Gay men only want sex?

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    Feb 03, 2011 4:58 AM GMT
    Why does it seem like gay guys only want sex...? i mean sex is great and all but I feel that one nights stands don't fill me up. no pun intended icon_lol.gif anyone else feel this way?
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    Feb 03, 2011 5:03 AM GMT
    Your theory will undoubtedly be challenged here (That's just your limited experience, but one day you'll discover and amazing and genuine blah blah).

    My experience is completely yours. I came out at 24, got played and deceived with the purpose of extruding sex from me, and decided to fuck it all (no put intended!) and become celibate. It bred in me (head out of the gutter please!) a general mistrust in men.

    That being said,

    Dominique nique nique, s'en allait tout simplement, routieeeeer pauvreee et chantaaaant, en tous chemins en tous lieeens, il ne parle que du bon dieu il ne paaaarle que duuuuu bon dieeeeu!
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    Feb 03, 2011 5:06 AM GMT
    hahaha.. now that i think of it i was dating a guy who didnt care much about sex and he ended up having a bordeline personality icon_eek.gif my luck!
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    Feb 03, 2011 5:07 AM GMT
    Men want sex. It's the nature of the beast. There are straight men and gay men who are interested in more than sex. It's just not so easy to find them.
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    Feb 03, 2011 5:09 AM GMT
    yeah i hear ya
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    Feb 03, 2011 5:10 AM GMT
    Originally it is true most of us want sex. That's the nature of the beast really. When you find someone you click with you'll want more then just sex but until then I say have your fun. Just be safe and responsible about it.
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    Feb 03, 2011 5:11 AM GMT
    Most humans want sex. Is it unreasonable to ask for more than that? No. But if you want more than that, you have to state it up front. icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 03, 2011 5:13 AM GMT
    (ellipsis)
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    Feb 03, 2011 5:13 AM GMT
    Plus, you're a good-looking guy. People are going to want to have sex with you.
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    Feb 03, 2011 5:16 AM GMT
    men will fck anything icon_twisted.gif
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    Feb 03, 2011 5:17 AM GMT
    LOL. So not true young padawon.
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    Feb 03, 2011 5:18 AM GMT
    Guy101 saidLOL. So not true young padawon.


    This.
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    Feb 03, 2011 5:18 AM GMT
    lol whats that?
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    Feb 03, 2011 5:19 AM GMT
    I haven't had sex since September and I haven't mind being the only person to gratify myself. All a matter of choice for me.
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    Feb 03, 2011 5:31 AM GMT
    unfounded7 saidPlus, you're a good-looking guy. People are going to want to have sex with you.


    Yeah thats true...you will just have to filter through all the guys you meet. I'm sure you will find some decent! icon_biggrin.gif. Sex is always great, but the one timers get kinda old, cause it doesn't satisfy you emotionally like a boyfriend would.
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    Feb 03, 2011 5:32 AM GMT
    youngbulll saidWhy does it seem like gay guys only want sex...? i mean sex is great and all but I feel that one nights stands don't fill me up. no pun intended icon_lol.gif anyone else feel this way?

    Men do want sex. Some also want more than sex. The men in your age range mostly want the sex. Enjoy it while you can (SAFELY!). Before long you'll either find yourself in a different age bracket, or perhaps by then, find a guy who's gonna be your life partner, if you'd like that, and then this discussion will become a moot point for you.

    Shall I tell you how many gay couples I've known who got together at your age, and are still together 20, 30, and even 40 years later? One of those couples I've met at 40+ is right here on RJ, near us in Wilton Manors, and not far from where you live.

    Funny, do you know that young straight women also complain that guys your age only want sex? Men are men, as others above have said. Gay really has nothing to do with it. Male hormones have to do with it, whatever your orientation.

    So patience, my friend. Age 21 is the place you are. Enjoy your youthful bennies while you can, and take the few drawbacks in stride. It only gets better, much better -- trust me! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 03, 2011 5:32 AM GMT
    true story
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    Feb 03, 2011 5:33 AM GMT
    icon_biggrin.gif awesome deco!
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    Feb 03, 2011 5:35 AM GMT


    Best kept secret: a lot of women only want sex, too. When it comes to settling on a guy they often go for different qualities rather than just the thrill of sexual desire met. Many men do this as well, contrary to popular examples.

    Just don't do one night stands. icon_wink.gif


    -Doug

    PS there are a LOT of guys that think the same way you are. Some are here.

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    Feb 03, 2011 5:39 AM GMT
    Because some guys are just horn dog sluts. Its true. Then there are guys, like me, who want a long term monogamous relationship, kids and a home in aspen. It just depends on the guy.

    Dont worry, if you only find horn dogs, youre looking in the wrong place.
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    Feb 03, 2011 5:40 AM GMT
    yeah, no 1 nights stands for now.. with a guy monogamously but i just need somebody to love.. LOL
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    Feb 03, 2011 5:43 AM GMT
    youngbulll saidicon_biggrin.gif awesome deco!

    Awww... thanks for acknowledging my post to you. I'm just one of thousands of guys here who can give you good advice, many of them better than I can.

    You've been an RJ member for a while, I see, but seldom post in the forums. Ask these guys what you wanna know -- they're really so smart that I'm just in awe myself at times. And since you're just nearby in Plantation, if you ever get over to the Alibi or Rosie's, or Scandals, let us know, if you wouldn't be embarrassed being seen with 2 old guys, and we'll buy you a drink. 'K?
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    Feb 03, 2011 5:44 AM GMT
    youngbulll saidWhy does it seem like gay guys only want sex...? i mean sex is great and all but I feel that one nights stands don't fill me up. no pun intended icon_lol.gif anyone else feel this way?


    cos your fucking hot. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 03, 2011 5:46 AM GMT
    We are not on our own, because it can be even more so for our half brothers, if you include the down low factor.

  • Feb 03, 2011 5:48 AM GMT
    I agree. Its hard to find guys who want more than sex. It's beyond frustrating