Should I stay or should I go?

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    Jan 27, 2011 1:52 AM GMT
    So I had been talking to a guy that was living far from me (Brasil) for about a year and a half. we kinda lost contact but he went to a business trip in Toronto. One day before, he said he was going to be in Montreal for the weekend. It was awesome and we really clicked and we both liked each other a lot. The other weekend, I went to Toronto before he left for Brasil.
    We keep on talking on skype and we miss each other a lot and its been just 3days...
    He really wants me to go to Brasil and said he could even pay for my ticket (he's pretty rich) and I dont really have the money since I just finished university and Im in debt.
    I have been really frustated by the job market and I am working in a dead end job. Should I just leave? I am taking an evening class and it finishes at the beginning of april...
  • prime02

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    Jan 27, 2011 3:17 AM GMT
    no, don't do it
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    Jan 27, 2011 3:39 AM GMT
    do a lot of homework before you jump into the pool...a lot, a whole lot.....Keithicon_wink.gif
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    Jan 27, 2011 4:19 AM GMT
    oops I forgot to add that its not to move there,it would be like going there for 3-4weeks...
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    Jan 27, 2011 4:59 AM GMT
    You should go.
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    Jan 27, 2011 5:33 AM GMT
    He should offer a return ticket.

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    Jan 27, 2011 5:44 AM GMT
    YEAH for sure, go for a visit!
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    Jan 27, 2011 5:46 AM GMT
    You know I pay for Brazilians to come over to Canada for a while... they're never seen from again.
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    Jan 27, 2011 6:15 AM GMT
    go have fun! But buy a flex return ticket so just in case your holiday doesn't go as planned you can easily find your way home. cheers
  • Jessie_Lee

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    Jan 27, 2011 9:10 AM GMT
    3-4 weeks is a long time to be away from school and work. 1-2 weeks would be alright as a vacation.

    First things first, do you have a passport? It would be better to get a passport before you start planning a trip out of the country.

    Once you have that out of the way, try to plan things around certain events. Is there any particular event your guy would like you to experience? I would also advise against having the trip on a week an exam is scheduled or right before one, so maybe plan the trip after an exam. I'm assuming your evening class has exams from time to time.

    Make sure to clear things with your professor and boss at work. Check with your professor about what you need to know in order to keep up in class, that way you wouldn't fall behind after being absent for 2 weeks. As for your boss, hopefully you won't come home and find that you've been let go.

    Make sure to get a round-trip ticket and traveler's insurance.

    Good time to go, it's must be freezing where you are right now. It should be summer in Brazil. So once you've finally decided to go and made appropriate plans to make it happen, decide on a number of things to do. Your guy should be your guide, but make sure he shows you to places you'll most likely like. And don't make too many plans, you'll want lots of free time to actually enjoy your time together.

    Good luck!
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    Jan 28, 2011 4:20 AM GMT
    Umm....I wouldn't do it if I were you. It sounds really tempting but it's dangerous, really dangerous even if it's just for a trip. Haven't you read enough some tragic stories yet? I used to have a guy who said he would pay for my flight to travel with him to Europe, Carribean and Brazil, bascially around the world. I declined. Unless I can pay for my own trip, I'm not expecting any freebies from anyone. Nothing is free in this world, my naive friend. And, you never know what you can catch for a what, 2 week vacation?
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    Jan 28, 2011 4:23 AM GMT

    For me it would be based on if I had built up enough trust with this guy. After all it won't be easy to get back home if things don't work out. Also I would lay the ground rules in advance that way there would be no misunderstanding about what would happen.
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    Jan 28, 2011 4:29 AM GMT
    quit your job, go have a nice time in brazil. Worry about the rest later. Come on!!!
    You only live once!
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    Jan 28, 2011 4:38 AM GMT
    Regret when you are old and bitter is a nasty thing
    Do it, A tattoo is more permanent and most of the guys on here would have one of those before they'd do something really daring
    DO IT

    I left home at 16 with no great plan and never looked back.

    Look at all the young and bitter on RJ.
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    Jan 28, 2011 4:42 AM GMT
    Do it Do it Do it!

    I'm excited for you at the prospect already!!
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    Jan 28, 2011 4:51 AM GMT
    VOMIT FOR ALL OF YOU CHEAP FREE CUM SLUTS!!!
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    Jan 28, 2011 4:57 AM GMT
    Make sure he sends you a round trip ticket and just do it! Don't let this opportunity pass you by.
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    Jan 28, 2011 10:26 PM GMT
    Im really tempted to go...Im gonna be 25 this year and feel like doing crazy things before I reach the quarter of century
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    Jan 28, 2011 10:27 PM GMT
    frenchatheart saidUmm....I wouldn't do it if I were you. It sounds really tempting but it's dangerous, really dangerous even if it's just for a trip. Haven't you read enough some tragic stories yet? I used to have a guy who said he would pay for my flight to travel with him to Europe, Carribean and Brazil, bascially around the world. I declined. Unless I can pay for my own trip, I'm not expecting any freebies from anyone. Nothing is free in this world, my naive friend. And, you never know what you can catch for a what, 2 week vacation?


    Im going for him too...not just cuz its a free vacation.
  • masculumpedes

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    Jan 28, 2011 10:27 PM GMT
    snowboarder saidIm really tempted to go...Im gonna be 25 this year and feel like doing crazy things before I reach the quarter of century



    Ok then......come to Vegas icon_twisted.gif
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    Jan 28, 2011 10:28 PM GMT
    malefeet said
    snowboarder saidIm really tempted to go...Im gonna be 25 this year and feel like doing crazy things before I reach the quarter of century



    Ok then......come to Vegas icon_twisted.gif


    Vegas is in the plan this year too
    Unfortunately,the money isnt following lol
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    Jan 28, 2011 10:32 PM GMT
    snowboarder said
    malefeet said
    snowboarder saidIm really tempted to go...Im gonna be 25 this year and feel like doing crazy things before I reach the quarter of century



    Ok then......come to Vegas icon_twisted.gif


    Vegas is in the plan this year too
    Unfortunately,the money isnt following lol


    Aw...You don't need money to come to Vegas.....people come to Vegas and leave with money icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 28, 2011 10:34 PM GMT
    malefeet said
    snowboarder said
    malefeet said
    snowboarder saidIm really tempted to go...Im gonna be 25 this year and feel like doing crazy things before I reach the quarter of century



    Ok then......come to Vegas icon_twisted.gif


    Vegas is in the plan this year too
    Unfortunately,the money isnt following lol


    Aw...You don't need money to come to Vegas.....people come to Vegas and leave with money icon_wink.gif


    thats only if you win lol
    I dont really like gambling though. I just wanna go to Vegas to get trashed and drink on the streets all day lol
    I I wanna have a hike on the Grand Canyon!
  • masculumpedes

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    Jan 28, 2011 10:38 PM GMT
    snowboarder said I just wanna go to Vegas to get trashed and drink on the streets all day lol
    I I wanna have a hike on the Grand Canyon!


    Sounds like fun.... 105.gif
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    Jan 28, 2011 11:02 PM GMT
    How badly do you need both kidneys? No seriously, I would not go unless I could afford my own tickets - there and back.