Why is having a passion for a mans foot Str8, Bi or Gay so socialy unexceptable?

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    Feb 01, 2011 5:27 PM GMT
    Having a passion for a mans foot, "and I have had my share of hook ups with men that are str8, bi & gay", and knowing that this form of stimulation has been around for centeries. I don't understand why we are so unexcepted socially. You would think a guy would be flattered if he was asked to partake.

    Instead, the average male frowns on the notion to the point in some cases where they never want to speak,see, or meet you in public.

    Are we that different....

    Dont take me the wrong way, I consider myself to be a person who works hard plays hard and enjoys life to the fullest...

    Just looking for some honest answers that would help me to understand how other guys not like myself feel about this topic or obsession of mine...icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 04, 2011 11:47 AM GMT
    Feet, to me, are seen as parts of the body that 'labor'. Something that's for mobility not for sex.
    To be sexually fixated on something is 'unusual' to most people and if it's a part of the body that's associated with a generalized sexual function (breasts or genital area) it makes it more so unusual. And I also think it's because feet are genderless (though other attractions like lips and arms aren't gender specific either so I'm not sure on that one).

    But I know that it is the most common fetish people have and I can see why. It's a limb that can grasp objects and be inserted into orifices like hands.
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    Feb 04, 2011 12:29 PM GMT


    I think what possibly puts me off is that guys who are "into" feet tend to tell you the first chance they get, rather that mutually discovering that their partner also is into feet (or any other 'fetish') They tend to dive straight in and weird people out with it, thus they tend to be branded as wierdos or creepy folk. I've got a few messages like "wow you're really tall, you must have really big feet, what size are your feet, do you have any pictures?"

    We're all into something, but I tend to just go with it and bring it up if the situation feels right, rather than sucking someones toe on the first date.

    Just be less weird is what I'm saying

    PS I am NOT into feet!

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    Feb 04, 2011 12:30 PM GMT
    I just looked at your profile, need I say more?

    We all like the scent of a guys body, and sometimes even a little musky sweaty scent is a turn on, do you see pictures of armpits on everyone's profile?

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    Feb 04, 2011 12:37 PM GMT
    i'm purdy rough on my feet so i'd NEVER turn down a foot massage if offered. icon_biggrin.gif i see nothing wrong with having a fetish like that. i play ball for csu and my feet are always killing me so anyone liking that part of a guy is a friend in my book. as long as i get a foot massage out of it, haha.
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    Feb 04, 2011 10:52 PM GMT
    Thisuserexists said

    I think what possibly puts me off is that guys who are "into" feet tend to tell you the first chance they get, rather that mutually discovering that their partner also is into feet (or any other 'fetish') They tend to dive straight in and weird people out with it, thus they tend to be branded as wierdos or creepy folk. I've got a few messages like "wow you're really tall, you must have really big feet, what size are your feet, do you have any pictures?"

    We're all into something, but I tend to just go with it and bring it up if the situation feels right, rather than sucking someones toe on the first date.

    Just be less weird is what I'm saying

    PS I am NOT into feet!



    I see your point on how a guy may feel when you run into a guy that is into mens feet. It would appear like nothing else mattered but his feet. Finding out that your partner is into feet would be a long shot 1 in a 100 at least...lol
    I'm usally nervous about revealing my fetish to another guy as rejection is my worst enemy expecially when I respect every guy that comes my way.

    Thanks for your thoughts...and not to worry I won't come looking for you to devower your feet...maybe just to be a friend...
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    Feb 04, 2011 10:53 PM GMT
    cause feet are gross
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    Feb 04, 2011 11:12 PM GMT
    malesocks57 said...Are we that different...


    No. Many here have a muscle fetish. Although it's considered to be a secondary sexual characteristic like facial hair and ass-crack musk, it's still a fetish.

    You're probably more multi-dimensional than the foot-fetish thing you portray in your profile suggests. However, your tastes are probably better suited for Adam4Adam or other such websites. Don't get me wrong, there are other foot fetishists here--but are you particularly drawn to jock socks, or will any sock do? Is it the marginally more intellectual content of RealJock's forums that drew you to this site, or are you just throwing your net into as many ponds as possible.

