Why can't i accept queeny gay guys when I'm one of them? They make me feel sick to my stomach...

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    Jan 28, 2011 3:17 PM GMT
    Okies... So, it's not all gay guys. Just the queens. For instance, i just had a two year relationship with my bf who acts str8... However... Now that we're broken up.. i'm trying to meet some of my girlfriends gay friends... BUT THEY'RE ALL FREAKS!!! They all dress in dark gothic gay leather with their high pitched voices and dance to Lady Gaga songs on the train and they're just gay gay gay! It's sooo unattractive to me, yet... I'm one of them... well sorta... all my interests are really campy... dancing... lady gaga, britney spears, katy perry... But i talk str8 unless im with my close friends mainly... And i dress str8... and i only act a little gay, which is fine... but these gay guys are OTT! And it makes me sick... so am I the problem.. that i cant accept them? Or is it them? Because i want to accept them, but i feel like they mgiht crack onto me something... I think i know how str8 guys feel now. And yeah... Im not all the way out, as they are obviously... but... I wouldnt be any different if i was... How do i get past this?
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    Jan 28, 2011 3:23 PM GMT

    It sounds to me that you don't like yourself very much....icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jan 28, 2011 3:38 PM GMT
    Oh hai...... Try not to take this the wrong way, but, seriously:


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    Jan 28, 2011 4:57 PM GMT
    No he doesn't. They are completely annoying as fuck, the people he is describing. Stop making excuses for them. Annoying is annoying. What really pisses me off is that you can't call a gay person annoying (when in fact there are very many gay annoying people) without it being some hate crime against gays; when infact it has everything to do about annoying and nothing to do with "gay" whatever "gay" means these days. It is just bullshit. And I am calling bullshit where I see it.

    And if you don't like it,
    YOU NEED THERAPY.
    or to readjust ya' head..


    Before you begin to flame the thread and jump down my throat, stop and read what I've written again, and slowly. I'm quite sure you will see nothing entirely inaccurate there.

    See things for what they really are, people, and stop justifying as 'okay' inconsiderate, over the top, or anti social behavior.
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    Jan 28, 2011 5:04 PM GMT
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    Sylas saidNo he doesn't. They are completely annoying as fuck, the people he is describing. Stop making excuses for them. Annoying is annoying.


    Before you begin to flame the thread, stop and read what I've wrote again, and slowly. Thank you.





    Actually, if you read his recent threads in coherence with one another, assuming your reasoning skills are up to scratch, you should find that, yes, in actual fact, he really does.

    If one finds their friends annoying, friends who one does admittedly behave like, and who share many things in common with, then a fair amount self-hatred must be lurking somewhere sub-surface.

    The OP has complained about many problems in his life, and although I wish him the best, he seems to have caused them himself. He is stuck in a rut, has been going through a lot of emotional despair recently and his life seems to be unravelling in several ways because of it.

    He doesn't seem to recognise why or how to combat this. A professional trained in this dealing with type of behaviour is best placed to help.


    So, once again, I refer you to my post above- it is spot on!icon_cool.gif



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    Jan 28, 2011 5:07 PM GMT
    I am not familiar with OP's extensive personal and life history: just this thread (which is what I responded to)

    And, assuming your football skills are up to par, I would love to see you try and throw that football. Just calling bullshit, where I see it.

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    Jan 28, 2011 5:09 PM GMT
    Sylas saidI am not familiar with OP's extensive personal and life history: just this thread (which is what I responded to)


    Well, this is not his first post on the forums.

    His thread history can found via his profile, should you want a more comprehensive idea to the situation you are responding to....icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jan 28, 2011 5:10 PM GMT
    You can talk shit all day long on a forum, if you ever said those words to me to my face, where I come from I would crack your fucking skull you weak douchebag poser.

    I don't care if you're black, or gay, or both. It all looks the same when it talks shit and behaves stupidly, and there is no special allowance for stupidity.
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    Jan 28, 2011 5:10 PM GMT
    They make feel weird too. This one gay feminine guy I know also does esctacy which freaks me out even more. He always wants to go clubbing even though I'm not that extroverted. These guys annoy me the most.
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    Jan 28, 2011 5:10 PM GMT
    Sylas saidI am not familiar with OP's extensive personal and life history: just this thread (which is what I responded to)

    And, assuming your football skills are up to par, I would love to see you try and throw that football. Just calling bullshit, where I see it.
    QUID PRO QUO.


    I could certainly land it in your gaping man-vag from half a football field away...How's that for aim?! ;p
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    Jan 28, 2011 5:13 PM GMT
    How do you sleep at night you fucking half-excuse for a man? Its queens like yourself that the OP is talking about. Take that football off your profile pic. You disgrace the sport of football.
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    Jan 28, 2011 5:14 PM GMT
    southlandguy saidThey make feel weird too. This one gay feminine guy I know also does esctacy which freaks me out even more. He always wants to go clubbing even though I'm not that extroverted. These guys annoy me the most.



    I hear you dude. Just do your own thing...live and let live.
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    Jan 28, 2011 5:14 PM GMT
    Sylas saidYou can talk shit all day long on a forum, if you ever said those words to me to my face, where I come from I would crack your fucking skull you weak douchebag poser.

    I don't care if you're black, or gay, or both.


    Ohhhh is the banter getting to much to handle?

    Threats of violence via the interwebs?! looool

    Believe me, your self-appraisal in this case couldn't be further from the truth.... But I have no need to try and prove how tough I am on here, sad case! =]

    Just because you have made yourself look fooolish, there should be no need to resort to childish threats...icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_lol.gif

    Just take heed and try to learn from your BS.....

