Unconsciously laughing during sex.

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    Feb 02, 2011 2:59 AM GMT
    Hey Jocks,

    Lately I been wondering why the guy I was seeing did not want to have intercourse with me.He told me something that was quiet shocking. He told me he got turned off because I was laughing during sex. I really don't know why this happens. Sometimes I'm just really ticklish. This has happened a few times before and I wonder if it's turning guys off. Now I feel undatable. Does this happens to anyone else?
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    Feb 02, 2011 3:08 AM GMT
    I laughed when I got cock-slapped... does that count?
  • Citrushills

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    Feb 02, 2011 3:21 AM GMT
    I think it's playful and hot to have fun, smiles, and laughter during intimacy. It really does turn me on, even the thought of it.
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    Feb 02, 2011 3:22 AM GMT
    Mate, find a better shag. Sex is way too ridiculous to take seriously--find someone you can relax and have fun with. icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 02, 2011 3:30 AM GMT

    What? You mean it's not supposed to be fun?

    *pouts*
  • TheIStrat

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    Feb 02, 2011 3:31 AM GMT
    MeOhMy saidI laughed when I got cock-slapped... does that count?


    I laughed at that
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    Feb 02, 2011 3:31 AM GMT
    yeah one time this dude was rimmin my ass the whole works while i was on my back. Just they way he made the slobbering noise was quite funny. I started laughing and he did too... I could see how some guys take sex way too seriously and by laughing you have some opinion on his sexual performance....Get over it!
  • allatonce

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    Feb 02, 2011 3:33 AM GMT
    I'm pretty sure you mean subconsciously. Otherwise this story just got a whole lot stranger.
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    Feb 02, 2011 3:44 AM GMT
    I always laugh a little during sex, and afterwards. I mean, I'm having so much enjoyment & fun, how could I not laugh?
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    Feb 02, 2011 3:51 AM GMT
    TheIStrat said
    MeOhMy saidI laughed when I got cock-slapped... does that count?


    I laughed at that


    Ditto.
  • rnch

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    Feb 02, 2011 3:53 AM GMT
    Art_Deco saidI always laugh a little during sex, and afterwards. I mean, I'm having so much enjoyment & fun, how could I not laugh?



    any guy who can get me relaxed and comfortable enough when naked in bed to laugh and giggle is most definately a "Keeper".

    so, far, only my current bf has been able to do this for me. icon_cool.gif
  • samasaurusrex

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    Feb 02, 2011 3:55 AM GMT
    so last time my ex (we still do... dont judge) and I had sex (we still do... dont judge), he was reverse cowgirl (or boy) and his back was against my chest which created a suction sort of action. Basically made a repeated armpit fart type of noise... Needless to say we both tried to hold it together, but eventually both cracked up while continuing the rhythm.

    So no... laughing during sex is good... in moderation. I mean, if you were laughing hysterically during the whole event, Id prolly complain too. But something tells me thats not the case.

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    Feb 02, 2011 5:00 AM GMT
    I took sex too seriously once.
    Although it was with my partner of almost 2 years and we had never did it.

    I got turned off when he laughed during foreplay because I was so fucking frustrated.

    Then, I became single, had sex with a guy and we both laughed at stupid stuff during foreplay and had a good time.

    So yeah, it happens. icon_razz.gif
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    Feb 02, 2011 5:46 AM GMT
    allatonce saidI'm pretty sure you mean subconsciously. Otherwise this story just got a whole lot stranger.


    No it's unconsciously. If you were to subconsciously laugh it wouldn't manifest itself. Unconscious or, lack of cognĊscere denotes a lack of awareness or recognition of the manifested action.
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    Feb 02, 2011 5:58 AM GMT
    That guy sounds like a tool! He must have other reasons unless he felt you were laughing at something he did which made him self conscious. I've giggled during sex which now that I think about it always leads to kissing? Maybe I do that to stop myself frm falling out the bed in laughter as I say some pretty torrid shit when I'm hot and bothered... Any way screw this guy, literally!

    PS I laughed too at MeOhMy getting COCK SMACKEDicon_lol.gif
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    Feb 02, 2011 6:08 AM GMT
    I dated a guy that does this too. He was fairly ticklish but on occasion I didn't have to do much for him to start laughing. I found that it happened more often right after his orgasm than anything. I found it a little annoying at times but honestly knew it was either uncontrollable reaction or he really was sensitive physically.

    I just tried to be aware if it started and move to another area or activity.
  • Beeftastic

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    Feb 02, 2011 7:24 AM GMT
    I laugh all the time during sex, when something goes a little funny, or there is a funny sound or an awkward movement. I've never had a complaint, most guys see this as intimacy, not as something bad imho.

    Maybe he thought you were laughing AT him and not WITH him which is how it should be I guess. Sounds like he might have some intimacy issues.

  • Feb 02, 2011 7:46 AM GMT
    allatonce saidI'm pretty sure you mean subconsciously. Otherwise this story just got a whole lot stranger.


    ahah, TOTALLY noticed thatt too man
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    Feb 02, 2011 10:57 AM GMT
    MeOhMy saidI laughed when I got cock-slapped... does that count?


    I remember back in high school getting cock slapped while I wasn't looking. mmm those crazy southern boy pranks lol
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    Feb 02, 2011 11:01 AM GMT
    He sounds WAY too tense.
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    Feb 02, 2011 11:02 AM GMT
    rjb2001 saidyeah one time this dude was rimmin my ass the whole works while i was on my back. Just they way he made the slobbering noise was quite funny. I started laughing and he did too... I could see how some guys take sex way too seriously and by laughing you have some opinion on his sexual performance....Get over it!


    yeah I really like him. Like him enough to think about settling but after this I think that dream is over now. Now that I think about it. I have a very loud laugh. his friends were sleeping in his place at the time and they may have teased him about my laughing. I just hate this because all my friends like him too. Even thou I live in San Francisco is still hard to find a guy who likes me for me.
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    Feb 02, 2011 11:20 AM GMT
    well i will not mind you laughing with me sexy man icon_wink.gif
  • masculumpedes

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    Feb 05, 2011 1:19 AM GMT
    It's O.K. to laugh during sex ... just don't point ! icon_twisted.gif
  • Nizzo

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    Feb 05, 2011 3:30 PM GMT
    I laugh during sex too. One time, a guy was sticking me so good I was moaning and laughing. That's happened once. When I'm going down on a guy and he's squirms and moans loud I chuckle.


    But I hate when a guy thinks he's the shit and talks smack while smashing. I laugh.
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Feb 05, 2011 3:38 PM GMT
    Depends when the laugh takes place -- if it's the first time you get a look at his cock and you burst into hysterical laughter it could be a problem icon_eek.gif