Jan 21, 2011 3:45 AM GMT
Do you guys have any tips or tricks on how to fuck a bottom nicely to make him feel good? im new to this kinda so any help would be great :/ thanks guys!!!!!!!!
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Somerandom said1/ Dont go soft - or else it will be like putting playdough in a moneybox. Stay hard, aight buddy? Keep feeling him up and listen to him moan, and dont forget, that when you top, you are in control.
2/ He will feel more in the mood/attracted to you if you lock eye contact and keep a good hold of him. Let him feel like your toy. like you are using him for your own pleasure. That is the role of the bottom. Dont let him forget that. And if it feels good, make it known through how you breathe, dont keep your mouth shut like you are just picking daisies or something, at least look like you are loving it.
3/ Keep a steady rhythm... I found this hard at first when guys would push back into me and we never got the same rhythm... so if that happens, grab him and pull him towards you at YOUR pace (remember 1/)
Right, I could write more, but I dont want to come off as a try-hard topping expert, these are just three things that work for me.
yourname2000 saidnavi_saiyan saidSomerandom said...a bunch of hot stuff...
Is it bad that this turned me on O.O
No...you're 25 and SR is 24.
I think it's probably bad that it turned me on, though. (facepalms self)
Somerandomlike you are using him for your own pleasure. That is the role of the bottom.
_SAGE_Show him who is boss, be firm, in more ways than one.
mohammed250 saidIf your bottom likes to be taken control of then do it. If not, don't.
Don't assume roles...worst thing to do.
Pure saidDefinitely vary the speed and depth of your thrusts. One technique I like to do is to go all the way in, then pull out really really slowly, an inch at a time until just the head is still inside, then pump forward several quick shallow thrusts then finish off with another really deep, grinding thrust. You'll really enjoy that too!
Also, as others have said, switch up positions! Different guys are going to like different things and a lot depends on the angle and size of your dick when hard, if you don't want them to cum too soon then don't start with a position that heavily stimulates their prostate.
Again, already been said but don't just fuck a guy like you are pumping an inanimate object - stimulate them all over, touch their dick, their balls, their nipples, run your hands up and down their body, kiss/lick/bite their neck and earlobes - go to town! If you can't quite get the hang of doing some of these things while still thrusting then just rest inside him for a minute while you do, no harm in that.
Another thing that I've found drives bottoms wild is when you're all (or most) of the way in, squeeze your PC muscles so your dick does a bit of a flex/swell - I have strong PC muscles as I train them up daily and this goes down well - you can just slide in and pulse away while you enjoy their body, or you can thrust, pulse, pull out, thrust, pulse, pull out to drive them wild.
Aside from all that, being a good top is reliant on you being able to read your bottom - their body language, signals and vocals, so you know what they are enjoying and when it is uncomfortable/painful for them. Unfortunately this is just down to practice! Not all bottoms will enjoy you grabbing their thighs and jackhammering their assholes into oblivion.
Also, practical advice - make sure you have decent lube and condom to hand so you are ready to rock and roll when the time comes. And if you're not used to putting a condom on yourself, practice! It should only take a few seconds from packet to penetration.
Somerandom saidLet him feel like your toy. like you are using him for your own pleasure. That is the role of the bottom. Dont let him forget that.
A1BOT saidSomerandom saidLet him feel like your toy. like you are using him for your own pleasure. That is the role of the bottom. Dont let him forget that.
That sounds more like master and slave role-playing to me....