So you know that guy you see around who's fucking HOT?

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    Jan 23, 2011 10:14 AM GMT
    Well, there was one of those I used to see at my old gym, but given how cruising is losing (and it's creepy as hell), I never approached him, and to be honest no one EVER said hi to anyone at my old gym. I saw him at a gay club tonight, as he was leaving, of course. Now that I'm taken, it may not really matter, but still. What could have been. I'm talking like this guy is a solid 9.5/10.
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    Jan 23, 2011 11:07 AM GMT
    So wait you consider an approach to someone as cruising?
    You do realize that you are daft and have no idea what cruising means. Or if so that you are taking it extremely out of context.
    There is a difference between expressing interest and cruising.
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    Jan 23, 2011 11:32 AM GMT
    You fail... your fail is epic.... you have epic fail.
    godzilla-facepalm-godzilla-facepalm-face

    You offend me with your epic failure!
  • cromi

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    Jan 23, 2011 12:49 PM GMT
    i see... so, uhm, errr, hmmm, i dont know but, ah ok, wait, dang.

    i've never been this confused in my life since watching a movie marathon of gigli(you know, that j.lo/ben affleck movie) and that mariah carey movie that tanked(i forgot the title, the one where she sang never too far lol, i think its glitter i dunno), dont judge lol i was young, i did stupid stuffs back then.

    ok! back on topic, you sure made a bunch of contradictions in one post. i thought youre gonna be consistent with your posts, being the moral guy of the gay community. i guess you are no better than those guys you are bashing.

    and whats the point of this thread anyway? to make you look stupid? sorry.
  • DCEric

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    Jan 23, 2011 1:38 PM GMT
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    Jan 23, 2011 3:05 PM GMT
    Some really hot guys are single simply because people don't have the nerve to talk to them.
  • coolarmydude

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    Jan 23, 2011 3:11 PM GMT
    FearTheFall saidWell, there was one of those I used to see at my old gym, but given how cruising is losing (and it's creepy as hell), I never approached him, and to be honest no one EVER said hi to anyone at my old gym. I saw him at a gay club tonight, as he was leaving, of course. Now that I'm taken, it may not really matter, but still. What could have been. I'm talking like this guy is a solid 9.5/10.


    He went to the gay club because he found out you were with someone and he left on cue to spite you. icon_wink.gif

    Honestly tho, it's your loss. You cannot live life on shoulda-coulda-woulda's.
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    Jan 23, 2011 3:12 PM GMT
    Project saidSome really hot guys are single simply because people don't have the nerve to talk to them.


    Totally agreed +1
  • CAtoFL

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    Jan 23, 2011 3:39 PM GMT
    FTF, the thing I worry about with your post is that it seems you're going to limit your social sphere based on something as superficial as looks. You can cultivate friendships with guys you find 'hot'. This doesn't mean you have to sleep with them or cruise them (creepily). It means you just interact with them the same as you would interact with anyone.

    The underlying subtext might be that, since you're taken, the attraction you feel to the hot guy would be added stress on your relationship. That's a concern and if you feel your relationship is fragile, it's something to consider. But if your relationship is strong, why wouldn't you have hot friends? Two of the hottest guys I have the pleasure of being buds with are also two of the sweetest and nicest.

    One or the perks of being gay is that we create our own gay family. Don't be reluctant to keep yourself open to meeting new folks and including them in your life. Everyone wins if you do.
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    Jan 23, 2011 3:47 PM GMT
    Why are you even thinking about this? You're with someone now and should be focusing your attention on your present relationship. This is why a lot of gay guys can't have long-term relationships, they always think there is something better than what they have so they never appreciate what's right in front of them! I love my husband for who he is, not what I can turn him into or what he can give me and he feels the same about me. Are there hotter guys, sure and I'm sure he will see guys that are hotter than me but he has everything I've always wanted in a man and then some and we've chosen to be in a relationship together because we love each other and want to build a life together. That doesn't mean, "until something better comes along". I hope you quickly forgot about this and realized how lucky you are to have a man in your life and snapped back to reality. I'm not so sure how lucky HE is though. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jan 23, 2011 4:05 PM GMT
    So cruising ( by single guys) is losing, yet this, "Now that I'm taken, it may not really matter, but still. What could have been. I'm talking like this guy is a solid 9.5/10."

    ...is you cruising surreptitiously. Your quoted words are so hurtful to your relationship I'm getting worried about you two.

    -Doug
  • needleninja

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    Jan 23, 2011 4:17 PM GMT
    DCEric saidattention_whore.jpg


    agreed. :^
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    Jan 23, 2011 4:19 PM GMT
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5hfYJsQAhl0

    Thanks to avadakadvera for pointing us to this.


