The unexpected flirt... meeting guys in improbable places.

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    Jan 13, 2011 10:48 AM GMT
    So do you guys have any interesting stories on flirts or hook-ups that happened when you didn't expect it? share your stories, funny, embarrassing, whatever, here's mine...

    This weekend I was out with some straight friends. We were in the outskirts of the city so there was definitely nothing fancy about it. we hit some pubs and local bars where the clientel were mainly local regulars and blue collar types. nothing gay about it at all. in fact one of my friends (who live in that area and knew the bars) told me not to try and flirt w guys there cos people get beaten up for a lot less sometimes... like not being local would potentially earn you an ass kicking.
    Anyway the last bar we go to, we're all hammered at this point, there's another group of friends. they look like a group of local guys, a few of them pretty hot (in their badass sort of way).
    I'm normally quite inhibited, but a few times when I'm VERY drunk, I apparently become very confident and fearless in terms of approaching guys. my usual problem though, is that I don't have a functional gaydar to single out the gay/bi guys.
    So at one point I make eye contact w a guy at the end of the bar... is he flirting w me? Drunk me thinks, "why not find out!" and I disregard my friends' advice. luckily he was being flirtatious and we talked and I think he found me to be entertaining (we didn't hook up though, and he left with his friends... or I did, not sure what happened really icon_lol.gif )
    Now, my problem the next day was that I didn't remember much detail from our conversation, just the feeling that I'd met a cute guy. did I get his number even? I go through my phone, nothing. then emtying my pockets I find a note w a phone number on it WOOHOO icon_biggrin.gif and I text a message. No answer in 24 hrs BOOHOO. So I'd basically given up when monday night I get a msg from him. I realize he didn't get my message cos the number he gave me had 89 instead of 98 in it (he'd been drunk too obviously). Luckily he had tracked me down from remembering my name and that I'd talked about my judo, so he found the website of my judo club and got in touch w me. I thought that was really sweet and I'meeting him again this weekend YAY. Let's hope I find him just as attractive without the beer goggles on. wish me luck. now it's your turn icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 13, 2011 10:57 AM GMT
    Oh btw, here's the text I tried to send him, funny to think about some random person getting this message sunday afternoon LOL

    "Hey, I got your number last night, so I can't have been totally UNcharming icon_lol.gif hope you're not as hung over as I am today icon_smile.gif T "
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    Jan 13, 2011 11:53 AM GMT
    I met my ex in my engineering lab. He was a friend on one of the girls. We had like 2 girls. I just happened to be in the lab chatting away after a midterm.

    First of all- engineering- mostly straight males icon_razz.gif
    Second- it was in a locked lab, so chances of non-engineers showing up is nada.
    Third- I specifically remember that day because I almost went straight home after my midterm. Instead, I went back to the lab and hung out with some peeps.

    Apparently we were both so into each other that everyone in the lab knew we'd hook up, lol
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    Jan 13, 2011 1:45 PM GMT
    I met a guy the last place I would expect. The gym. I workout seriously and the guys I'm attracted to also workout seriously. I'm generally focused and not into conversation. The only thing I'll do is glance between sets making a point to not be obvious at all. A few weeks ago, I saw a guy I hadn't seen before. Definite eye candy - face and body. His lifting form was excellent also. Later I happened to be using a bench near his. When close, I definitely won't look. Between sets I would either stare into space or look down. He called over to me, asking about my logging of exercises. He was interested in doing the same. Anyway, we started talking. He was very easy to talk to. We talked about workouts, then other things and have gotten to know each other fairly well. He'd also like us to be workout partners. Would be highly motivating for me, but our schedules are often different.
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    Jan 13, 2011 1:53 PM GMT
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  • misternick

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    Jan 13, 2011 1:54 PM GMT
    I had a tennis ball and was playing catch with a friend from work in the hotel pool, and a really cute guy walked in. Of course, I asked if he wanted to play!

    Long story short, got his number and still keep in touch. He's good-looking, smart, friendly, polite and has a career. And single (in case anybody in Boston feels like all the good ones are taken).

