... which one would you prefer...?

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    Feb 01, 2011 3:32 AM GMT
    ok, would you rather be a gorgeous and w/ beautiful guys every night, but never in a stable relationship, or unattractive and overweight, but with the love of your life till death parts you?



    and a side one--would you rather be alone for the right reasons or not alone for the wrong reasons?
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    Feb 01, 2011 5:33 AM GMT
    easy....I'd rather be in a stable loving relationship.

    Looks will fade...love is supposed to last isn't it?
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    Feb 01, 2011 5:35 AM GMT
    Love of my life. Not even close.
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    Feb 01, 2011 5:40 AM GMT
    How fat and how ugly we talking??

    Haha kidding, overweight and in love of course. I mean, why do you need to be good looking if you are already in love? icon_lol.gif
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    Feb 01, 2011 5:43 AM GMT
    I choose the shallow (unpopular) response because my self-esteem is low enough as it is.
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    Feb 01, 2011 5:53 AM GMT
    OH right- mine is a 'two parter...'

    I'll never be alone- so long as I have my magic mirror.

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    Feb 01, 2011 6:19 AM GMT
    i would take the first for the next 20 years than switch to the second for the rest of my life. can i do that?
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    Feb 01, 2011 6:40 AM GMT
    Tough one. There'd be other benefits to being gorgeous than just having sex with beautiful guys every night. And I'm vain enough that being overweight and unattractive wouldn't be something that I'd be happy with. Does the love of my life even exist? It seems like such a fairytale.
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    Feb 01, 2011 6:41 AM GMT
    unfounded7 saidTough one. There'd be other benefits to being gorgeous than just having sex with beautiful guys every night. And I'm vain enough that being overweight and unattractive wouldn't be something that I'd be happy with. Does the love of my life even exist? It seems like such a fairytale.


    its does if you have cheese.
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    Feb 01, 2011 6:43 AM GMT
    unattractive, stable relationship... no brainer
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    Feb 01, 2011 6:43 AM GMT
    AvadaKedavra saidits does if you have cheese.


    But I haven't even seen your mouse, yet. How do I know he exists?
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    Feb 01, 2011 6:47 AM GMT
    unfounded7 said
    AvadaKedavra saidits does if you have cheese.


    But I haven't even seen your mouse, yet. How do I know he exists?


    oh he does. he is just shy.
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    Feb 01, 2011 7:00 AM GMT
    AvadaKedavra saidi would take the first for the next 20 years than switch to the second for the rest of my life. can i do that?



    Seems like a better option then the two extremes I'd say
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    Feb 01, 2011 7:05 AM GMT
    why can't we have both looks and relationship? icon_sad.gif
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    Feb 01, 2011 7:14 AM GMT
    Easy....stable relationship all the way. Although hopefully I'm not so overweight that I'm riddled with health problems.
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    Feb 01, 2011 9:09 AM GMT
    The stability looks position and money. Lucky me! LOL!

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    Feb 01, 2011 1:17 PM GMT
    How about unattractive (but not overweight), in an open relationship with a man I really love, and still sleeping with gorgeous guys every night? That would be my choice. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 02, 2011 12:08 AM GMT
    Some of u LIEicon_lol.gif
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    Feb 02, 2011 12:29 AM GMT
    all your options lead to a miserable life.....
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    Feb 02, 2011 12:41 AM GMT
    I wouldn't be in a stable relationship if I were unattractive and overweight because most of these people (when they're gay at least) don't have stable relationships to begin with.

    Overweight members in monogamous relationships: 144
    Muscular & truly ripped members in monogamous relationships: 843

    For the second question, I would rather be alone for the right reasons.
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    Feb 03, 2011 1:41 AM GMT
    ok, guys, obviously this is a HYPOTHETICAL question that tests... your heart, i guess?? could you find true love beyond your image of a lovable you? if you did, would you hang onto it? would you walk away from love if you didn't think you deserved it?
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    Feb 03, 2011 3:00 AM GMT
    So this may be incredibly shallow but I'd pick the first. I don't think I could let myself be overweight...and at least at this point in my life, there's so many more important things to me than finding the love of my life, if that even exists for someone like me.

    It may just be my lack of life experience, but I don't believe in the phrase, "all you need is love." I just need good friends, good times, sex (it's been a while, ugh..), and most of all, ambition.
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    Feb 03, 2011 3:03 AM GMT
    closer85 saidI just need good friends, good times, sex (it's been a while, ugh..), and most of all, ambition.


    you need sex just about as much as a smoker needs a cigarette. 0.o