after the first "date"

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    Jan 18, 2011 3:11 AM GMT
    So, I found out a mutual friend is gay. So we chatted on fb/text a little bit then he said we should definitely hang out sometime. So I invited him to a movie Saturday night. It went well, I like him a lot...we talked for about twenty mins before the movie and a few after, so not a whole lot of interaction, but it felt right to me. Right after the movie, he texted me thanks a lot for inviting him and we should hang out again.

    I texted him a bit yesterday, but he didn't seem in the mood to text. What is the next "step." Should I invite him for something next weekend or should I wait for him to ask??

    I want to get this right, as its the first person I really like that's actually out. And yes, I feel like I'm in middle school all over again haha.
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    Jan 18, 2011 3:35 AM GMT
    let it slide, if he texts you back, great..if he doesn't chalk it up to having a good time and move on...plenty of growing and plenty of fishing ahead...icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 18, 2011 3:36 AM GMT
    mikkeb said

    I want to get this right, as its the first person I really like that's actually out. And yes, I feel like I'm in middle school all over again haha.



    He's out and your not? Ah, young love...


    LOL


    Wait day or so, if he doesn't text you, then ask him if he'd like to hang out again... See where it goes from there... Your friend doesn't seem like he's in a rush.
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    Jan 22, 2011 10:55 PM GMT
    meh....I gave in and decided to give him a last chance and texted him to see if he wanted to do something tonight. I got a text back "eh I dunno"...I guess I can mark him off the very short list. icon_confused.gif
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    Jan 22, 2011 11:00 PM GMT
    mikkeb saidWhat is the next "step."
    Sex.
    Although, that should have been before the movie.
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    Jan 22, 2011 11:04 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    mikkeb saidWhat is the next "step."
    Sex.
    Although, that should have been before the movie.


    Dude, you're like in the first 10 posts of EVERY thread on this entire website. We get it. You have sex a lot and aren't going to be tied down with any love business. I hope I have a better life experience so I don't end up like you.

    To the OP, sounds like he's not interested. Move on. Gay men are too picky for their own good.