    Only when you're in a monogamous relationship does this happen. If I were single, he would've been a skeezy jackass.
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    Jan 13, 2011 2:32 PM GMT
    At a gym recently, a hot 25-something dude in speedo was eyeing me in the steam room. I went to outside showers and he followed. We chatted, he told me he was there with a straight buddy, they had been competing together in a sporting event. His buddy was in the sauna.

    He was keeping watch into the changeroom area while showing off his stiff cock in his speedo - nice fat uncut dick. We really had a mutual cock admiration and stroking session going. Then he joined me under the showers, making it difficult to keep watch. He was stroking my cock when his buddy walked outside and found him clasping my rampant cock and about to go down and give head.

    His mate was struck dumb! No words were spoken. His buddy said nothing to me, just sat on a bench and stared in amazement as my man beat a hasty retreat to the steamroom and I followed soon after, where he told he did not know if his buddy suspected/knew he bi and that it was certainly going to be very awkward explaining it.

    He saw his friend leave the dressing room and decided he had better get out as well as they were in the same car. I felt bummed for the dude. I won't mention the sport, as he is a professional player. I hope it didn't damage his relationship with his buddy...maybe, just maybe, it might have opened their sporting friendship to something else.
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    Jan 13, 2011 3:47 PM GMT
    Sounds awesome, I had a similar thing happen to me at a str8 bar but I'd had a bit too much to drink icon_redface.gif. I remember two good looking guys striking up a conversation with me in the bathroom. They were really cool and I was specifically into one of them, we apparently talked most of the night and then I suddenly realized I had too much to drink and I left without exchanging numbers icon_cry.gif.
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    Jan 13, 2011 3:51 PM GMT
    That's awesome! Hope he is as attractive as you remember and you have a good time!
  • iHavok

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    Jan 13, 2011 4:00 PM GMT
    i look forward to the end of this story
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    Jan 13, 2011 4:05 PM GMT
    photosrus saidThat's awesome! Hope he is as attractive as you remember and you have a good time!


    lol hihihi yeah, that can happen when oyu are drunk icon_razz.gif
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    Jan 13, 2011 4:19 PM GMT
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    photosrus saidThat's awesome! Hope he is as attractive as you remember and you have a good time!


    lol hihihi yeah, that can happen when oyu are drunk icon_razz.gif


    Haha I was about to say the same thing. Hopefully he is as hot as you remember and isn't some troll look-a-like.

    But I love that story and hope it works out well! Let us know how it goes!
  • Vaughn

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    Jan 13, 2011 4:43 PM GMT
    A really really really hot guy came on to me in the Sauna. He caught me off guard, I didn't do anything. It'll never happen again. icon_sad.gif
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    Jan 14, 2011 11:44 AM GMT
    KSUOWL said
    amar_m said
    photosrus saidThat's awesome! Hope he is as attractive as you remember and you have a good time!


    lol hihihi yeah, that can happen when oyu are drunk icon_razz.gif


    Haha I was about to say the same thing. Hopefully he is as hot as you remember and isn't some troll look-a-like.

    But I love that story and hope it works out well! Let us know how it goes!


    haha yeah I hope so too, I'll meet him again saturday and see him in a sober light, so I'll let you know how it went.

    sometimes the beer goggles fool ya, I remember this danish commercial for Tuborg beer icon_lol.gif
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    Jan 14, 2011 11:46 AM GMT
    Keep us posted on your progress please!!
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    Jan 14, 2011 12:08 PM GMT
    This is not a flirt story but was unexpected. After I had taken a shower and was drying myself in gym, a guy walked right next to me, peeped and said sweet way to close my ear. That caught me so off guard that I was looking like deer caught in headlight and left in the next moment. Now its funny how I reacted.

    Leaving that aside all the best for you and keep us posted how it goes for you.
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    Jan 14, 2011 9:06 PM GMT
    I won't go into details but I ended up snogging a guy at a wake, in fairness it was an Irish wake so there was lots of booze involved. Haven't met him since, probably not our finest moment.
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    Jan 16, 2011 2:50 PM GMT
    So I met the guy for drinks last night. we actually had a fun night, and did have a lot in common... but I think we'll be friends at best, I'm afraid.
    I just didn't feel the same physical attraction this time (being more sober) icon_sad.gif

    I guess alcohol just makes me a horndog. get me drunk enough and anyone can take advantage of me haha
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    Jan 16, 2011 2:56 PM GMT
    booo. i dont like this ending. you were supposed to get married!
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    Jan 16, 2011 3:05 PM GMT
    AvadaKedavra saidbooo. i dont like this ending. you were supposed to get married!