    That is all.icon_cool.gif
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    Jan 28, 2011 5:16 PM GMT
    Learn how to spell, or string a sentence together, asswipe. And violence is underrated. Violence is quite appropriate. It's how things get done in some instances. Not all, but some. It teaches some people to shut their fucking queeny mouths.

    Get it?
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    Jan 28, 2011 5:21 PM GMT
    Sylas saidLearn how to spell, or string a sentence together, asswipe. And violence is underrated. Violence is quite appropriate. It's how things get done in some instances. Not all, but some. It teaches some people to shut their fucking queeny mouths.

    Get it?



    Not really, since you come across as an internet-try-hard.

    Those who type the most about how much they would do IRL, how bad they are, how serious they should be taken tend to be the biggest pussies of all.

    Those with nothing to prove, self-assurance and real life competence have no need to play e-gangster ...lool silly boy...


    Deduce from that what you are able ;]
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    Jan 28, 2011 5:23 PM GMT
    Dude, walk in front of a car or something. Jesus Christ.
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    Jan 28, 2011 5:31 PM GMT
    Sylas saidYou can talk shit all day long on a forum, if you ever said those words to me to my face, where I come from I would crack your fucking skull you weak douchebag poser.

    I don't care if you're black, or gay, or both. It all looks the same when it talks shit and behaves stupidly, and there is no special allowance for stupidity.


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    Jan 28, 2011 5:32 PM GMT
    Thanks for the suggestion 'sylas', but not today methinks =]

    Oh, an excerp of yours mr:

    '' I welcome into my life anybody with a positive can do attitude. I came from a pretty dismal past chalk full of failure and negativity and toxicity, and use that as an inspiration to excel my life by any means possible.....
    GUYS I'M LOOKING TO MEET ........If you are positive, enthusiastic, genuine and honest...we will most likely probably get along. If destruction (in any way, shape or form) is your thing, then please do me the favor of not contacting me or trying to get into my life.
    ''


    This^? Really? looool

    Doesn't seem to tally with your pathetic threats of violence to somebody on the other side of the Atlantic ocean icon_rolleyes.gif.....

    Try to understand this:

    hyp·o·crite   /ˈhɪpəkrɪt/ Show Spelled
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    –noun
    1. a person who pretends to have virtues, moral or religious beliefs, principles, etc., that he or she does not actually possess, esp. a person whose actions belie stated beliefs.
    2. a person who feigns some desirable or publicly approved attitude, esp. one whose private life, opinions, or statements belie his or her public statements.



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    You should try to see how this applies to you. You are a BS merchant, and I for one am not buying it............... You've been called out and publicly flogged in accordance. Take heed.

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    H.M.

    I, given half-the-chance, would eviscerate your mis-placed ego, and have no hesitation in doing so you ultra-pale, lanky,sloppy looking goofy balding rat... GOOD DAY!!! =D
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    Jan 28, 2011 5:32 PM GMT
    Knock it off both of you!icon_evil.gif

    Both of you have your opinions about this topic. Just agree to disagree on somethings.










    Now 'kiss' and 'makeup'


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    Jan 28, 2011 6:08 PM GMT
    campy guys make me feel uncomfortable, so I never associate with them. I feel that just coz ur gay doesnt mean u have to act like a girl. However, possibly, in the same way that u cant help being gay, u cant cant help how u act and have been socially conditioned. I say, each to their own, the fact that I feel uncomfortable around them is MY issue, not theirs and everyone should feel free to act like they want.
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    Jan 28, 2011 6:14 PM GMT
    Beneim saidHow do i get past this?


    Why try? This type isnt what you want or what you find attractive, so why bother; you cant help what you like.

    Take me for example; I cant stand hispanic dudes and suffer whatever the opposite of an orgasm (anti-gasm?) is whenever I see one. And yet, my sister, being a burrito-chaser, tries to lecture me about it. If I dont find them interesting, attractive or appealing, and there are TONS of other dudes that dont kill my erection, why the fuck do I need to "get over it" and "accept them"?

    Same with you, no need to try to change yourself to accept some freaks you dont like, when there are other choices available.
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    Jan 28, 2011 6:38 PM GMT
    You're TRYING to meet some of your gf's friends but they're all freaks and you find their behavior unnattractive. Then wtf are you trying to meet them?
    Please explain that part
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    Jan 28, 2011 7:15 PM GMT
    I can see in no way how my profile information makes me a hypocrite. I move through bs to excel. I associate with positive people. I am not a brainwashed hippie who is unnaturally completely nonviolent (which is a dualistic and non balanced approach to life).

    I saw a guy who was asking for help on a forum, and he seemed to be getting bs responses, so I saw an opportunity to give an opposite response (...so this poor guy doesn't go believing that everything in the world is his fault - and that he needs therapy)..like many would try to have him believe. It is perfectly natural and OK for OP to feel any way he feels. And that is okay. Leave it up to a poser, fake, half wit, to try and tear down someone they see as actually trying to live a real and genuine life (something that they can't or don't want to do).

    Where is the confusion? I think you have been put in your place. And the OP has gotten some balanced feedback. Case closed.
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    Jan 28, 2011 7:17 PM GMT
    "Gay" is an orientation. Everything else being referred to are degrees of masculinity and femininity. I guess personally it's hard for me to tolerate anyone acting with either extreme. Super feminine or overly fake masculine types both annoy me. I suppose on a scale of 1-10, 10 being the most feminine and 1 being the least, I would be a 6, some times a 7.
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    Jan 28, 2011 7:20 PM GMT
    Oh the ad hominems...or in the case of RJ, the ad homonims. I need to trademark that...