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    Jan 23, 2011 4:34 PM GMT
    "Now that I'm taken, it may not really matter, but still. What could have been. I'm talking like this guy is a solid 9.5/10"

    If I were your BF I would be looking for a reason to move on ..and quick.
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    Jan 23, 2011 8:19 PM GMT
    A cheater in the making. ^^

    HAR HAR
  • dionysus

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    Jan 23, 2011 8:21 PM GMT
    Project saidSome really hot guys are single simply because people don't have the nerve to talk to them.


    tis true

    OOOOORRRR they're complete douchebags who when you attempt to introduce yourself start off with the right foot and turn around and say "im not interested, sorry" FUCK YOU WHORE I WAS JUST INTRODUCING MYSELF.

    hypothetically, of course.
  • TheIStrat

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    Jan 23, 2011 8:23 PM GMT
    caspervann said
    Project saidSome really hot guys are single simply because people don't have the nerve to talk to them.


    tis true

    OOOOORRRR they're complete douchebags who when you attempt to introduce yourself start off with the right foot and turn around and say "im not interested, sorry" FUCK YOU WHORE I WAS JUST INTRODUCING MYSELF.

    hypothetically, of course.


    There there

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    There there
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    Jan 23, 2011 8:31 PM GMT
    FearTheFall saidWell, there was one of those I used to see at my old gym, but given how cruising is losing (and it's creepy as hell), I never approached him, and to be honest no one EVER said hi to anyone at my old gym. I saw him at a gay club tonight, as he was leaving, of course. Now that I'm taken, it may not really matter, but still. What could have been. I'm talking like this guy is a solid 9.5/10.
    Your relationship is doomed, dude.
    I give it two more months, tops...then you'll be crying.
    Again.
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    Jan 23, 2011 8:34 PM GMT
    It wouldn't have been cruising if you just TALKED to the guy, even asked him to get a drink sometime. Straight people do that all the time and it isn't cruising. Now if you went up to him in the locker room and showed him your dick in hopes to blow him in the shower, then yes, that is cruising.

    EDIT: But anyways, there was once this really hot guy at my college gym that I would see from time to time. One day I saw him at this gay bar, but it was ladies night so he could have been there with a lesbian friend. Who knows.
  • activeboy90

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    Jan 23, 2011 9:09 PM GMT
    To bad for cock block boyfriends huh..."rolls eyes"

    You should have said something even if he was straight. Mostly from my experiences in high school straight guys intimated me a lot, but at my work all my coworkers are straight and absolutely nice and great friends so even if this gym guy was straight you could spark up conversation and get to know him and if you did say something that would offend a straight guy upon your first meeting, you probably shouldn't have said it even if he was gay. Otherwise that's fairly slutty "cruising"
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    Jan 23, 2011 9:25 PM GMT
    DavePhx1007 said

    If I were your BF I would be looking for a reason to move on ..and quick.


    I'm a bystander on a website and I even I already have a truckload of reasons why I would leave FtF.
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    Jan 23, 2011 9:31 PM GMT
    FearTheFall saidWell, there was one of those I used to see at my old gym, but given how cruising is losing (and it's creepy as hell), I never approached him, and to be honest no one EVER said hi to anyone at my old gym. I saw him at a gay club tonight, as he was leaving, of course. Now that I'm taken, it may not really matter, but still. What could have been. I'm talking like this guy is a solid 9.5/10.


    God you are a disaster. Carry on. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jan 23, 2011 10:03 PM GMT
    Didn't you post about how some guy was cruising your boyfriend and you were wanting to beat the shit out of him or something? Now you post this?

    You're a douche
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    Jan 23, 2011 10:12 PM GMT
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    FearTheFall saidWell, there was one of those I used to see at my old gym, but given how cruising is losing (and it's creepy as hell), I never approached him, and to be honest no one EVER said hi to anyone at my old gym. I saw him at a gay club tonight, as he was leaving, of course. Now that I'm taken, it may not really matter, but still. What could have been. I'm talking like this guy is a solid 9.5/10.


    He went to the gay club because he found out you were with someone and he left on cue to spite you. icon_wink.gif

    Honestly tho, it's your loss. You cannot live life on shoulda-coulda-woulda's.


    HELL YEAH!!!
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    Jan 23, 2011 10:21 PM GMT
    FearTheFall saidWell, there was one of those I used to see at my old gym, but given how cruising is losing (and it's creepy as hell), I never approached him, and to be honest no one EVER said hi to anyone at my old gym. I saw him at a gay club tonight, as he was leaving, of course. Now that I'm taken, it may not really matter, but still. What could have been. I'm talking like this guy is a solid 9.5/10.


    OP, after your boyfriend breaks up with you for infidelity. will you tell him to contact me? I'll treat him like he deserves.