How can someone my age who is late to realize about his gay side find someone to help with experience?

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    Feb 08, 2011 11:18 PM GMT
    Hey I am 56 and have had some small experiences over last 18 mo nth but having problems meeting anyone to try more than a quick touch etc any suggestions
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    Feb 09, 2011 4:09 AM GMT
    Glory holes and dildos
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    Feb 09, 2011 4:12 AM GMT
    kinda too late for the game doncha think?....
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    Feb 09, 2011 4:13 AM GMT
    www.manhunt.net

    make sure your pics are HOT
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    Feb 09, 2011 4:14 AM GMT
    Sorry Texan "Mike", but so far you ain't coming across as legit.

    There's nothing on your profile and your punctuation sucks.

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    Feb 09, 2011 4:16 AM GMT
    And I thought I was late to the party (I'm 25...)
    I dunno man, I'm a realist - it looks kinda bleak.

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    Feb 09, 2011 4:21 AM GMT
    mikenwebster saidHey I am 56 and have had some small experiences over last 18 mo nth but having problems meeting anyone to try more than a quick touch etc any suggestions



    Experience is no match to what one is as a person, just remember that! just because someone is totally out it doesn't mean he is more qualify to be a better human being, then one who is closeted or just realized his gay but do have a heart of gold! that said look for someone who is experience with the matters of the heart, and I garantee you will be in great company!



    Leandro ♥
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    Feb 09, 2011 4:21 AM GMT
    You mention your location, but not much else in your profile. You might consider contacting PFLAG in Houston to see if there are any mens groups, or you might check out:

    http://www.houstonglbtcommunitycenter.org/

    or

    http://www.fathersfirstofhouston.com/

    When you start looking, you'll be surprised at what you find. Get to know people, the rest will follow.
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    Feb 09, 2011 4:28 AM GMT
    Squarepeg saidSorry Texan "Mike", but so far you ain't coming across as legit.

    There's nothing on your profile and your punctuation sucks.



    Glad I'm not the only one who caught an off note.
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    Feb 09, 2011 4:42 AM GMT
    iVan90 saidkinda too late for the game doncha think?....


    you just continue to amaze me with some of your comments....who kicked your nuts???...........what a waste of good looks.............Keithicon_rolleyes.gif
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    Feb 09, 2011 4:51 AM GMT
    sorry bud, i may have been a moron, but i had a moticom of respect for people..................icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 09, 2011 5:05 AM GMT
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    how am I waste of good looks? If by that you mean you wanted to bang me...I gladly pass on that :d
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    Feb 09, 2011 5:22 AM GMT
    Well, Mikenwebster, for starters welcome to the site. Now that that is out of the way you might wanna try giving people a reason to wanna have anything to do with you. Fill out your profile and make it interesting because having nothing in your profile would suggest you are either a fake, have something to hide or some wierdo. Either way nothing worth getting to know (it's like a red flag unless people are risk takers and like to gamble hard) and that's not appealing to anyone in this day and age in terms of the internet or in real life.

    You gotta now how to market yourself. You are a product and if you can't sale yourself then don't expect people to be interested in buying into you. Just that simple. As far as the age thing goes, sadly you are at a slight disadvantage depending on what kind of guy you are looking for. If you aren't too picky about who you experiment with then I'm sure you can easily find someone. With that being said, if you are looking for someone younger then you are then you will be hard pressed to find someone. Sorry if that offends some of the elderly folks here but don't act like it isn't a reality. You are nearly 60 years old so unless you are damn hot and have something to bring to the table (your profile suggests you don't) then you are limited to bath houses, glory holes, craigslist and potential sugar babies looking for a sugar daddy. I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and say you are better then that.

    A few people said some really helpful things like checking your local LGBT community. Get out and socialize. Try making friends first before doing the other stuff. That's a good start plus what is your status? Are you out or in the closet? You might not think that matters but it really does when it comes to wanting to experiment.

    Wishing you the best in your journey.
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    Feb 09, 2011 5:24 AM GMT
    iVan90 saidlol-u-mad.jpg?imageSize=Large&generatorN


    how am I waste of good looks? If by that you mean you wanted to bang me...I gladly pass on that :d


    not at all mad Ivan, just disappointed that you can't reach the bar with the big kids......................................Keithicon_wink.gif
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    Feb 09, 2011 5:51 AM GMT
    iVan90 saidlol-u-mad.jpg?imageSize=Large&generatorN


    how am I waste of good looks? If by that you mean you wanted to bang me...I gladly pass on that :d



    lol, you a idiot. O.o



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    Feb 09, 2011 5:55 AM GMT
    mikenwebster saidHey I am 56 and have had some small experiences over last 18 mo nth but having problems meeting anyone to try more than a quick touch etc any suggestions


    Suggestions? Meet a lot of people. Go out, socialize. Be interested in others even if they're not romantic material. It's good practice in understanding others and the insight and empathy you can develop is going to be something good you bring to a relationship.

    -Doug
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    Feb 09, 2011 5:57 AM GMT
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    Feb 09, 2011 7:10 AM GMT
    jprichva said
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    iVan90 saidkinda too late for the game doncha think?....


    you just continue to amaze me with some of your comments....who kicked your nuts???...........what a waste of good looks.............Keithicon_rolleyes.gif

    He's only 20, Keith. We were all morons at 20.


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    Feb 09, 2011 8:03 AM GMT
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    Feb 09, 2011 6:09 PM GMT
    Actually, attractive photos and a nicely written profile are no guarantee either, take it from me. You'll have to be even more proactive.
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    Feb 09, 2011 11:43 PM GMT
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    Feb 10, 2011 12:00 AM GMT
    A lot of regions of the country now have Gay Chambers of Commerce. When I started "coming out" 3+ years ago, one of the most helpful things I did was to start attending the Gay Chamber monthly mixers.

    Many, like me, are business professionals who come to network and "prospect" for business (the primary reason why these groups exist), but many others are simply gay or gay-friendly people who are interested in building relationships with gay people and want to get to KNOW gay professionals so they can support their businesses.

    I've made dozens of WONDERFUL, healthy, deep friendships through these monthly professional gatherings. Best of luck to you in the coming out process! www.cpglcc.org
  • Wallace69

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    Feb 10, 2011 5:43 AM GMT
    Hello
    It just might help if you have a Photo or two.
    Wallace