Jan 28, 2011 4:38 PM GMT
I started using RJ last week and I immedately got bombarded with invitations to meet. Although I'm very picky, I agreed to hang out with a few supposedly vgl/musc guys based on their profile, pics and online conversations. What a mistake! Only two one of them looked like their pictures, and the two that looked like their pictures were very effeminate. I have nothing against effeminate muscular dudes but they're not for me. Needless to say I'm very disappointed. I need advice on how to spot guys on RJ that look, act and think as described in their profiles. I'm not shallow and I don't want to sound rude, but why pretend to be someone you're not if you're going to meet me in person and everything will be revealed anyway?