMT
    Great ....i really feel more great..how you guys support each other...god i asked not to see negative comments and everybody now is trying to make me their enemy ..........i really feel very tired now,,it was a mistake that i decided to share what i fell...
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    Jan 12, 2011 6:08 AM GMT

    Fearthefall, perhaps you didn't see this part,
    "and please guys i really don't want negative comments cause really this matter is pressing on my nerves and it is affecting my life, my work , my study, everything ....."

    ...or are strangers automatically to be disrespected?

    -Doug
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    Jan 12, 2011 6:09 AM GMT
    Ihab saidGreat ....i really feel more great..how you guys support each other...god i asked not to see negative comments and everybody now is trying to make me their enemy ..........i really feel very tired now,,it was a mistake that i decided to share what i fell...


    You are only making yourself an enemy by feeling unnecessarily insecure and taking the internet too serious.

    You'll be taken more serious if you specify your situation and feelings. Not just throw out "everybody doesn't love me" shit.
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    Jan 12, 2011 6:10 AM GMT
    Ihab saidGreat ....i really feel more great..how you guys support each other...god i asked not to see negative comments and everybody now is trying to make me their enemy ..........i really feel very tired now,,it was a mistake that i decided to share what i fell...


    Ihab I'm speaking to you very honestly. Ignore any post that doesn't help you.

    -Doug

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    Jan 12, 2011 6:10 AM GMT
    Ihab saidGreat ....i really feel more great..how you guys support each other...god i asked not to see negative comments and everybody now is trying to make me their enemy ..........i really feel very tired now,,it was a mistake that i decided to share what i fell...


    No it wasnt man. Paul has a sick and twisted way of giving advice. Remember, when you are trying to date someone, you gotta be someone worth dating. If you think life is worthless, other people will pick up on it. Go out, do things you enjoy, find the joy in being single, and the person will come.
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    Jan 12, 2011 6:11 AM GMT
    and why the fuck you think i will date you...............?
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    Jan 12, 2011 6:12 AM GMT
    Ihab saidand why the fuck you think i will date you...............?

    um dooooood, you need to sleep on this, and also...
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    Jan 12, 2011 6:13 AM GMT
    I like the amount of memes ITT.
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    Jan 12, 2011 6:14 AM GMT
    shaag382 saidLook, I know like everyone hates this guy, but I think if you put it on slow motion you'll get something out of this.



    LOL even though this video made me laugh, he brings up a lot of great points.
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    Jan 12, 2011 6:17 AM GMT
    Chainers saidPaul has a sick and twisted way of giving advice.
    ...and that's when I'm being nice. icon_biggrin.gif

    Chainers saidRemember, when you are trying to date someone, you gotta be someone worth dating. If you think life is worthless, other people will pick up on it. Go out, do things you enjoy, find the joy in being single, and the person will come.
    In other words, if you don't enjoy yourself, it's hypocritical to expect someone else to.




    PS. I've already been through the heartaches. Now I totally enjoy being single. If I ever decide to let someone into my life, it will "truly" be someone special...not just someone to make me feel better about myself. icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 12, 2011 6:18 AM GMT
    i have only one question......why everybody aggressive?...maybe i am insecure or having low self steam..but at least i am not an a senseless son of bitch
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    Jan 12, 2011 6:19 AM GMT

    +10! Paulflexes said,

    "PS. I've already been through the heartaches. Now I totally enjoy being single. If I ever decide to let someone into my life, it will "truly" be someone special...not just someone to make me feel better about myself."

    This is so so true, and I think you should think about this Ihab.

    -Doug