Playing hard to get or acutally hard to get?

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    Jan 22, 2011 8:46 PM GMT
    This is more a poll that I wanted to ask here.

    I've seen the saying "play hard to get" for a couple of years now, and have recently found in an article that one should be hard to get.

    i thought about it and i think i'm hard to get (no sex until in a committed relationship)

    which are you? (for those that are still dating/single)

    and which were you? (for those now in committed relationships)
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    Jan 22, 2011 11:02 PM GMT
    I'm hydrophobic so I bathe in grease.

    So even if I was easy- I'd still be hard to get.
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    Jan 22, 2011 11:41 PM GMT
    I'm particularly difficult, but once I say yes I'm a freakin whore.
  • DarkSensation

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    Jan 22, 2011 11:46 PM GMT
    I'm Kind an Easy..very Easy to Say....icon_sad.gif
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    Jan 22, 2011 11:49 PM GMT
    Epathos saidThis is more a poll that I wanted to ask here.

    I've seen the saying "play hard to get" for a couple of years now, and have recently found in an article that one should be hard to get.

    i thought about it and i think i'm hard to get (no sex until in a committed relationship)

    which are you? (for those that are still dating/single)

    and which were you? (for those now in committed relationships)


    I'm hard to get because I don't allow myself to be eaily gotten lol. Also if I don't feel like it's the right person regardless of looks, personality etc then I won't go for him.

    There was this hot guy at the bar the other week that kept checking me out. I exchanged glances with him just to go along with it. This kept going on for quite a long time. And then what he did was lift his shirt up to show me his abs -- which I thought was a bit of a shallow thing to do. So not long after I got bored and left lol...it didn't quite work out.
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    Jan 22, 2011 11:52 PM GMT
    I'd have to say that historically, I haven't been easy to get. I've always had my head in the clouds and was never looking for any specific thing with anyone. That combined with my somewhat lofty goals (I'm *actually* into my career) and obvious introversion...it's really a tall number for someone to break through, I guess. People tend to say or think I'm pretty intimidating, so I don't think that helps when it comes to approaching or showing interest. For the record, I don't think I am intimidating but I'm sure everyone says that...

    On the positive side, I'm also not one for games, so if there was a mutual interest, I'd try to make it work as seamlessly as possible. But like anything else, timing is key.
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    Jan 23, 2011 12:42 AM GMT
    I'm hard to get, when it comes to dating. That's because I'm not easy, so to speak, lol. I have a strong sense of moral and I stand by it.
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    Jan 23, 2011 1:01 AM GMT
    I used to be easy, but now i am hard to get when it comes to dating. When I got older and know what the market is like, i tend to be more conservative. Want to make sure the guy has substance other than looks icon_smile.gif.
  • needleninja

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    Jan 23, 2011 1:25 AM GMT
    you could say that i am hard to get, ill be lenient, but that doesnt mean that ill let my guard down.
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    Jan 24, 2011 7:38 AM GMT
    lilTankerI'm particularly difficult, but once I say yes I'm a freakin whore.


    hahaha, i know what you mean by that icon_wink.gif

    DarkSensationI'm Kind an Easy..very Easy to Say....


    what about it makes you put that sad face?

    closer85People tend to say or think I'm pretty intimidating, so I don't think that helps when it comes to approaching or showing interest. For the record, I don't think I am intimidating but I'm sure everyone says that...


    what about you is intimidating to people?

    closer85On the positive side, I'm also not one for games, so if there was a mutual interest, I'd try to make it work as seamlessly as possible. But like anything else, timing is key.


    i think it's best to do that as well about making it as seamless as possible, though there will always be some things to make it a little bumpy. and the last sentence is so freakin true. (for me, anyways)
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    Jan 24, 2011 7:50 AM GMT
    Definitely hard to get, but like liltanker, once you have me I am a whore.