Finding RJ

  • RHUK

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    Feb 01, 2011 8:53 PM GMT
    Hi everyone!
    So about a year ago I realised/became comfortable with the fact that the homosexual feelings I was having werent going to go away and I was gay. Then 4 months ago I came out of the closet to my university friends (or I should say 'fell out of the closet', when I drunkenly got with a guy at a party in front of eeeeveryone, quick and painless, like ripping off a band-aid). Then 2 months ago I realised that my receding hairline was getting noticeable and I started to freak out... I couldnt bear the fact that I'd just come out, I was trying to attract guys, and my hair was falling out. I really dislike things in my life being outside of my control and it was driving me crazy.

    So I did what many people would do, and asked the internet to stop my hair falling out. I visited forums full of desperate people using lasers and lotions and bull semen to try and grow back a few wisps of sad looking hair on their heads. This just made me all the more desperate as I saw myself turning into these men who hated themselves.

    Then just a few weeks ago I did a great thing and googled
    'bald and gay'
    It led me to a topic written here by a guy in a situation similar to mine and the support and advice he got from RJ members was incredible, the hotness of some of the bald men on the site was also incredible (SODAKGUY for one!).

    It made me realise that just because I'm gay, it doesn't stop me being a man. I'm still gonna lose my hair, I'm one day gonna get wrinkles, and I'm always gonna let out the occasional fart. And those that don't like it can suck it. And those that do like it can suck it too...

    Thankyou RealJock for being a source of so many RealMen
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    Feb 01, 2011 8:58 PM GMT
    When you've got a rockin body, who's got time to notice your hair? icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 01, 2011 9:08 PM GMT
    Well to make up for the loss of hair on your head, have a hairy, musclular bod. You'll feel better about yourself.
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    Feb 02, 2011 7:48 AM GMT
    Isn't it great when you realize you were only freaking yourself out?
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    Feb 02, 2011 8:36 AM GMT
    You are 21 and yet have so much more wisdom than 80% of the gay men on here. That in itself is something to be proud of. If you look at all the shaved heads and balding guys on RJ you will find that they are among the better looking guys. Hair is way over rated anyway. We worry about it dropping off our heads but spend way too much time trying to rid our bodies of it.

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    Feb 02, 2011 8:54 AM GMT
    RHUK saidthe hotness of some of the bald men on the site was also incredible (SODAKGUY for one!).


    Why thank you icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Feb 02, 2011 9:08 AM GMT
    OH MY GOD.

    Now I know why so many n00bs come to RJ. They don't GO to RJ but people on RJ argue and babble SO MUCH on RJ that it's the top hit when anyone searches in GOOGLE. El em eff ay fucking oh.

    On that note, I'm pretty sure that any topic a homosexual can think of has already been a thread in RJ. icon_eek.gif
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    Feb 02, 2011 9:28 AM GMT
    Best first RJ post in ages.

    Got me all misty eyed.

    And from an OP who's freaking adorable.

    Sometimes I really love this place.
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    Feb 02, 2011 9:32 AM GMT
    iguanaSF saidBest first RJ post in ages.

    Got me all misty eyed.

    And from an OP who's freaking adorable.

    Sometimes I really love this place.


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  • RHUK

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    Feb 02, 2011 2:20 PM GMT
    DerrickRigg saidWell to make up for the loss of hair on your head, have a hairy, musclular bod. You'll feel better about yourself.


    Well that's the plan, and it's why I'm sticking around and have been looking through the workout plans and nutrition forums. And today a friend commented on how much I'd bulked up recently, so hellll yeh. Admittedly it was a girl friend rather than a hot gay friend, but still! icon_razz.gif
  • fitdude62

    Posts: 294

    Feb 02, 2011 2:25 PM GMT
    Welcome to RJ, You'll fit in fine around here.

    Yea, one more handsome man to add to the group!

  • HndsmKansan

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    Feb 02, 2011 2:27 PM GMT
    Some of the bald guys are really hot. Fortunately I don't have to think about that, but I certainly don't in any way look at a bald guy differently!

    Kudos to you for dealing with your sexuality and working to keep a healthy self concept....

    And welcome to RJ!

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    Feb 02, 2011 5:36 PM GMT
    RHUK said"...and I'm always gonna let out the occasional fart..."

    funny pictures - *poot*