me, he and and gym showers

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    Feb 06, 2011 5:52 PM GMT
    Hello everyone
    I am 23 years old and go to a gym where there's a muscular boy, he attracts me a lot .. but I do not know if he's gay .. I would like to find out .. and I never had a shower with him in the gym .. do you have to act in the showers? and what do I do if he is not gay?
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    Feb 06, 2011 7:02 PM GMT
    i really don't think the showers are an appropriate place to find out if someone is gay. even if they are, they will probably feel violated.
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    Feb 06, 2011 7:30 PM GMT
    What can i do??
    ivyjock saidi really don't think the showers are an appropriate place to find out if someone is gay. even if they are, they will probably feel violated.
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    Feb 06, 2011 7:32 PM GMT
    check him out while y'all are lifting, try and talk to him. see where it goes.

    the showers are a sacred place in the gym though haha
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    Feb 06, 2011 7:35 PM GMT
    ivyjock saidcheck him out while y'all are lifting, try and talk to him. see where it goes.

    the showers are a sacred place in the gym though haha

    i'd like to provocate him and see his reaction
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    Feb 07, 2011 12:54 AM GMT
    Drop the soap. If he gets hard staring at your ass, he might be gay.

    Offer to scrub his back.






    The public shower is not the proper venue for finding a date.
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    Feb 07, 2011 4:17 AM GMT
    Agreed with yourname2000 and ivyjock!

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    Feb 07, 2011 4:23 AM GMT
    approach him out of the showers, and strike up a conversation, compliment him on his definition, his form etc. ask him for tips. then get to know him better. do this over a series of times and try and develop a friendly rapore with him. Then after a while u can get to know him better, maybe ask him to go for a drink or sumthing afterwards and ask him if he has a GF etc. u cant rush into it, gotta build up to it.
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    Feb 07, 2011 4:32 AM GMT
    supernova0001 said
    ivyjock saidcheck him out while y'all are lifting, try and talk to him. see where it goes.

    the showers are a sacred place in the gym though haha

    i'd like to provocate him and see his reaction


    Sounds like you want an ass kicking??
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    Feb 07, 2011 10:21 AM GMT
    Sounds like you're looking for a hook-up with a straight guy in a gym shower. Dude, seriously, listen to yourself!

    Show your fellow gym-goers some respect. Don't even think of invading their privacy in the showers. It makes you sound like a slut or a pervert. I thought gym was for working out. And where did you get the idea of approaching him in the shower of all places? You're looking for trouble, and if he turns out to be homophobic, you may just end up in hospital.

    My advice is, treat this guy with some RESPECT. Approach him, talk to him. If he is interested in you he will let you know. If he is straight, you may develop a good friendship and nothing more. If he shows no interest, then leave him alone. It's so simple dude! Respect! Respect! Respect!!!



  • iHavok

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    Feb 07, 2011 4:12 PM GMT
    If you are seriously interested in this dude, the last place you want to strike up a conversation is the shower.

    No one feels comfortable opening up to a stranger LEAST of all when naked. If he was comfortable enough with that sort of behavior, you'd already know he was gay.

    Try leaving the gym (NOTE: Gym NOT locker room) at the same time, and striking up a conversation as you walk out.