Dude, it's like the same shit each city. They're only like 20 mins apart. Whether in fort licky dicky or Miami- it's all like one big city. Rent a car and check out both.
I live in ft lauderdale and Wilton manors is where everything gay happens. I think the guys there are nasty. Miami has a younger crowd and hotter guys, however a lot of ppl in Miami have aids, so be careful.