Sad and Depressed

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    Jan 25, 2011 4:16 AM GMT
    I know this has happened to everyone. . . but I developed deep feelings for someone who doesn't feel the same way about me. . . it's not his fault at all, these things happen. . . but I still hurt, y'know? icon_cry.gif

    I feel so down right now. . .
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    Jan 25, 2011 4:20 AM GMT
    *hugs*
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    Jan 25, 2011 4:21 AM GMT
    Awwwwwww. It'll pass. Cheer up soonicon_wink.gif
  • UnluckyTitan

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    Jan 25, 2011 4:22 AM GMT
    MWAH!
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    Jan 25, 2011 4:35 AM GMT
    It hurts like hell, and there's no quick way to get over it, but it will lessen and disappear in a few weeks or months. Tell yourself you're going to be OK and stay active with friends. Feel for you!
  • Webster666

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    Jan 25, 2011 6:45 AM GMT
    Stay busy, and you'll think about it less and less.
    BTW, now you're available for "Mr. Right" to find you.
    And, you're free to go out and find someone who deserves you.
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    Jan 25, 2011 8:38 AM GMT
    100,000,000 gay men on Earth, Im sure ull find another cuteness =)
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    Jan 25, 2011 9:33 AM GMT
    Webster666 saidStay busy, and you'll think about it less and less.
    BTW, now you're available for "Mr. Right" to find you.
    And, you're free to go out and find someone who deserves you.


    i agree with webster here. Moping around n feeling bad 4 urself is a waste of ur time n useless. Go out with friends, enjoy life, have fun! Life is too short 2 b wasted on sadness alone even when misery love company
  • Chackers

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    Jan 25, 2011 10:42 AM GMT
    Argh thats gotta suck, but i think most of us can relate (unfortunately icon_razz.gif )

    Webster666 saidStay busy, and you'll think about it less and less.
    BTW, now you're available for "Mr. Right" to find you.
    And, you're free to go out and find someone who deserves you.


    Webster speaks the thruth~ the more you think about being sad, the sadder you'll be. You live longer and you improve your mental health if you try to tone down your expressions of negative emotions and try to change your mood apparently

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_expression
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    Jan 25, 2011 10:57 AM GMT
    LittleDudeWithMuscles saidI know this has happened to everyone. . . but I developed deep feelings for someone who doesn't feel the same way about me. . . it's not his fault at all, these things happen. . . but I still hurt, y'know? icon_cry.gif

    I feel so down right now. . .




    Aww...You are never ridin' solo on that dude, ... . . I totally feel it..icon_idea.gif I used to be attracted to boys who would lie to me and think solely about themselves and honestly most were more than conducive and plenty self-destructive for my taste at the time. I used to say the more tragic the better. The truth is whenever I think of the alluring unicorn drifty guys who never replenished what I bestowed for them their faces comes up with a vengeance like it was yesterday icon_rolleyes.gif

    Hang on for a later train..There's always' one a'comin' again...You'll pull through..icon_wink.gificon_wink.gificon_wink.gif
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    Jan 25, 2011 12:03 PM GMT
    paulflexes said*hugs*


    Ditto. I'd worry if it didn't hurt. icon_wink.gif


    *GIANT hug*

    -Doug (up very very early w/Spencer -white dog- he's having a rough night)

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    Jan 25, 2011 12:05 PM GMT
    Cheer up! It'll pass. Keep yourself busy with other things other than moping and dwelling on the "coulda, woulda, shoulda" with this dude.

    Hugs dude!
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    Jan 25, 2011 3:11 PM GMT
    Awww *hugs*

    Its ok mate. This soon shall pass.
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    Jan 25, 2011 3:16 PM GMT
    We all have this happen. Its going to be fine.
    Tomorrows a new day!
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    Jan 25, 2011 3:23 PM GMT
    I don't think I've ever met someone who hasn't gone through this. Let the emotions have their moment and one day very soon you'll be saying to yourself "wow, I really dodged a bullet on that one" and laugh about it all.

    I speak from experience.icon_lol.gif
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    Jan 25, 2011 3:25 PM GMT
    If you feel something then you are human, so no need to apologize and hope you find your love soon.
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    Jan 25, 2011 3:30 PM GMT
    Sorry to hear... Hope you feel better soon.
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    Jan 25, 2011 3:37 PM GMT
    Aaaaa it will pass my hot man cheer up icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 25, 2011 4:07 PM GMT
    Welcome to life. You'll be fine. xoxo
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    Jan 25, 2011 4:09 PM GMT
    Webster666 saidStay busy, and you'll think about it less and less.
    BTW, now you're available for "Mr. Right" to find you.
    And, you're free to go out and find someone who deserves you.


    This is it. Who among us hasn't been through this? What worked for me was to follow this advice, and put energy into being a better, healthier and more well rounded guy. Lots of other great guys noticed - and I was better for going through the whole experience.

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    Jan 25, 2011 4:13 PM GMT
    i feel for ya buddy. jsut know its nothing anyone els can fix for u. and that it will pass. just remember, ur who u are for what u do for urself, not what others do for u
  • MuscleComeBac...

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    Jan 25, 2011 4:17 PM GMT
    A heart is worth nothing if never risked.

    You are not alone. And you will not stay alone, either. You are a better man for the heartache, as impossibly painful and lonely as it feels at this moment. But this moment will pale in comparison to the moment when a grateful heart falls into the loving embrace of someone so profoundly lucky and keenly aware of just HOW lucky they are to win yours, and to have their heart won by you, in turn.

    Until then, stay close to us and remember that you're a man among friends here, and we hurt with you.

    xo
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  • HndsmKansan

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    Jan 25, 2011 4:22 PM GMT
    Really sorry to hear that...it certainly can happen. Just remember what a really awesome guy you are.. I've always known that. Someone else will certainly come along!

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    Jan 25, 2011 5:02 PM GMT
    stay strong and know someone is the perfect match for you.....Keithicon_wink.gif
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    Jan 25, 2011 5:05 PM GMT
    LittleDudeWithMuscles saidI know this has happened to everyone. ..


    Speak for yourself. icon_lol.gif

    Sad and depressed over a man...that's sad alright.

    At your age I would think you'd know that being depressed over some fucking man is lame. They're like buses, dude; hop on the next one, there's always one coming along.