Find out a dude is gay without let that person know you are gay!

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    Jan 18, 2011 11:16 PM GMT
    Am a college student and I am one of those people that don't want the whole world know about my personal orientation (only close friends and family). The dudes I like are more masculine but they do have some "signs" they can be gay. One guy am curious about is an art student and he dress very "differently" like skin tight spandex he wore to school..it didn't make him look gay but you kinda wonder.

    Anyway, the second day i met him I asked him if i can add him on facebook...he kind of hesitated but than all of sudden out of the blue "Sure, what the hell! Dude!". I don't want to come to strong to show I have a tend bit of interest in him but I don't have to patience to wait any longer if he is gay or not..

    P.S. I couldn't find him on facebook...so am just talk to him here and there without freaking him out..

    any advice
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    Jan 19, 2011 4:50 AM GMT
    Dude wearing spandex for not a sporting event...yep he might be

    LOL idk I have a bad gaydar