Scary eyes at the club...

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    Mar 30, 2008 5:13 PM GMT
    Whenever im at the club in slc, i get people who just stare at me, and it makes me very uncomfortable. I also hate it when guys just walk up to me and grope me, how inappropriate and shallow is that!

    I havent gone in a while just because i feel uncomfortable there now. Everytime i go, there is a guy that just grabs me...and there is a guy that just stares at me when i dance, its like eyes beam on me..

    does anyone else have the problem? I now take a girl with me everytime i go, and i make out with her so the guys can leave me alone, telling them im straight. Truth is, i just want to go to dance, and instead i get the manager coming up to me and asking me if i want a to be a go-go dancer :S I
  • HndsmKansan

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    Mar 30, 2008 6:00 PM GMT
    Well its a club... of course you are going to be stared at.. I know what thats like.. just ignore it
    or smile and go on.

    As far as pinching or groping.. I don't really like it either unless its from someone I know.. not from strangers. Generally they get a cold reaction.

    If all this bothers you there is a alternative... don't go.
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    Mar 30, 2008 6:02 PM GMT
    Stop being so precious and self-absorbed. Why don't you try chatting to these guys rather than seeing them as the enemy?
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    Mar 30, 2008 6:03 PM GMT
    And what's wrong with being a go-go dancer?
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    Mar 30, 2008 6:04 PM GMT
    redheadguy saidStop being so precious and self-absorbed. Why don't you try chatting to these guys rather than seeing them as the enemy?



    chatting with them? i would not chat with anyone who comes up to me and grabs my crotch..that shows that the person has no respect and very ill mannered....back home, where im from, guys wouldnt rub up on u against the clubs..its just here that this has happened to me
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    Mar 30, 2008 6:07 PM GMT
    redheadguy saidAnd what's wrong with being a go-go dancer?


    they make u wear this skimpy underwear and stash ur front with powder so when u dance white powder stuff comes out...im not against dancing...i just think there is alot of slef respect that comes with it..i told them i could stay shirtless, but i would not strip down...
  • Squarejaw

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    Mar 30, 2008 8:09 PM GMT
    The only thing worse than being stared at is not being stared at. (with apologies to Oscar Wilde)
  • mcwclewis

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    Mar 30, 2008 8:25 PM GMT
    I totally agree. I have it happen all the time. I dont mind the staring so much, but I HATE getting groped by a random dude. I dont think its flattering, I think its degrading.
  • GQjock

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    Mar 30, 2008 8:29 PM GMT
    Okay....
    Time to get some troll lessons

    The next time someone puts their hand on you
    you look at their hand
    and then you look at them
    and with a a face that says.... to anybody on this friggin earth What the F**k? You Say "Can I help you with something Bud?"

    Don't be so nice... If someone's rude
    do unto others
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    Mar 30, 2008 8:32 PM GMT
    This is hilarious.

    Man, it's hard to be so sexy and so desired! You ugly trolls out there, you're lucky! You just don't know what it's LIKE! Why, it's pure hell!
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    Mar 30, 2008 8:32 PM GMT
    Have you tried putting a burlap sac over your head when you go out in public? I mean, per your numerous posts on the topic, it is clearly impossible for hapless men to stop themselves from staring at you and turning their heads backwards to check you out, it seems like big measures are in order. Alternatively, have you considered starting your own dance club exclusively for attractive people? That way, you can weed out all those pesky look-loo's and their predatory eyes. icon_rolleyes.gif
  • morholt

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    Mar 30, 2008 8:39 PM GMT
    Moudi said they make u wear this skimpy underwear and stash ur front with powder so when u dance white powder stuff comes out...


    What a strange custom. What would be the entertainment value of having white powder stuff come out of your crotch? ....Moudi you live in a world where you are obviously too beautiful and desirable for your own good. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 30, 2008 8:43 PM GMT
    there's nothing wrong with looking, that's to be expected at a club, but touching is just rude. i'm pretty simple, all you need to do is say hi, and i'll probably chat with you for a bit. being groped is irritating, it broadcasts how little respect people have for others, and there's no excuse for that behavior.
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    Mar 30, 2008 8:52 PM GMT
    GQjock saidOkay....
    Time to get some troll lessons

    The next time someone puts their hand on you
    you look at their hand
    and then you look at them
    and with a a face that says.... to anybody on this friggin earth What the F**k? You Say "Can I help you with something Bud?"