    By the way, you're not normal. But who gives a rat's ass--nobody is.
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    Feb 04, 2011 11:22 PM GMT
    Thisuserexists saidI just looked at your profile, need I say more?

    We all like the scent of a guys body, and sometimes even a little musky sweaty scent is a turn on, do you see pictures of armpits on everyone's profile?



    You may be right, actually I know your right. I do think about how my profile must look to others. Apart from the couple of photo's of myself, the rest of the photo's really don't mean much to most here including myself. If this was a foot fetish site I guess it would...lol

    saying this, even though broadcasting my likes here may not be appealing to most, I do feel my honesty is important as I am looking for a guy that can appreciate my taste in men.

    PS: Just for the record, I don't broadcast my fetish for mens feet everywhere I go...but it doesn't hurt to look...icon_wink.gif

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    Feb 04, 2011 11:49 PM GMT
    mickeytopogigio said
    malesocks57 said...Are we that different...


    No. Many here have a muscle fetish. Although it's considered to be a secondary sexual characteristic like facial hair and ass-crack musk, it's still a fetish.

    You're probably more multi-dimensional than the foot-fetish thing you portray in your profile suggests. However, your tastes are probably better suited for Adam4Adam or other such websites. Don't get me wrong, there are other foot fetishists here--but are you particularly drawn to jock socks, or will any sock do? Is it the marginally more intellectual content of RealJock's forums that drew you to this site, or are you just throwing your net into as many ponds as possible.

    By the way, you're not normal. But who gives a rat's ass--nobody is.


    This is very cool. I am more multi-demensional than it appears. I find sites outside of this one ei: Male Foot Fetish or FeetTV are ok, but not very realistic for my taste. They appear to be a fish bowl of guys just looking for one thing. (Feet)..Looks, Mind and many other important features in life play little to no part I find with most, you can tell by just viewing my profile plastered with socked feet.Which will change before the night is through. Your right I do like jock socks and yes I do like other socks as well, but I also think it's important to find guys that live interesting lives and that have a mind and a heart...My net is very small as I am only associated with one other site. I like the guys here, and I like the site as well...

    In a nut shell, your rats ass comment - Sweet..!!icon_smile.gif

    Thanks Bro...

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    Feb 05, 2011 7:33 PM GMT
    MeOhMy saidcause feet are gross


    lol...icon_lol.gif
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    Feb 18, 2011 8:35 AM GMT
    I have a big foot fetish myself. I know it's kind of unusual and I can certainly see how bringing it up right away can be awkward and make people uncomfortable. I also understand how some people may be repelled by feet, thinking of them as dirty or smelly or ugly (since they often can be) but the same can be said about butt holes, etc. I just wish people would approach a foot fetish with an open mind. Feet can be VERY sensual and erotic and can bring about lots of pleasure! Foot massage, anyone? Is there anything better?
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    Feb 18, 2011 8:57 AM GMT
    MeOhMy saidcause feet are gross

    this.
    microbiology.
    scrub all you want feet are bacterial breeding ground regardless.
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    Feb 18, 2011 9:43 AM GMT
    mnboy said
    MeOhMy saidcause feet are gross

    this.
    microbiology.
    scrub all you want feet are bacterial breeding ground regardless.
    ^^^^^ yep
    and i doubt that most people take care of their feet that well anyways
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    Feb 18, 2011 10:04 AM GMT
    AndrewDavidAlexander said
    mnboy said
    MeOhMy saidcause feet are gross

    this.
    microbiology.
    scrub all you want feet are bacterial breeding ground regardless.
    ^^^^^ yep
    and i doubt that most people take care of their feet that well anyways


    Some people take very good care of their feet. I do. I don't have a foot fetish really, but don't mind if guys take an interest in my feet. One thing I do think is sexy about a person's feet is the idea that in normal society, feet are covered by shoes.

