Do You Message Guys Who View Your Profile?

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    Jan 22, 2011 12:35 AM GMT
    Do you send a message to guys who view your profile here who seem like they might be a good match for you and are relatively close by? Or do you ad them to your friends list?

    I've been tempted to but don't really know what to say. For those who do, what do you say and how are you received by the guy?
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    Jan 22, 2011 2:12 AM GMT
    Not always, especially if their profile is blank. But sometimes I do. That is exactly how Wildkatz (Jeff) and I became such great friends. I saw one night that he had viewed me. I read his profile page. Sent him a funny email calling him out on breaking his rule about saying hi if you stop on his page and the rest they say....well you get it. You can never know what will happen (or won't) when you cross someone's page or email them about it.
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    Jan 22, 2011 2:19 AM GMT
    Ehanson saidDo you send a message to guys who view your profile here who seem like they might be a good match for you and are relatively close by? [...]


    Wishful thinking.
  • Ironman4U

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    Jan 22, 2011 2:29 AM GMT
    I will often email them or send them an IM. If I check out their profile and see that there might be some common interests (or if they are really hot).

    I'll simply start a conversation..."I see you visited my profile. I'm also into (fill in the blank). Seems like we have a few things in common..." etc, etc. I've made some really great connections that way. Of course, you also get the ones that don't respond or that you don't click with when you start the conversation, but that's ok too. If you're on here to meet other guys, why not reach out with a friendly hello. Nothing ventured, nothing gained!
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    Jan 22, 2011 2:35 AM GMT
    Not really. People check out profiles for many different reasons, and it doesn't necessarily mean they're interested. But then I'm shy.
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    Jan 22, 2011 2:41 AM GMT
    I tend to, but not always. Maybe if I'm logged on. Usually I message ppl by what I see from them in the forums.

    Definitely not the blanks/unverified unless they have some credentials.
    Most definitely not if they message me like 'I wanna suk u bod' or 'I'm watching you' with no body to the message and their profile is blank...

    CREEPY
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    Jan 22, 2011 2:42 AM GMT
    If they look interesting, i leave obscene comments on their pics, lol! icon_wink.gif
  • mybud

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    Jan 22, 2011 2:52 AM GMT
    No.....I feel if they want to get to know me better they'll message me...
  • barriehomeboy

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    Jan 22, 2011 2:54 AM GMT
    yes, if they're hot. Why else are they online? They're shy just like the rest of us. They just need a nudge.
  • barriehomeboy

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    Jan 22, 2011 2:55 AM GMT
    Coming on RealJock is like watching an episode of Big Bang Theory.
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    Jan 22, 2011 3:06 AM GMT
    I should start. ...maybe a nice "thank you come again!"
  • turtleneckjoc...

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    Jan 22, 2011 3:07 AM GMT
    barriehomeboy saidComing on RealJock is like watching an episode of Big Bang Theory.


    Oh how true! That is my favorite show as well.

    If the guy is excpetionally good looking or if there is something in his profile that sparks my interest, I will reply back. After I do, I'll likely never hear from the guy again. That's too bad, because he showed interest in me, number one. I took the time to connect with him because of common ground....His Loss.
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    Jan 22, 2011 3:22 AM GMT
    i thought this read 'do you "massage" guys.....icon_cry.gif
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    Jan 22, 2011 3:26 AM GMT
    What I usually do is look at the profile of the person who looked at my page. If there's something that I find interesting or intriguing I'll send 'em a message. But, I always send a "thanks" for people who hotlist me. My momma taught me to be polite, and when someone compliments ya, you thank 'em!
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    Jan 22, 2011 3:30 AM GMT
    Yes, if I find something in their profile that interests me. Like their fac or bod or another physical interest. lol
    I just say thk u 4 stopping by! And may make a comment or compliment.
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    Jan 22, 2011 4:03 AM GMT
    If they are hot I look back into their profiles, hoping they IM me, never has happened icon_sad.gif
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    Jan 22, 2011 4:08 AM GMT
    No, because there is a good chance they are just looking to see what ass said something so stupid in some thread.
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    Jan 22, 2011 4:12 AM GMT
    mybud saidNo.....I feel if they want to get to know me better they'll message me...


    I do the same.. i wouldn't cause if they didn't message me.. then its cause they're not interested at all...
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    Jan 22, 2011 4:23 AM GMT
    I reply to those who's profiles pique my interest. If they viewed my profile, chances are that they:

    A) Saw something they liked,
    B) Heard from another guy about how awesome I am (doubtful, but I have to throw it in there),
    C) Read something they liked that I posted to on a forum, or
    D) Read something they were appalled at that I posted, and just wanted to see if I was completely full of shit.

    Chances are, they checked out my profile in a positive way, so why not start a conversation with the ones I think are interesting?
  • Joeyphx444

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    Jan 22, 2011 4:29 AM GMT
    I don't normally cuz I assume they were just lookin and weren't really interested

    I did one time and I was lucky cuz he DID like me and we have been chatting icon_biggrin.gif I guess some guys are too shy to write a little msg or IM
  • kennyj08

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    Jan 22, 2011 5:38 AM GMT
    Yeah it depends though. I read their profile first and see if they're interesting to talk to. And even if they don't respond, at least I made an actual effort to say something than just look at their profile and move on.
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    Jan 22, 2011 5:39 AM GMT
    I don't just check profiles of people who I find hot. Some people are hot and I'll obviously check, but others just intrigue me. I don't think that if someone views my profile they're interested...but if someone messages, I always answer unless they're creepy (hasn't happened yet) and if they compliment, I'll always say thank you.

    Personally I'm pretty shy...if I was genuinely interested, I wouldn't know how to approach. Maybe that goes away with time.
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    Jan 22, 2011 9:49 AM GMT
    My standard msg is:

    Yo BITCH, why you cruisin me? WHY YOU CRUISIN ME?? huh?? HUH?????????? You lookin at me bitch? YOU LOOKING AT ME???? HUUUHH??????? You gettin up in my FAAACCCEEE??????

    *slams chest like gorilla*

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    Jan 22, 2011 10:11 AM GMT
    Pato_Rico saidMy standard msg is:

    Yo BITCH, why you cruisin me? WHY YOU CRUISIN ME?? huh?? HUH?????????? You lookin at me bitch? YOU LOOKING AT ME???? HUUUHH??????? You gettin up in my FAAACCCEEE??????

    *slams chest like gorilla*

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    ahahahahaha MADE my night!
    P.S - I miss that sexy profile pic with you in the black'n'red shirt
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    Jan 22, 2011 10:30 AM GMT
    Well I'm not on this sit to pick up guys as I'm here for fitness and social. If I check out the members who have viewed me I usually message something that I liked about their profile.