RJs help needed!

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    Feb 01, 2011 11:46 PM GMT
    Iv been emailing a guy that i met over the internet and we have exchanged pics. He is only in town for two days and is stayin in a B&B. He wants me to call over to the B&B while he is here and he has booked a room for two!

    He is 34 and im 21.

    Is this a good idea.( The fact that i dont really think it is should be reason enough not 2 go)

    What are yer thoughts??
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    Feb 01, 2011 11:48 PM GMT
    Procede w/ caution. trust your instincts and meet at a public place 1st..of your choosing.
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    Feb 01, 2011 11:51 PM GMT
    no, he might kill you! you don't want to get killed do you?!?!? well, do you?!?

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    Feb 02, 2011 12:21 AM GMT
    I think my problem is that im just afraid, scared 2 take a chance!! but the fact that he is going to all this effort is making me have doubts!!
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    Feb 02, 2011 12:24 AM GMT
    if you dont feel that it is right n safe, then dont...but you might live with some sort of regret later on...
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    Feb 02, 2011 12:29 AM GMT
    A lot depends on the nature of your email exchanges and how much you trust him. (Based on the OP, it would seem that your gut instinct says no.)

    If you're curious, then I agree that meeting in a public place is a good idea. You might even want to let a close friend know about it.

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    Feb 02, 2011 12:32 AM GMT
    Stop being a pussy and just do it.
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    Feb 02, 2011 3:34 AM GMT
    Hey it doesn't hurt to meet they guy. If he's not what/who he says he is, just go..
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    Feb 02, 2011 3:43 AM GMT
    rjb2001Hey it doesn't hurt to meet they guy. If he's not what/who he says he is, just go..


    Yeah I do agree, go and meet the guy at some public place, and enjoy. Keep the thread updated!

    Best wishes!
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    Feb 02, 2011 3:47 AM GMT
    Well, it's not like you're going to his house with that giant chest freezer in the basement. It's a B&B. One scream will have the staff pounding on the door (so don't be too noisy if you ah, er, nevermind)..

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    Feb 02, 2011 3:51 AM GMT
    I'm with V. Rule of thumb: Always trust your instincts. If you're THAT curious, follow V's advice below. Good luck.

    Vancouverite2004 saidA lot depends on the nature of your email exchanges and how much you trust him. (Based on the OP, it would seem that your gut instinct says no.)

    If you're curious, then I agree that meeting in a public place is a good idea. You might even want to let a close friend know about it.

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    Feb 02, 2011 3:53 AM GMT
    Booked a room for two without ever meeting you in person?

    I love these Bambi threads.

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    Feb 02, 2011 3:58 AM GMT
    I'm guessin' he's kidding. I'm hopin' he is icon_rolleyes.gif
    paulflexes saidStop being a pussy and just do it.
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    Feb 02, 2011 4:17 AM GMT
    go for it, be a man, you snooze you lose!

    meet in public first and go from there...

    but be sure to demand a copy of his driver license - not!
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    Feb 03, 2011 7:18 PM GMT
    chickened out in the end! looked him up on facbook nd he is in a relationship wit a woman!!no mention of dat in d emails so jus another one dat i added 2 d list of reasons not 2 meet!

    Thanks for all yer advice!!
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    Feb 03, 2011 7:28 PM GMT
    Irish89 saidchickened out in the end! looked him up on facbook nd he is in a relationship wit a woman!!no mention of dat in d emails so jus another one dat i added 2 d list of reasons not 2 meet!

    Thanks for all yer advice!!
    dang, what happened to your English? Good move though, always meet in public first. If they won't do that or insist meeting in a room, walk away.

    Email the guy and ask him what the deal is. Tell him that he should be more respective and let us know what his reply is.
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    Feb 03, 2011 7:40 PM GMT
    When I first looked at the topic title, I thought it said:

    "BJs help needed". I did one of these ---->icon_eek.gif

  • HndsmKansan

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    Feb 03, 2011 7:43 PM GMT
    He probably should have been a little more sensitive about the whole thing, but that said, I'd probably meet him (make sure you have friends that know where you are) and if you like him, proceed. Awesome learning experience, but go forward with your eyes open.
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    Feb 04, 2011 7:13 AM GMT
    go, but go prepared!

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