    So the fact that I can see a man's foot closeup, when it is normally covered...well that piques my interest. Doesn't give me a boner, but it makes me curious enough to look, and keep on looking if I like what I see. And no, I don't think feet are ugly, they are an amazing design.
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    Feb 18, 2011 2:08 PM GMT
    mnboy said
    MeOhMy saidcause feet are gross

    this.
    microbiology.
    scrub all you want feet are bacterial breeding ground regardless.


    What about crotches and asses?
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    Feb 18, 2011 2:40 PM GMT
    Think about it, bud. It's not that different than when women tell straight guys to look them in they eyes, not the chest. I'm a bright guy with a passable personality. I'm not going to have a deeper relationship with a guy who's only interested in getting into my pants, or, in this case, into my shoes.

    If it were a hook-up situation, I'm going to hook up with a guy who wants to suck my dick, not one who's going to rub my feet, simply because I don't get anything out of it.
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    Feb 18, 2011 3:09 PM GMT
    Yeesh, fetishes are as common as people and there all different kinds, from feet to popping balloons (balloon lovers can have an orgasm when they pop one, fast n hard, who'd a thunk?) Some fetishes are harmful, like the fetish of filling you stomach with air. That's right, air. You can see people doingthis on youtube. I'll try find one and post it here. Wild.

    There's NOTHING wrong with you and you are NOT fucked up.


    Now if you want to understand fetishes better, look at

    http://gloria-brame.com/


    Straight society is teaming with fetishes, gays perhaps not so much. Interesting, eh?


    -Doug
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    Feb 18, 2011 3:13 PM GMT
    Here: belly inflation.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Voo-Xn-2NuE&feature=related
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    Feb 18, 2011 3:18 PM GMT
    I thnk the level of passion dictates the social acceptance. I've dated a few fetish men, and it's not bad unless it becomes overwhelming obsession, then it gets creepy.
    I had to end a relationship with one fellow who had a fetish for white mid calf socks when it became apparent the socks got more attention than i did (plus it was annoying after 2 years to never ever have sex without sock on).

    Personally the wrestlers are FAR more annoying than the feet guys, to the point where I had to remove wrestling as an interest to rid myself of the daily/weekly messages from some stranger, not even close by, who wanted to go into great detail what it would be like to wrestle. Creepy.
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    Feb 18, 2011 3:24 PM GMT
    I went home with a guy in the 70s who was into feet. I had no idea.

    Well, he washed my feet thoroughly. Strokes, fondling, it was hypnotic. Completely foreign to me so I thought I'd just relax and enjoy the ride. Then he went down on my feet.

    Oh My God that felt good, and excruciating, and ticklish, and then his hand found my crotch and I came close to losing consciousness, lol!

    Eventually, once happily sated, he asked what I'd like to do. Now how cool is that?

    There, a kinky sex story from the Ozzie n Harriet (or Cleavers) of Realjock.

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    Feb 18, 2011 3:41 PM GMT
    MeOhMy saidcause feet are gross



    And can be dry, cracked, and a breeding ground for fungus. Yuk. Just don't see how feet are sexually stimulating.
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    Feb 18, 2011 3:45 PM GMT
    catfish5 said
    MeOhMy saidcause feet are gross



    Yuk. Just don't see how feet are sexually stimulating.



    Hmmm, I don't see women as sexually stimulating, but yet many straight and bi men think they are...it's a mystery, isn't it?

    I don't have a foot fetish, and don't have enough of a turn-on with them to focus much on them, but I loved the experimentation and found it very pleasurable.


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    Feb 18, 2011 3:58 PM GMT
    I'm into a lot of things.. on the top of the list is plain sex.. if my partner and I can have normal, passionate sex, then to me that opens the door for more adventurous stuff. Not every pair of feet are attractive, just like not every dude is attractive. That's how I feel about it.
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    Feb 18, 2011 6:12 PM GMT
    iHavok saidI thnk the level of passion dictates the social acceptance. I've dated a few fetish men, and it's not bad unless it becomes overwhelming obsession, then it gets creepy.

    Right on.