kandsk saidThanks for replies, but this thread isn't about advice for a clean ass, it's about expectations.
For guys that do have spontaneous anal sex, do tops expect it to be a completely sanitary experience? How often does that actually happen? If you want "right here, right now" do you make an allowance for an un-douched ass? Do any bottoms turn down sex because they haven't prepared themselves for it?
I'm a top and if you like fucking ass, you have to be prepared for a little shit on your dick once in awhile. It's not nice, but it's a reality, I deal with it. Trust me, I will do anything to get my dick in your ass and make you howl in pleasure while I massage your prostate with my thick daddie dick. My bf is naturally clean and I almost never have anything on my dick after dumping a load in him, and we never prepare, when I want to fuck him, I just grab his hand and say, "You, now, bedroom".
However, when my top ass gets hungry and I want to use a toy, I always seem to be dirty. We're just all built differently. Diet makes a difference, but I don't expect my bottom to go without eating for a day first or be eating bran every day just to keep his pooper clean.
If I just picked up a guy and we got hot and heavy, I wouldn't expect him to be squeeky clean.
I disagree with the guy who said it breaks the mood for the bottom to slip into the bathroom first, if he has an anal bulb and it's just a quick rinse, that's only 30 seconds or 1 minute, doesn't bother me if the guy wants to rinse out, I actually appreciate it because it gives me time to pick up his underwear and huff on his ball sweat like poppers! I can always amuse myself with a pair of sweaty undies while he's taking a few minutes to rinse!