"He's Just Not That Into You"

  • motivated

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    Feb 03, 2011 1:35 AM GMT
    So I just finished watching the movie and it got me thinking about some things. First of all it is a really funny movie that is filled with scenes that most people can at least relate to some part of. We all have that friend who we have had to speak the honest truth to and say "he's just not that into you!"

    Now I have very little/no experience dating guys, but I have to believe that many of the same rules apply! So which character from the movie are you?? What was your "ah ha" moment when you realized he's just not that into you?

    Or if you are the guy blowing people off....what is the best line you have used on someone? C'mon be honest!!
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    Feb 03, 2011 4:46 AM GMT
    I liked the book more. I thought the movie betrayed the premise of the book, in fact.

    The lessons definitely do apply in the gay world. If a guy's not returning your calls or replying to your emails, he's not into you. Period. Move on to another guy.
  • Noah_b87

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    Feb 03, 2011 8:10 AM GMT
    hey im busy right now let me call you later. icon_smile.gif
    or ive also used the line that i need time to work on myself.
  • motivated

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    Feb 03, 2011 11:17 PM GMT
    You need time to work on yourself.....do people actually buy that...haha?!?
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    Feb 03, 2011 11:23 PM GMT
    I'm usually very honest with other dudes. Will tell someone str8 up that we are definately not a good match. No point in wasting someone's time (or my own for that matter). I appreciate the same in return. Won't hurt my feelings.
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    Feb 03, 2011 11:28 PM GMT
    I'm the one that should be watching this movie repeatedly. I tend to find myself on the bad end of the stick
  • cityguy39

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    Feb 03, 2011 11:48 PM GMT
    I have been on both sides of this fence. I kept seeing a guy I knew who didn't want to date me but had no problem sleeping with me, it took a while to realize he wouldn't change his point of view of the way he saw me. I have also been the one who wasn't interested too, and I told him straight out how I felt, which he seemed to appreciate, he ended up being cool with us being FB's so it actually worked out in the end for both of us. Great movie too, I bought a copy after I saw it on cable, it's kinda like a "Sex And The City" DVD you need to watch it every once in a while to remind yourself that you are not alone in this big crazy ass dating/relationship pool.
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    Feb 03, 2011 11:54 PM GMT
    I always tell someone straight up if I'm just not into them, as soon as I know it, and I wish all guys did the same! Otherwise you're just leading them on. It sucks but you just have to do it. Honesty is the best policy. icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 19, 2013 6:40 AM GMT
    Aggieboy saidI'm the one that should be watching this movie repeatedly. I tend to find myself on the bad end of the stick


    You and me both!
    So done with that bullshit. icon_evil.gif
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    Mar 19, 2013 6:47 AM GMT
    photosrus saidI always tell someone straight up if I'm just not into them, as soon as I know it, and I wish all guys did the same! Otherwise you're just leading them on. It sucks but you just have to do it. Honesty is the best policy. icon_wink.gif



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