What's your type?

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    Jan 16, 2011 4:04 PM GMT
    I'm in the process of figuring that out...I'm generally pretty open, but I do have a few 'must haves': masculine, genuine, loves sports

    what about you?
  • rnch

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    Jan 16, 2011 4:16 PM GMT
    tall, short, pumped up, "average joe"....it depends on the individual guy himself.

    i'm constantly amazed & delighted at who "catches my eye" and who makes me smile.


    (OP, you are included in the above group) icon_cool.gif
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    Jan 16, 2011 4:29 PM GMT
    http://www.realjock.com/footballjock
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    Jan 16, 2011 4:40 PM GMT
    Looks- I'll either find you Attractive or not.

    Personality-Well rounded. I can't stand someone that only likes one damn thing.
    Funny
    Smart
    Not overly sensitive. I like to joke around a lot and I can't stand whiny bitches.

  • bossanova

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    Jan 16, 2011 4:45 PM GMT
    Im with Lenoxx, Nice, Smart, Inteligent, Bottom (looll)..., anyway...
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    Jan 16, 2011 5:01 PM GMT
    Cant say i have a "type"..
  • italguynj

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    Jan 16, 2011 5:14 PM GMT
    A 5'8" version of Joe Manganiello. I would add his image here but I have no clue how to do that.

    http://www.zimbio.com/Joe+Manganiello/articles/hcl8TLHWPEq/True+Blood+Alcide+Herveaux+Played+Joe+Manganiello
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    Jan 16, 2011 5:24 PM GMT
    I really don't have a type but latins usually get top billing.
  • Citrushills

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    Jan 16, 2011 5:31 PM GMT
    Doesn't take oneself too seriously yet has a good mind. Somebody warm hearted and open-minded. As far as looks I usually prefer smooth boyish in decent shape types but the personality is equally important.
  • ohioguy12

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    Jan 16, 2011 5:33 PM GMT
    masculine, sports fans, white generally
  • starboard5

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    Jan 16, 2011 5:34 PM GMT
    Chemistry can come in unpredictable packages, but by inclination I'd have to say I like a bookish jock.
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    Jan 16, 2011 5:37 PM GMT
    I'm with Lenoxx on looks-wise. No racial preference whatsoever, but a guy with tatts definitely gets more points.

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    Personality and sense of humor goes a long way. I think a guy who knows how to laugh at himself is sexy. And a top! sweetness.png
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    Jan 16, 2011 5:44 PM GMT
    I'm in the process of trying to figure that out too...always thought I liked built, taller jock types, but SO many times those have resulted in them being too insecure with themselves to take things further with me icon_sad.gif

    Went through a stage where I thought my type was people old enough to be my dad haha..icon_razz.gif

    And now wondering if my type is more my size, artsy/musician but still masc. type. Who knows? Certainly not me.

    MUST be masculine and attractive though...maybe that's my "type"...?
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    Jan 16, 2011 5:55 PM GMT
    I suppose we all have some degree of inborn preferences that influence our choice of a mate. They often say that straight men tend to subconsciously marry their mothers, so do gay men date and marry their fathers?

    The problem I see with declaring a type is that you tend to get locked into it. Narrow your choices too much and you'll have trouble thinking outside that box, and begin to have difficulty finding a man who's also got the one thing he must always have without exception: an interest and love in YOU.

    And I see this happen again and again, and was a topic my partner & I discussed just yesterday, talking about a friend. This guy's on yet another new BF, who's the clone of all his predecessors. And we wondered why he keeps picking this same physical type, and why he doesn't expand his range so he'll have a better chance of meeting men who won't disappoint him.

    Now I do have my preferences, but more in a negative approach, the things I don't want in a man, like laziness, deceitfulness and unfaithfulness. But no real must-haves, except that he truly like ME. That alone naturally narrows the field rather drastically for me, but offsetting that is the fact that I'll take them in all shapes, sizes & colors.

    And while I don't think in terms of my type, I must confess I sometimes use it as an excuse. When a guy starts coming on to me too strongly, and I'm not interested, I'll tell him he's a real nice guy, but just not my type. Fortunately most gay men understand this reason, and it lets them down a little easier, rather than saying "I just don't like YOU." So I guess type has at least one good purpose.
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    Jan 16, 2011 6:44 PM GMT
    Adventurous man with the right chemistryicon_razz.gif
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    Jan 16, 2011 7:14 PM GMT
    DarkskinCutie21 saidI'm just gonna put my two cents out there and not sugarcoat like some ppl i am a nice guy when i want to be but you will be surprised on how much of a freak i am and how wild i can be. But when it comes to a type i am fairly open but prefer my men black, my age, into darkskin dudes, got a nice shaft, and knows how to treat me by being both a gentleman and a freak. icon_wink.gif


    A black guy who dates black guys? icon_surprised.gif

    Oh wait, I live in New York.
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    Jan 16, 2011 7:31 PM GMT
    Buff.
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    Jan 16, 2011 7:49 PM GMT
    I'm not sure I have a type but being reasonably fit and intelligent is a good start.
  • chameleon

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    Jan 16, 2011 8:17 PM GMT
    not an asshole
    and more and more i think mute would be good
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    Jan 16, 2011 8:25 PM GMT
    Good hygiene, nice teeth, has money. Lol! icon_biggrin.gif
    Actually, i've been finding myself attracted to alot of different guys, my specifics are beginning to blur. I guess it depends on the guy.
    But good hygiene IS essential!
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    Jan 16, 2011 8:27 PM GMT
    Sense of humor, some what masculine, healthy and fit, genuine, intelligent and spontaneous.
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Jan 16, 2011 8:27 PM GMT
    My perfect "type" would be in his 40's or 50's, clean-cut, fit & athletic, ambitious with a solid career, and an easy-going personality and a fun (but not mean-spirited) sense of humor.
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    Jan 16, 2011 8:39 PM GMT
    My type would never be into me. What a sad life.
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    Jan 16, 2011 8:43 PM GMT
    AvadaKedavra saidMy type would never be into me. What a sad life.


    what is your type?

    I'm in a nosey mood ;p
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    Jan 16, 2011 8:44 PM GMT
    My type is non-exsistent, because he only exists in movies, lmao.

    Sad, I know.