    Don't be so nice... If someone's rude
    do unto others



    that same situation happend about two months ago...i just pushed him away and told him "dont u ever fucking touch me again", then i went home. i was in a rage to fight him, but i remembered that im in the states, and fighting means jail, and i dont want that
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    Mar 30, 2008 8:52 PM GMT
    [quote][cite]Squarejaw said[/cite]The only thing worse than being stared at is not being stared at. (with apologies to Oscar Wilde)[/quote

    it must suck when people look at you because they find you attractive...


    as for groping.. it's not just men who do it. it's kinda obnoxious, and it's kinda flattering (in the loosest sense of the term). it's not my favorite thing, i've been bruised by a pinch when i was in england. drunk women are equally as tactless as men apparently.
  • morholt

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    Mar 30, 2008 8:57 PM GMT
    Moudi said[quote][cite

    that same situation happend about two months ago...i just pushed him away and told him "dont u ever fucking touch me again", then i went home. i was in a rage to fight him, but i remembered that im in the states, and fighting means jail, and i dont want that


    Ok so unattractive people can't look at you or touch you or you will physcally attack them if it's permitted by law. Tha's good to know. icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 30, 2008 8:58 PM GMT
    lol u guys, ok..i see the humor in having it bad that people stare at me...im not saying i have it bad, its very reassuring and uplifting when guys stare..but at times it feels like they're eye fucking me icon_evil.gif
  • morholt

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    Mar 30, 2008 9:04 PM GMT
    Moudi saidlol u guys, ok..i see the humor in having it bad that people stare at me...im not saying i have it bad, its very reassuring and uplifting when guys stare..but at times it feels like they're eye fucking me icon_evil.gif


    It's nice having people think you're cute....enjoy it!
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    Mar 30, 2008 9:05 PM GMT
    morholt said[quote][cite]Moudi said[/cite][quote][cite

    that same situation happend about two months ago...i just pushed him away and told him "dont u ever fucking touch me again", then i went home. i was in a rage to fight him, but i remembered that im in the states, and fighting means jail, and i dont want that


    Ok so unattractive people can't look at you or touch you or you will physcally attack them if it's permitted by law. Tha's good to know. icon_smile.gif[/quote]

    lol...i never said unattractive, just guys in general...as long as they dont grope me

    people automatically think that im targeting those i find unattractive, which is not true. Its just guys, attractive or not.
  • morholt

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    Mar 30, 2008 9:09 PM GMT
    Moudi said
    lol...i never said unattractive, just guys in general...as long as they dont grope me

    people automatically think that im targeting those i find unattractive, which is not true. Its just guys, attractive or not.


    True, you never said unattractive.... It's just more fun for us to assume that you did... icon_biggrin.gif
  • Squarejaw

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    Mar 30, 2008 9:11 PM GMT
    Groping is a different situation. It's a form of assault.
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    Mar 30, 2008 9:36 PM GMT
    I think they like you and are just too inarticulate to express it.
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    Mar 30, 2008 9:42 PM GMT
    jms84 saiddrunk women are equally as tactless as men apparently


    I'll second that. Just last weekend I went to a friend's cookout where some sexed up 60 year old lady wouldn't get off my crotch until I called her Mrs. Robinson.
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    Mar 30, 2008 9:50 PM GMT
    if you go to a nasty ass gay club then that's whats going to happen silly. Bringing a girl only makes you look like a tool. I suggest going to a lounge to hangout instead of nasty ass gay clubs...
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    Mar 30, 2008 10:07 PM GMT
    wassupunk saidif you go to a nasty ass gay club then that's whats going to happen silly. Bringing a girl only makes you look like a tool. I suggest going to a lounge to hangout instead of nasty ass gay clubs...


    I think he doesn't like gay clubs....

    This is just what I got out of it, though.