Is This Normal?

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    Jan 26, 2011 1:01 PM GMT
    So someone I was dating basically started completely ignoring my phone calls and texts and generally ignoring me after a week or two... I figure he wants to blow me off and doesnt have the balls to say so...

    Is that normal and acceptable behaviour? i thought it was just rude... Ive never had that happen before so i dont know.. usually i just get blown off directly...
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    Jan 26, 2011 1:04 PM GMT
    Not that I'm down about it... The same day he started ignoring me I just went home with someone else who turned out to be alot hotter in bed icon_razz.gif so i was better off ;)

    But I just think its RUDE!!!!! to the umpteenth degree!!!!
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    Jan 26, 2011 1:16 PM GMT
    but honey, you have class and upbringing and manners....of course it's fucking rude............Keith
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    Jan 26, 2011 2:40 PM GMT
    "Is this normal." Nope, but obviously he thinks it is, which is a really great reason to get away from him as rapidly and far as possible.
    *imagines the frustrations surrounding a person like that in a relationship*

    -Doug
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    Jan 27, 2011 12:20 AM GMT
    I cannot believe this happend! oh ye I can.. Lots of people suck.. and not in a good way! Too bad this happend to you though...
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    Jan 27, 2011 12:27 AM GMT
    Thanks Daelin for the kind words icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 27, 2011 2:52 AM GMT
    Normal? Yes, unfortunately, they don't want to pull the plug in case the next thing doesn't pan out or they are just cowards.

    Congrats on moving on so smoothly
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    Jan 27, 2011 8:54 PM GMT
    i know how u feel i been going thru this..
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    Jan 27, 2011 9:01 PM GMT
    See... I'd at least call you and tell you you were a great sex partner, but I'm not interested...
    lmao.
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    Jan 28, 2011 3:02 AM GMT
    Is it normal? Usually no.
    Is it acceptable? No.
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    Jan 28, 2011 3:06 AM GMT
    Pato_Rico saidSo someone I was dating basically started completely ignoring my phone calls and texts and generally ignoring me after a week or two... I figure he wants to blow me off and doesnt have the balls to say so...

    Is that normal and acceptable behaviour? i thought it was just rude... Ive never had that happen before so i dont know.. usually i just get blown off directly...



    This same exact thing happen to me a couple weeks ago.
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    Jan 28, 2011 3:17 AM GMT
    I think this is pretty widespread in the gay male world. I wonder if it's the same in the straight and lesbian world. I know here in South Beach it's ubiquitous.
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    Jan 28, 2011 3:21 AM GMT
    Pato_Rico saidSo someone I was dating basically started completely ignoring my phone calls and texts and generally ignoring me after a week or two... I figure he wants to blow me off and doesnt have the balls to say so...

    Is that normal and acceptable behaviour? i thought it was just rude... Ive never had that happen before so i dont know.. usually i just get blown off directly...


    For the gay sub culture...par for the course......
  • Jessie_Lee

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    Jan 28, 2011 3:25 AM GMT
    It happens, unfortunately. You're better off anyway.

    That's why I prefer to hang out with potential friends (nothing sexual at all), or have no-strings-attached hook-ups with someone I think it worth hooking up with.
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    Jan 28, 2011 8:47 AM GMT
    Tell them what you think of them and forget about them - douchebaggery like this is unfortunately not uncommon.
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    Jan 29, 2011 1:21 PM GMT
    Pato_Rico saidSo someone I was dating basically started completely ignoring my phone calls and texts and generally ignoring me after a week or two... I figure he wants to blow me off and doesnt have the balls to say so...

    Is that normal and acceptable behaviour? i thought it was just rude... Ive never had that happen before so i dont know.. usually i just get blown off directly...


    It happens :-(

    Being ignored by the one you date is very painful, i know. You will forget him soon, don't worry icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 29, 2011 1:22 PM GMT
    It's rude, but it happens. glad u found someone els
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    Jan 29, 2011 2:16 PM GMT
    I've heard this before.....

    This guy wanted to be friends with me and keep in touch.....I barely get a word from him , even if a simple gt for beers and chilling.