How far would you go on a 1st date?

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    Jan 23, 2011 1:52 PM GMT
    do you guys have any rules on that? Or do you just go with the flow? I would be up for a 1st/2nd base type thing, but I'd prob wait on anything more until I get to know the guy really well. Your thoughts?
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    Jan 23, 2011 2:18 PM GMT
    i am not very ladylike
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    Jan 23, 2011 2:59 PM GMT
    Kinda go with the flow. Really depends on how comfortable you are. I'd say don't do a home run just out the gate though. It's like show business. Always leave them wanting more.
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    Jan 23, 2011 3:02 PM GMT
    Usually 2nd or 3rd base on the first date. If I could get the chick's bra off easily for some good tit sucking... if she is breathing hot and heavy and then I could go for the panties next and get some stinky pinky....

    LOL... so high school.
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    Jan 23, 2011 3:09 PM GMT
    Regarding the baseball analogy... what's the equivalent of a hug? icon_confused.gif
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    Jan 23, 2011 3:10 PM GMT
    pm_83 saidRegarding the baseball analogy... what's the equivalent of a hug? icon_confused.gif


    lol yeah I'm confused too.
    Same with a hug though.
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    Jan 23, 2011 3:13 PM GMT
    EBan said
    pm_83 saidRegarding the baseball analogy... what's the equivalent of a hug? icon_confused.gif


    lol yeah I'm confused too.
    Same with a hug though.


    ok...let's see...here's my definition:

    1st base: hug and/or basic kiss

    2nd base: cuddling, massage, shirts off, heavy making out

    3rd: oral and other stuff

    Homerun...obvious :-)
  • coolarmydude

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    Jan 23, 2011 3:15 PM GMT
    I go as far as the chemistry between us takes us. Dating and getting to know someone isn't a game to me. It's an experience.
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Jan 23, 2011 3:16 PM GMT
    I go in it determined that no way will this date go any further than a goodnight kiss...but I have been known to change the rules icon_rolleyes.gif
  • Delivis

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    Jan 23, 2011 3:17 PM GMT
    I'd go 20-30 kilometers for a first date.
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    Jan 23, 2011 3:22 PM GMT
    If i like someone, chances are i wont fuck them on the first day, maybe fool around. If im completely not interested in someone, and they are cute enough, ill have sex with them. If i didnt get anything mentally from the date, i might as well get my rocks off.
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    Jan 23, 2011 3:24 PM GMT
    All the way...
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    Jan 24, 2011 12:06 PM GMT
    guess i'm more of the old-fashioned type. I'm all about the physcial, but I want to be sure I like him first...definitely in to the mind/heart of the guy first, then the rest comes naturally. i guess i'm looking for a good guy to sweep me off my feet vs. having them in the air on a first date. lol. but, to each his own! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 25, 2011 12:55 AM GMT
    Not sure. Haven't been on a date (with a guy) yet. icon_redface.gif

    But I'm pretty liberal...there aren't any rules with me. I mean, I've had sex on the first date and I've waited a few months...just depends on the person and the situation.
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    Jan 25, 2011 12:57 AM GMT
    Barcelona!
  • needleninja

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    Jan 25, 2011 1:00 AM GMT
    not into one night stands, just want to hang out and enjoy something.
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    Jan 25, 2011 1:12 AM GMT
    go_vols saiddo you guys have any rules on that? Or do you just go with the flow? I would be up for a 1st/2nd base type thing, but I'd prob wait on anything more until I get to know the guy really well. Your thoughts?

    All my LTRs started with sex on our first meeting. Both my late & current partners, and 2 BFs that I spent 2 years with each, were in bed with me the first night.

    I dunno, if it seems right, do it, for gawd's sake! What's this girly demureness? A man is direct and to the point.

    If you wanna do it, do it. If it doesn't feel right yet, then don't do it. Yah know, these things are only complicated if you make them complicated yourself. Whatever feels right, is right. Whatever feels wrong, is wrong. You'll know it when you get there. Just rid yourself of preconceived notions about first dates, and everything will become clear to you at the appropriate moment.
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    Jan 25, 2011 1:21 AM GMT
    Draper saidDo what you feel is right for you and your date.

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1185676?forumpage=0



    I agree! unfortunately most guys are too busy thinking about what is right for them; and so most forget what the other guy wants!? it takes two to tangle, you know! personally I prefer to slow dance!!!! and one very important secret:

    NEVER EVER BRING ANY KIND OF EXPECTIONS ON THE DATE!!!

    Leandro ♥

  • barriehomeboy

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    Jan 25, 2011 1:27 AM GMT
    Why wait until the second date? Will his dick be bigger then?
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    Jan 25, 2011 1:32 AM GMT
    jprichva saidI would go as far as Vero Beach in one direction, Naples in another, and certainly Key West going south from here.


    Dang.... you beat me to it. icon_cry.gif

    I hate you!
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    Jan 30, 2011 2:28 PM GMT
    ha...i'm definitely old-fashioned i guess...don't want to have sex until i'm in love with the guy. nothing is sexier than waiting for the right time
  • HndsmKansan

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    Jan 30, 2011 2:31 PM GMT
    Probably no "hard" and fast rules on this, depends on the two people.

    I would think it would make sense to wait until you've gone out several times before you really get serious.. I'd not particularly want to give it up on the first date, but one thing leads to another and chemistry can be awesome in certain cases.
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    Jul 15, 2011 11:04 AM GMT
    kissing is definitely possible icon_razz.gif
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    Jul 15, 2011 11:13 AM GMT
    I like no rules, play by ear. See how it goes, what each mutually feels. icon_razz.gif
  • Latenight30

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    Jul 15, 2011 11:15 AM GMT
    is this a dinner date or just coffee?
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