A top with a dilemma

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    Jan 27, 2011 9:45 AM GMT
    Hey guys.

    I have a serious question. A bit of a dilemma that ive been struggling with. I'm a top. Many bottoms moan and say "f*** me!". Which is great. And I love being a top. However at the same time I'm a hopeless romantic, and a very caring guy. So when a bottom is moaning and is going "oh f***" I suddenly get worried that they're in pain. My previous partner would get angry at me for that.

    From a bottoms point of view, should I not ask and just keep going hoping you're moaning for the good reasons, or what? What should I do to be a great top?

    Please help.
    Thanks
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    Jan 27, 2011 9:51 AM GMT
    If you're not sure, then it doesn't hurt to ask - but after that you should probably be used to the sounds they are making and be able to tell whether they are enjoying it or enduring it!

    To be honest, if they are in pain it is their responsibility to let you know, not wait for you to ask anyway! So pound away and only stop if they say "STOP!"
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    Jan 27, 2011 2:42 PM GMT
    When the guy you are fucking is moaning and says "fuck me!" he means fuck me HARDER."
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    Jan 27, 2011 3:26 PM GMT


    Ask the guy to tell you if he likes it, and to tell you if he doesn't.

    Isn't communication great? icon_wink.gif

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    Jan 27, 2011 7:52 PM GMT
    Good lord.. you fuck him harder dear!

    Your a top you don't ask you don't need too. If he wants you to stop you'll know, rust me on that one!

    most bottoms biggest pet peeve: A top who isn't in charge who constantly checks in to make sure every thing is going fine and dandy.

    Bottoms are bottoms for a reason, they like having cock in da arse you stopping to check in is pointless, they have put you in charge (Some don't, they are fun also) so be in charge and fuck him stupid until he sounds like a woman and he makes the sheets sticky....

    And if he comes before you... Keep fucking him cause he was naughty and should have waited until you were ready icon_razz.gif
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    Jan 27, 2011 9:54 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidGood lord.. you fuck him harder dear!

    Your a top you don't ask you don't need too. If he wants you to stop you'll know, rust me on that one!

    most bottoms biggest pet peeve: A top who isn't in charge who constantly checks in to make sure every thing is going fine and dandy.

    Bottoms are bottoms for a reason, they like having cock in da arse you stopping to check in is pointless, they have put you in charge (Some don't, they are fun also) so be in charge and fuck him stupid until he sounds like a woman and he makes the sheets sticky....

    And if he comes before you... Keep fucking him cause he was naughty and should have waited until you were ready icon_razz.gif


    This. Love this.
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    Jan 27, 2011 9:58 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidGood lord.. you fuck him harder dear!

    Your a top you don't ask you don't need too. If he wants you to stop you'll know, rust me on that one!

    most bottoms biggest pet peeve: A top who isn't in charge who constantly checks in to make sure every thing is going fine and dandy.

    Bottoms are bottoms for a reason, they like having cock in da arse you stopping to check in is pointless, they have put you in charge (Some don't, they are fun also) so be in charge and fuck him stupid until he sounds like a woman and he makes the sheets sticky....

    And if he comes before you... Keep fucking him cause he was naughty and should have waited until you were ready icon_razz.gif

    I need. To find.
    This kind of guy.
  • Jessie_Lee

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    Jan 28, 2011 3:20 AM GMT
    Don't ask, don't worry, they'll let you know anyway if it's too much. For a bottom, being asked "Are you okay?" ruins the mood.

    And if you can't stop being worried, then ask "Do you like that?" or "Want me to fuck you harder?". Their reply should be enough to let you know and you'll be talking dirty at the same time, it'll turn them on even more.


    lilTanker saidGood lord.. you fuck him harder dear!

    Your a top you don't ask you don't need too. If he wants you to stop you'll know, rust me on that one!

    most bottoms biggest pet peeve: A top who isn't in charge who constantly checks in to make sure every thing is going fine and dandy.

    Bottoms are bottoms for a reason, they like having cock in da arse you stopping to check in is pointless, they have put you in charge (Some don't, they are fun also) so be in charge and fuck him stupid until he sounds like a woman and he makes the sheets sticky....

    And if he comes before you... Keep fucking him cause he was naughty and should have waited until you were ready icon_razz.gif

    Are you a bottom, lilTanker? That last line really turned me on. icon_twisted.gif
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    Jan 28, 2011 6:12 AM GMT
    Perhaps you could agree upon a "safety word" that the bottom could use if and when he wants you to ease up. That way, you could feel more at ease with being less preoccupied about his comfort level and more focused on your own pleasure during intercourse.
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    Jan 28, 2011 10:37 AM GMT
    lilTanker said...so be in charge and fuck him stupid until he sounds like a woman and he makes the sheets sticky....

    And if he comes before you... Keep fucking him cause he was naughty and should have waited until you were ready icon_razz.gif

    Win. Just win. hahaha
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    Jan 28, 2011 12:55 PM GMT
    Shut the fuck up and put your legs up in the air lil'Tanker! I'm gonna pound the pudding outta ya.
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    Jan 28, 2011 9:08 PM GMT
    They'll let you know if it hurts. icon_razz.gif
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    Jan 28, 2011 10:27 PM GMT
    "Fuck me" = good. "Ow!" = bad.
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    Jan 29, 2011 8:58 AM GMT
    Guys thanks so much for all the great comments. This really helped boost my top-ego. ;) I'll definitely stop worrying from now on and just enjoy all the ass-pounding I can get. ;) haha

    Hugs y'all!
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    Jan 29, 2011 3:46 PM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidOne thing I have learned very quickly as a top is that bottoms will let you know to stop. Honestly they love it when a man is in charge.They like feeling used and dominated.

    And I am happy to oblige. icon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gif



    Eeep! "They like feeling used and dominated." SOME do.


    -Doug
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    Jan 29, 2011 3:59 PM GMT
    I think a bottom will tell you if he is in serious pain.

    This guy is hilarious.

    Watch 1:20 - 2:00

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    Jan 30, 2011 1:42 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidI think many do. Just talkin' from experience. icon_smile.gif


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    xo -us
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    Jan 30, 2011 5:34 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidI think many do. Just talkin' from experience. icon_smile.gif

    Mine too.
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    Jan 30, 2011 5:36 AM GMT
    Jessie_Lee said
    Are you a bottom, lilTanker? That last line really turned me on. icon_twisted.gif

    na, I used to be, then went versatile, now I'm pretty much a top and mostly disinterested in bottoming, but who the hell knows what'll happen in 6 months hahaha.