    I know, from a romantic perspective it kinda sucks.

    (so I'm still single if anyone's game LOL)
  • coolarmydude

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    Jan 16, 2011 3:19 PM GMT
    The night I came out to my best friends, a straight, married couple, we got really drunk...

    I started hitting on a random straight couple because I thought the guy was hot. Later, I found out from my best friends that that couple was hitting on them, looking for swinger action.


    See what I started? icon_eek.gif
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    Aug 24, 2011 9:20 PM GMT
    A few weeks ago, I decided to stay in town for my 3 day weekend and have a 'Stay-cation' instead of going for a road trip like I had originally planned.
    I decided to go to a reputable spa on the Las Vegas strip at one of the hotels, just to relax, get a good workout in and then hit the steam, pools and sauna.
    I wasn't expecting to meet anyone there,nor was I looking for that because random hook-ups aren't my thing. Most of the guys trolling around places like that are married men anyway, looking for a discrete hook-up with the old "what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas" mentality which is really not my style.
    So, I was just enjoying my time in the sauna and steam, friendly chatting with some of the guys, and I see this one quiet guy in the corner. He had an amazing body and I couldn't help but look when he got up to leave. Our eyes met, he was looking at me as well. One of the guys I was chatting with had made a comment about him as he left, something about his age and physique-How he looks great for his age (he looks 40, but he's 50).
    Later on, about an hour or so, Im pretty much ready to leave, but I feel compelled to talk to this guy, if only for a minute. I catch him coming out of the steam the same time as me, so I break the ice and strike up a conversation. We chat for a bit. Seems like a nice enough guy, but I need to leave so I can check in to my hotel room; plus, I started to get nervous.
    He catches me as I am drying off from the shower and says "You're in a hurry? I'd like to see you again" Turns out we are staying in the same hotel, He gives me his room number. I say it over and over again in my head to remember it. I was half hard because he really turned me on, but I didn't want him to take it the wrong way, so I rushed off to dress and leave.

    Well, later on, I get checked in, then I go try to find his room. This is where I start to freak out. I messed up the number in my mind, thinking he was on a different floor. It took me about 3 hours, and knocking on several doors before getting it right. I had realized my mistake and found his room. But he wasn't there. I left a note under his door with my cell number on it.
    I get a text about 2 hours later, and we plan to meet at the casino bar after a while. I see him in the casino, so I walk up to him and say hello. We hit it off right away, and talked and talked and talked our way up stairs. We had made such a connection, that sex was secondary. We were fascinated by each other.

    We talked all night long until he had to get ready to leave as it was his last night in town. I watched him pack up and get dressed, then we went down for breakfast before his friend picked him up in a cab to go to the airport.
    We had the most amazing night, mostly just making a strong connection (yes, we did have sex, but that was just an extra bonus). When he left, I felt like things weren't finished...it was apparent that he felt the same way.
    We continued to talk on the phone every day. Two weeks later, I went to visit him in Florida and had an amazing time. Now he is coming out here to stay with me for a week.

    We are truly connected in so many ways and he is pretty much the man of my dreams.
    So far, so good, and I am as happy as I have ever been.
  • Lincsbear

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    Aug 24, 2011 10:01 PM GMT
    At university,in the lab, studying microbiology and organisms.
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    Aug 24, 2011 10:08 PM GMT
    I met my bf in his car.
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    Aug 24, 2011 10:09 PM GMT
    This was really hot. I was on my way to a pub on a hot August afternoon. A hot looking, buffed, tanned farm boy from Kansas asked me if I knew where a certain gay club was located. I offered to show him the way and invited him for a drink. He ended staying with me for a month before he had to return to the farm in Kansas. It was so nice to meet someone who was unjaded and appreciative. A lover relationship for one month.