Jan 31, 2011 7:21 PM GMT
It has been a year and 5 months since a broke up with my BF for 8 years. I dated like 3 guys 8 months after the break up but it seems I cant find that chemistry. Am I getting numb, calloused or what? Something is wrong.
Ermine saidIf you're comparing each new date to your bf of 8 years then, yes, there is a problem.
Each new date is a distinct adventure and should be treated as such. It's not fair to your dates or to yourself to compare the new date to your long-term relationship.
That said, if you aren't having fun and don't have chemistry then there's no need to pursue a relationship.
jprichva saidI'm so old the only dating I do now is carbon-dating.