"Ya but, how do you know?

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    Jan 25, 2011 12:56 AM GMT
    Have you been asked this question when you came out to someone?

    this is how my last conversation went:

    me: uhh im gay
    friend: oh that explains it...
    me: yuuuupppp
    friend: ya but how do you know? have you ever been with a guy?
    me: no, not yet... <--- pretty sad, i know =
    friend: well then how do you know?

    i mean it a good question, but Im sure if someone knows they're gay, then they know right?



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    Jan 25, 2011 1:03 AM GMT
    "How do you know you're straight?"
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    Jan 25, 2011 1:06 AM GMT
    Tell your friend that your soldier in your pants stands at attention for men and could care less about women. Tell them men give you all kinds of romantic rushes thinking of them, but you feel about women just the same as you do your little sister, your Mom and Grannie. icon_wink.gif

    If your friend is a guy ask him how he knew he was straight before he had sex with a girl.

    If your friend is a girl ask he how she knew she was straight before she had sex with a man.

    -Doug
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    Jan 25, 2011 3:16 AM GMT
    I don't know if you are questioning yourself because of this, but your last sentence sounds like you might be, so don't let someone make you question who you are. You don't have to have sex to know your sexual orientation. It is very clear to us men what we are attracted to sexually, even before we have sex.

    Back to your original question, no I have never been asked that, but I know people ask that all the time. You just have to turn it around on them like paul said. Same thing as them knowing they wanted to have sex with the opposite sex before they actually did it.
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    Jan 25, 2011 3:23 AM GMT
    I would have simply said "The same way you know you're straight". icon_razz.gif People have asked me that question numerous times, and that's what I usually tell them. If that isn't good enough for them, I then usually say "I find guys more appealing and attractive then girls". AND, if that isn't satisfying enough, I bluntly say "Look. I get a boner when I think about a naked guy, when I think about kissing a guy, when I think about having sex with a guy, when I see a guy that I find attractive. Got it?".

    That usually shuts them up. icon_lol.gif
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    Jan 25, 2011 3:25 AM GMT
    KSUOWL saidI don't know if you are questioning yourself because of this, but your last sentence sounds like you might be, so don't let someone make you question who you are. You don't have to have sex to know your sexual orientation. It is very clear to us men what we are attracted to sexually, even before we have sex.


    nah im not questioning myself, I am what I am =)
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    Jan 25, 2011 3:30 AM GMT
    paulflexes said"How do you know you're straight?"


    This !

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QJtjqLUHYoY

    The video won't be embed... Weird !
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    Jan 25, 2011 3:32 AM GMT
    Standardsocal said
    KSUOWL saidI don't know if you are questioning yourself because of this, but your last sentence sounds like you might be, so don't let someone make you question who you are. You don't have to have sex to know your sexual orientation. It is very clear to us men what we are attracted to sexually, even before we have sex.


    nah im not questioning myself, I am what I am =)


    Good!! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 25, 2011 3:59 AM GMT
    The same thing can apply to them or hell

    just random How you know you know you dont like fucking (Whatever) if you've never tried it being homosexual isnt a choice its a sense of preference I mean honeslty who would honestly choose a life filled with bigotry & hate
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    Jan 25, 2011 4:01 AM GMT
    "Have you ever jacked off?"

    "Well, yeaaah..."

    "Well what do you think about?"

    ...
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    Jan 25, 2011 4:04 AM GMT
    Disasterpiece said
    paulflexes said"How do you know you're straight?"


    This !

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QJtjqLUHYoY

    The video won't be embed... Weird !
    (trial embed...hand-written code)


    Edit: Well, looks like youtube fucked up their embedding options. Now they're using iframe tags instead of embed tags. I tried changing it manually and it didn't work. icon_sad.gif
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    Jan 25, 2011 10:53 PM GMT
    I just look at this and then I know.

    sagat2.jpg