Is he just after more 'sex' or a relationship ?

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    Jan 24, 2011 12:17 AM GMT
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    Jan 24, 2011 12:42 AM GMT
    Test him by asking him to meet you at a movie theater and if he keeps pushing for the at home thing then maybe he might be more into sex than a relationship
  • DCEric

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    Jan 24, 2011 1:29 AM GMT
    Never trust anyone's ex to give an honest assessment on a person.
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    Jan 24, 2011 1:33 AM GMT
    DCEric saidNever trust anyone's ex to give an honest assessment on a person.


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    Jan 24, 2011 1:51 AM GMT
    if you want sex too then OK, but if you are ready and looking for the real relationship you must speak to him about this problem,so again if you have the same and mutual interests in each other, he will understand you and all will be Ok... Im understanding too, that to give advice much easier than do yourself))
  • rnch

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    Jan 24, 2011 1:54 AM GMT
    couldn't he be after both? icon_cool.gif

    (sex AND a relationship with you)
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    Jan 24, 2011 2:06 AM GMT
    WhatsMyName said Is he just after another sh*g?


    Did you just censor the word shag?

    Anyways, don't listen to ex boyfriends or anyone that would be speaking in the interest of an ex boyfriend. If he says he likes you, he probably does. Give him a chance. And if you want, just tell him what you heard.
  • tuffguyndc

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    Jan 24, 2011 2:09 AM GMT
    ok i have heard anything he has done to suggest he is a bad guy. the only thing read was that you heard from his ex who by the way could have a hidden agenda. anyhow, i suggest you be a man and just see where it goes and stop listening to people you do not know.
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    Jan 24, 2011 7:29 PM GMT
    Nothing ventured, nothing gained. You know going into this that it might not be what you want so don't put all your heart into it until you're sure that he's serious about getting to know you for more than just a roll. And while you're rolling, enjoy.
  • misternick

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    Jan 24, 2011 7:43 PM GMT
    Just ask him directly.
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    Jan 24, 2011 9:30 PM GMT
    He could be after both. He's walking all that way to have sex with you when he could just have sex with someone closer by or even take care of it himself. Why don't you ask him.

    And I wouldn't rely on an opinion of an ex as to what kind of person he is. Make the decision yourself
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    Jan 24, 2011 9:54 PM GMT
    What's wrong with sex, provided you want it too? I met most of my friends back in the 70's by sleeping with them, and that's how I met my partner too.
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    Jan 24, 2011 10:10 PM GMT
    Why does everything have to be so over analyzed these days.
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    Jan 24, 2011 10:11 PM GMT
    I don't understand people who allow their own experiences and opinions about/with others to be overshadowed by third parties - especially when those third parties might have a bias (ie: ex bf's friend...clearly there may be a bias there against this guy, which may or may not be fair). Form your own opinions based on your experiences with the guy...sure, take what others say into account, but also take it with a grain of salt.
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    Jan 25, 2011 1:38 AM GMT
    DCEric saidNever trust anyone's ex to give an honest assessment on a person.
    Ain't that the fucking truth!