Losing Friends On RJ

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    Jan 27, 2011 9:43 PM GMT


    This thread is over and done.... found out that I didn't lose any friends after all.
    Just on "vacation" from RJ.....icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 27, 2011 9:54 PM GMT
    If anyone puts their profile as hidden they will not appear on your buddy list, hot list, or any other list they were on until they make their profile visible again. I have one friend who is traveling and left yesterday. He has hidden his profile while he is gone. I would have also been wondering if he had not let me know he was doing this.
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    Jan 27, 2011 10:03 PM GMT
    That is just what happened... at least to one of them. In fact, he sent me a message last night saying he was going out of town on business and would not have access to a computer...and I just checked his profile...Not Found, and he DID say he was putting his profile on "Invisible" until he returns.
    Now, I have to figure out who the other one is..... icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 27, 2011 10:05 PM GMT
    I think you and I are talking about the same person.
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    Jan 27, 2011 10:07 PM GMT

    Well, he only has about 899 guys on his Buddy List, so you're probably right!!
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    Jan 27, 2011 11:29 PM GMT
    Friendsrbetter saidI have "lost" two friends on RJ this week...and I don't know who they are!!
    I keep track of my Buddy List and TRY to stay in contact with everyone...at least once in a while.
    Tuesday, I noticed my Buddy List number had dropped by one...and today, I have lost another one.
    I know this site well enough to be able to tell if someone took ME off of their Buddy List...and that is NOT the case here. What I fear is that TWO friends have decided NOT to be a member of RJ any more...and I have to admit, it bothers me.
    This is by far the BEST site for gay men on the internet, and I thank each and everyone of you for making the site what it is!!! No matter what has happened in the past, I have the ability and strength to "get over it" and move on.
    Does anyone else feel that this IS the BEST site around? We've got it all right here... young, old, hot, not so hot, nice, bitchy, outspoken, out of control...but the sum of the total is still the BEST!!!


    Why are we not on each other's buddy lists!?! Lol, joke icon_razz.gif

    Well this is the only gay site I've ever been to. I think it's a good site overall but of course any good always comes with the bad.

    You forgot to give a shout out to: the intelligent; the not so intelligent; the wise; the naive; the popular; the lonely; the understood; the misunderstood; the attention whores; the understated; the superificial; the genuine; the fitness-oriented; the sex-oriented lol icon_razz.gif

    Gay men come in all different shapes and sizes.
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    Jan 29, 2011 8:13 AM GMT
    I too like this website very much! but rather then worry so much about the quantity or who is who on my buddy list, or even as far as calling them a friend, my primary reason for participating on Realjock is to be able to help and spread some positive vibes to whoever needs it the most, even if I am not on someone's buddy list.


    Leandro ♥
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    Jan 29, 2011 8:14 AM GMT
    Anyone I would want to be closer to from this website I would get their facebook url or phone number or both.
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    Jan 29, 2011 8:15 AM GMT
    Well I know for a fact that my close friend temporarily shut his account down because he wanted to focus on his studies and uni applications. Too many hot guys were distracting him.

    As for me...I'm still around!icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 29, 2011 8:18 AM GMT
    sxydrkhair said
    ALEZANDAR saidLeandro ♥


    That is the gayest signature...


    finally
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    Jan 29, 2011 8:45 AM GMT
    Bottomboi said
    AvadaKedavra said
    sxydrkhair said
    ALEZANDAR saidLeandro ♥


    That is the gayest signature...


    finally


    LMAO finally someone said it!


    I'm so glad I only like to fuck guys up the ass and suck their cocks.....icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 29, 2011 9:17 AM GMT
    sxydrkhair said
    ALEZANDAR saidLeandro ♥


    That is the gayest signature...


    HA! *hair flip*
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    Jan 29, 2011 2:21 PM GMT
    Lenoxx said
    sxydrkhair said
    ALEZANDAR saidLeandro ♥


    That is the gayest signature...


    HA! *hair flip*


    Girl plzzzzze. Smooches.
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    Jan 29, 2011 2:29 PM GMT
    AvadaKedavra said
    sxydrkhair said
    ALEZANDAR saidLeandro ♥


    That is the gayest signature...


    finally


    'dont call my name, dont call my name, Leandro ♥' isnt that how the song goes?

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    Jan 29, 2011 2:54 PM GMT
    sxydrkhair said
    ALEZANDAR saidLeandro ♥


    That is the gayest signature...



    Awww c'mon guys! Leandro is one of the nicest and happiest guys here on RJ and if he is on your buddy list (he's on mine), you would NEVER want to lose him....you will be worse off for it.

    And while we're on this topic, Leandro was nominated for MOTD for tomorrow so I say we should vote for him TODAY. What do you think?
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    Jan 29, 2011 2:54 PM GMT
    This is the only specifically gay social website I've participated in so I don't have anything to compare it to but I like it a lot. So much so, I am on RealJock much more than Facebook. I was wondering though, how would you even know if someone took you off his buddy list as opposed to making the account inactive or deleting it?
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    Jan 29, 2011 2:56 PM GMT
    turtleneckjock said
    sxydrkhair said
    ALEZANDAR saidLeandro ♥


    That is the gayest signature...



    Awww c'mon guys! Leandro is one of the nicest and happiest guys here on RJ and if he is on your buddy list (he's on mine), you would NEVER want to lose him....you will be worse off for it.

    And while we're on this topic, Leandro was nominated for MOTD for tomorrow so I say we should vote for him TODAY. What do you think?



    I already voted for him. One of the nicest guys around. I've never heard him say anything mean spirited about anyone. icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 29, 2011 3:27 PM GMT
    The FP overestimates the value of this site. Perhaps the 2 subjects decided to get off the grid and meet real people. I suppose the healthy way to look at the site is to think of it as a playground (an exponentially dramatic version of one, at least). People get some form of entertainment and that is it. Why anyone would be bothered by someone's decision to stop playing and leave the playground does not register with me.
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    Jan 29, 2011 6:02 PM GMT
    collegestudd said Why anyone would be bothered by someone's decision to stop playing and leave the playground does not register with me.


    It's because of the age difference ( among other things I am sure) between the 2 of you. icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 29, 2011 6:06 PM GMT
    sashaman said
    turtleneckjock said
    sxydrkhair said
    ALEZANDAR saidLeandro ♥


    That is the gayest signature...



    Awww c'mon guys! Leandro is one of the nicest and happiest guys here on RJ and if he is on your buddy list (he's on mine), you would NEVER want to lose him....you will be worse off for it.

    And while we're on this topic, Leandro was nominated for MOTD for tomorrow so I say we should vote for him TODAY. What do you think?



    I already voted for him. One of the nicest guys around. I've never heard him say anything mean spirited about anyone. icon_smile.gif



    Really? Search for his posts on threads about open relationships. Just sayin...

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    Jan 29, 2011 6:26 PM GMT
    Yes, TheGuyNextDoor is gone.

    Is there any body else so willing to show their privates publicly?

    He will be missed.
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    Jan 29, 2011 6:28 PM GMT
    Hillie said
    Lenoxx said
    sxydrkhair said
    ALEZANDAR saidLeandro ♥


    That is the gayest signature...


    HA! *hair flip*


    Girl plzzzzze. Smooches.




    hahahaha hilarious