have you ever had a crush on a straight guy??

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    Jan 15, 2011 4:00 AM GMT
    i have meet a straight guy....he was very nice....very polite..and very friendly....god he is so handsome....but the problem is he is straight he has a gf.....i dunno what to do..why the hell he was so fuckin nice,,,i wish he wasn't..so i will not think about him every second
  • rnch

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    Jan 15, 2011 4:02 AM GMT
    who hasn't here "had it bad" for a (supposidly) cute str8 guy?

    and they always have a gf........
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    Jan 15, 2011 4:03 AM GMT
    Which one? There's several...
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    Jan 15, 2011 4:26 AM GMT
    closet cases, but never straight, i dont think at least. 2 guys in a row, serious feelings for, kept staring at me or flirting with me or w/e, then all the sudden they're super paranoid and talking about their g/f a lot.

    just forget about them, waste of time.
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    Jan 15, 2011 4:29 AM GMT
    rosco i wanna say that what u have said is 100% true..it is so true damn it
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    Jan 15, 2011 4:35 AM GMT
    the worst thing you can do is pursue a guy like that, even if it's obvious to you they're gay, they will just get more paranoid and maybe even violent. aside from that even, it will be too much on you to handle the emotions of the situation. you can't even talk to them about it, it's just something they have to figure out themselves.
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    Jan 15, 2011 4:39 AM GMT
    Holy crap...This is exactly what I'm going through right now. Well, good luck (to both of us).

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    Jan 15, 2011 4:57 AM GMT
    good luck to u..i already gave up......
  • demonicius

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    Jan 15, 2011 5:15 AM GMT
    all i know straight gay doesn't like men, lol
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    Jan 15, 2011 5:21 AM GMT
    I get a crush on a straight guy like every freakin day!
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    Jan 15, 2011 5:35 AM GMT
    I rarely have a crush on a gay guy, it's always the straight ones.

    But then, I don't believe that straight guys are all actually 100% so straight, so there's always a possibility? Two guys in my past were supposedly are straight, married now with kids. But... back in the day, they were more than willing to experiment.
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    Jan 15, 2011 5:39 AM GMT
    I don't wanna talk about it. ahahah.

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    Jan 15, 2011 5:51 AM GMT
    OH MY GOD DUDE! I think that every man I have ever had a crush on in my entire life is straight... It's life, and it's tough... I just man up and move on.
  • mybud

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    Jan 15, 2011 5:51 AM GMT
    A straight guy is nice to you and your insane crazy for him...Seek help......BUD
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    Jan 15, 2011 6:02 AM GMT
    I had a crush on a personal trainer I used to see. Then I realized he was straight and got over it. No use wasting time on a straight guy when nothing but heartache will ever come of it.
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    Jan 15, 2011 6:32 AM GMT
    sashaman saidI had a crush on a personal trainer I used to see. Then I realized he was straight and got over it. No use wasting time on a straight guy when nothing but heartache will ever come of it.


    This^^^
    (and he's a trainer too).
  • ShanksE

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    Jan 15, 2011 6:45 AM GMT
    yourname2000 saidAll the time....I've bashed my heart against those rocks all of my life. icon_biggrin.gif


    Aah! I hear you on that one!

    To the OP: Yes,I have had crazy crushes on a straight guy. He was a very close friend and I ended up telling him that I love him. Guess what? He said that it was ok and we left it at that. We are still good friends and I have come to realize the futility of loving a straight guy! It feels great at that moment, the dreams you weave are awesome, but really speaking, that is not how it works.

    I realized it fully when a very close girl friend of mine proposed to me (!) and I had to tell her, that no matter how close we were as friends, I couldn't love her. The same's the case with our straight friends.

    Don't worry, enjoy it while it lasts, but one day soon you will find someone great and gay to love you, who you will love in return. Till then, dream on!
  • activeboy90

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    Jan 15, 2011 7:22 AM GMT
    Story of my life, gays guys around me are to flamery or to old, straight guys are masculine and play sports and outdoor stuff, awesome! I kinda have a little crush on a guy at work right now but he's just a great guy im completely fine just thinking he's cool.

    Gimme a complete straight acting gay, hot damn I'd die happy
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    Jan 15, 2011 7:48 AM GMT
    Story of my life. FML
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    Jan 15, 2011 8:04 AM GMT
    asking a gay guy if he's ever had a thing for a straight guy, is like asking if a fish has ever been in water. lol

    don't mean to be rude, but i'm willing to bet the first love of many of us on here was a straight guy.

    what can i say some of them are just so fucking hot, cute/handsome, and nice/friendly/understanding.

    and well some of us are flirty/delusional/obessive. haha
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    Jan 15, 2011 9:55 AM GMT
    rosco87 saidcloset cases, but never straight, i dont think at least. 2 guys in a row, serious feelings for, kept staring at me or flirting with me or w/e, then all the sudden they're super paranoid and talking about their g/f a lot.

    just forget about them, waste of time.


    rosco87 saidthe worst thing you can do is pursue a guy like that, even if it's obvious to you they're gay, they will just get more paranoid and maybe even violent. aside from that even, it will be too much on you to handle the emotions of the situation. you can't even talk to them about it, it's just something they have to figure out themselves.


    Ditto... good advice. Not worth the time and effort.
  • captproton

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    Jan 15, 2011 10:12 AM GMT
    Oh yeah, my workout buddy.

    Easily one of the handsomest guys I ever laid eyes on. Dark, Italian and built. Also engaged to be married. And then I went to the wedding. He is 20 years my junior, but we clicked at the gym. I'm sure he saw it as a big brother/little brother thing.

    But, man, I had no trouble carving out time to train with him. It even became a close friendship with dinners with him and his fiancee. A true friend--and very hot. (Sigh)
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    Jan 15, 2011 10:40 AM GMT
    Yeap...I hated it! I hated that feeling. icon_exclaim.gificon_exclaim.gificon_exclaim.gificon_exclaim.gif

    It's hard for people to get over others. You will soon.
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    Jan 15, 2011 2:24 PM GMT
    Got a crush on several straight guys...but I got it bad for one in particular, he's just so comfortable with me being gay and has no problem talking about it and is always really nice/cool to me when other straight guys get a little uncertain of some subjects.
  • coolarmydude

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    Jan 15, 2011 2:43 PM GMT
    Yep! http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1290021/

    I've pretty much gotten over this, but I still want to be very good friends with him because he is a good, stand-up guy. I think a lifelong friendship is in the works with this guy.